Musings of a Craigslist Sexfighter~

[SarahtheSlayer37]

Sexfighting, titfighting, and the various little sub-fetishes of sexual competition aren't the most common kink in the world. So, it shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone when I say that some women who check the woman for woman section of Craigslist juuust don't get it. More often than not, I'll find girls will try to act like they want to try out the fetish, then once we're there in our pretty makeup and underwear, they say something like "oh... you were serious? I just wanted you to lick my pussy." I have had some luck! Not as much as I would want, but there have been a few instances of the girl knowing exactly what I mean when I say "sexfight!" Those, strangely, haven't been the best sexual competitions I've had, but... it saves time.

The thing that is the hardest for people to grasp, which is interesting because this is probably the most common form of competition on this board; is titfighting! Look, just to be frank, titfighting hurts. It is not a kind sport when you're rough, and when you're soft with it, it hardly does anything to the woman unless they have VERY sensitive nipples. Which, isn't as common as you'd think. I actually do have sensitive nips, so a gentle titrubbing battle can get me going... but the full on, hardcore breastpounding war between two busty gals? I love it, but I've only been able to get that to happen about three times! "Won't that hurt us?" Is one of the most common questions I get from would-be challengers, and I have to be honest, yeah, it hurts like hell sometimes. I suspect fake breasts in a titfight would hurt even more (which is why I think most women with fake breasts in porn don't have full on titfights, and just have titrub battles. Napali is a big perpetrator of this,) but I don't have fake tits, nor have I had a titfight with someone who did.

69ing is the easiest thing for people to grasp. "Oral racing," is something I've called it before... and, is something I've had to settle for. "I don't wanna trib, I don't wanna titfight, but I could 69." - Yet another common thing I hear from girls online. I think this is because it is the actual least threatening thing you can do as a sexual contest. It is just oral, and 69s are a very common thing in average sex. Tribbing, at least in my area, isn't that common of a practice, so oral sexfights have been a majority of my encounters. Though, every now and then I'll stumble on a woman who is willing to do it all! <3

Age is also a strange thing of note! I've found younger girls like challenge more than older women! I'll admit... I like older gals. Women in their 40s-50s are a preference, but I mostly get sexfight challenges from girls who barely understand the concept who are anywhere between 18 and 21.

By the way, my girlfriend will not sexfight me, in case you were curious. I've asked! I've begged! She just isn't into it. She won't even watch! She is curious about titfighting, thanks to this forum, but she isn't curious about actually trying it out.

I'm sure a lot of you on here have had a sexfight, or set one up, or had similar craigslist encounters! I would love to hear your stories, and see how things are in your side of the world! Does your husband/wife let you sexfight? Would they sexfight for you? Have you tried setting things up on sites before, and did you go through with it? Men! Have you had a cockfight?

Can't wait to hear from you all,
Sarah the Slayer!

[Ragnar0k]

Hi Sarah,

Thanks for candidly sharing your very interesting and thought-provoking musings on the reality of being a Craigslist sexfighter. This is such great source material for those of us who can only play such fantasies out in our heads so thank you!

I'd like to be able to report my own stories of real life encounters but regrettably have only been able to explore this sexual competition 'kink' through reading, writing, watching videos about it etc.

Although my partner knows about my interest, and is neutral about it, she is not at all interested in acting out any such fantasies.

Being candid, I am not that interested in sexfighting with other men so my own options are fairly limited.

I did once have an interesting homoerotic sexual competition dream that I seem to remember turned into a wet one. Funnily enough, it involved cowboys and I suspect might have been a delayed reaction to Brokeback mountain. I might just actually be able to countenance a cockfight with Jake Gyllenhaal if he asked nicely I guess.


I guess my superpower, if I am ever allowed one, would be the ability to digitally download myself into a woman's body so that I can offer other women proper sexfights on Craigslist, but unfortunately that ain't likely to happen in my lifetime

However, I reaaaally enjoy imagining what it would be like to sexfight as a woman, and hopefully there is a little something of me in both Helen and Mhairi, the main characters in the series of stories I have been posting on hostboard recently. This is actually my first attempt at a sustained piece of writing in the genre and, although I hope it has some authenticity, I know that its a work pure fantasy and a lot of what I write of is not physically, or even anatomically possible in reality...


If you have time and are able to, I would love to read more about your thoughts and feelings as a Craigslist sexfighter. How does it actually feel to win / lose, dominate or be dominated in different situations etc.

Thanks for a great post!

[sffan4e]

Thx for sharing your insights! What I suprisingly miss, is a sexual competition rubbing pussy. I mean, I heard before that some don't want fingering because of hygiene or sharp/long nails. But most girls are OK with rubbing clit/pussy. Like the early videos from Chickfight.com.

I believe XP shared his cockfight experience somewhere on the forum, but I can't find it so promptly.

My personal experiences are described here (Real) life sexfighting
In a while I might able again enjoy some more experiences. I will take things more slowly. Especially because of my past experience.
But I got to know 2 bi-girls who are open to the idea of a sexual competition.
Let's see if I can turn them into sexfighters

[ckskevin]

I am a guy and I do not get involve in cockfight.
However I was very lucky to have a very open gf and a competitive one.

She read about sexfighting and my world was opened by her.

[Ragnar0k]

But I got to know 2 bi-girls who are open to the idea of a sexual competition.
Let's see if I can turn them into sexfighters

Thanks, and good luck with that project, my friend. Let us all know when and we will be on the plane over

[sffan4e]

Thanks, and good luck with that project, my friend. Let us all know when and we will be on the plane over

Thank you for the support. Entrance fee will be 80 dollars per person, which includes 3D glasses. Children under the age of 12 will get 50% discount. Minumum required age is 18+. Bringing own food and drinks is not allowed. Tickets will be on pre-sale at the beginning of February. Cumming soon!

[SarahtheSlayer37]

Thank you for the support. Entrance fee will be 80 dollars per person, which includes 3D glasses. Children under the age of 12 will get 50% discount. Minumum required age is 18+. Bringing own food and drinks is not allowed. Tickets will be on pre-sale at the beginning of February. Cumming soon!

:P Would I have to pay if I step into the challenges myself?

[sffan4e]

:P Would I have to pay if I step into the challenges myself?

Oh absolutely. The entrance fee for participating girls is actually 100 dollars.

This includes facilities to freshen up before and after rounds, usage of the inside and outside pools, sauna, whirlpool, unlimited beverages, unlimited buffet, for an additional 50 dollars you can stay the night, but above all if you win, you get entrance fee times 10 back!

Welcome to the sexfightclub

[SarahtheSlayer37]

Oh absolutely. The entrance fee for participating girls is actually 100 dollars.

This includes facilities to freshen up before and after rounds, usage of the inside and outside pools, sauna, whirlpool, unlimited beverages, unlimited buffet, for an additional 50 dollars you can stay the night, but above all if you win, you get entrance fee times 10 back!

Welcome to the sexfightclub

I think I'll stick to free fights on craigslist, thanks. :P

[Ragnar0k]

I think I'll stick to free fights on craigslist, thanks. :P

B-b-b-but he said you get the entrance fee back times ten if you win - thought you enjoyed a good challenge?