Well, I'm a guy so I'm only guessing but I'm thinking being horny has to be part of it for either sex. Likewise attraction seems needed; who wants to have sex with someone they consider nasty? The opponent must also be appropriate - not a child, not an old person (unless both are old!), not incompetent. Both parties must be proud of themselves and their ability to attract sexual partners.
Why would they fight? Well, the conflict must be about their feelings about themselves. She (or he) is as good looking as I, apparently as sexy; I need to prove I'm better. Sexfighting isn't about a parking place or a spilled drink. It is about sex; basically it is wanting to have sex and showcasing your own sexual 'ability' with an appropriate partner.
Does this make sense to you? I think it would be the same for men or women.
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