Does sexfighting really exist ? A delayed reply

[Giannis9505]

I just visited this site after a month or so. I read Kamafight's message and all the replies.

To add my opinion :

1// I agree with what my friend Mike (avidmike, chickfight.com) said. "Erotic competition" is a better term for what he, I and some others have in mind.

Notice : Mike is my one of my best "net pals". I have not met him but i "cyber-met" him almost ten years ago, before to start his site. I still remember how we excanged thoughts about how that site should be. We have talked numerous times about the passion for sexfight we both share, although our particular taste is not exactly the same.

2// A similar term i like to use is is "Competitive trib". It may be limited to trib but do not forget that in most sexfights trib keeps the main role.
However these two terms i just mentioned came later, the term "sexfight" had already become known, so we still use it.

Most women who do not know about sexfight that much do not like this term. They feel more easy with the terms i just mentioned.

3// Sexfight DOES exist. At August of last year i had written two articles here about sexfight in real life. They are long enough and they include a somehow "outing" of mine, in order to explain how i am so sure that sexfight exists.

You can find the first of them at the date 8/13 or so and the second of them a few days later.

I do not want to repeat my thoughts after a few months so i prompt those who have not read these articles and they want to know my humble opinion to take a look there.
There is an option at this site to read all the posts of the last year, my articles are in page 5 (page 1 is the current one at 2/11 of 2006) and 4 i guess.

4// I agree with Morton that sexfight between two women who hate or dislike one another and they start a catfight which turns to sexfight later is something almost impossible in real life. Same goes if are rivals because of a reason and they agree to "settle" their dispute in a sexual way. However "almost impossible" does NOT mean "NEVER". That's my point.

5// Sexfight for fun, i mean sexfight as a sexual game (or role playing game) between two women or a man and a woman is something quite common now (at least compared to 10 years before).
That was also Mike's opinion and some others, that's where the term "erotic competition" suits better and i fully agree.

[Giannis9505]

Because some of my friends here told me that they searched and they did NOT find my article about sexfight in real life :

1// Choose "show topics from last year"

2// Go to page 5 (this is valid for today, 2/12/06) and here it is.

However i had also to search for a while my articles before to finaly find it. At first i could not find it also, even if yesterday, it was there. Yes i had my glasses on and i tried HARD without to find it before to display all my articles. Was i wrong ? I hope... i try to not think anything else...

[gymbratt2005]

I personally have been in several punching breastfights with like minded females my age and slightly younger/older.

[bigguy]

Originally posted by gymbratt2005:
I personally have been in several punching breastfights with like minded females my age and slightly younger/older.

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Is this generally considered to be real titfighting? I get the impression that some people find such violence distasteful and look for something more gentle when they think of titfighting.

My stories are likely to contain a rather large content of violence, which makes me consider that the "Pro-Style Wrestling & Catfight Board" might be a better place for them.

I feel that the spirit of my stories is in the right place for this forum, but what's the level of acceptance for things like punching breastfights?

According to www.titfight.org, titfighting just means women attacking each other's breasts. It is not limited to rubbing breasts together, which is probably the gentlest form of titfighting.

[Morton]

I take the term "fight" to be just that. I usually have a certain amount of violence in my stories, both emotional and physical; otherwise we're just talking about play, which in a dramatic story doesn't interest me. I do draw the line at having a lot of blood, people really being seriously hurt or killed, which is a total turn-off for me. But there must be something at stake, whether it's pride or a physical defeat, for there to be dramatic tension.

Some writers announce the level of violence in their stories as a precaution; from what I've seen, bloody or "fatal" stories don't really have a place here and should be on other boards but you can get away with fairly intense violence involving slapping, punching, biting and other aspects of female warfare...

[bigguy]

That makes me feel just awful. I hope I didn't offend anyone with my story. But I seriously doubt there could be a better place for it; it is so totally focused on titfighting.

Someday I will write a catfight story and put it on that board and feel free to make it a violent as I can imagine, but until then I am writing another story for this board. I'm hoping it will be better received than my first, for being slightly less violence, especially at the beginning.

For one thing, I will not be detailing the deaths of any of my characters, though I often like to do that for completeness sake. A story isn't really over until it is all over.

(Also, the next part of my story will include sexfighting, which for me is far closer to sex than fighting. The concept of violent sexfighting makes no sense to me, so there's no need to worry about that. I'm just about to post it, so you can see for yourself. No violence at all, I promise.)

A problem for me is that I'm a creative and artistic type. I like titfighting, but if I'm going to write a story about it, I'm not just going to write some titfighting; I'm going to write a story that has titfighting in it as one element. I can't resist adding other things to flesh out the story. Violence, blood, and death are some easy dramatic tools that I love using. Are people going to hate my story just because I mention someone dying and a few drops of blood at the end?

Are there any actual rules that say that such things are unacceptable?

I hope someone comes forward and says that they like my stories, so that I know that I'm not just annoying everyone.

Now that I think about it, the reason I like to include death and bloody violence in my stories is that I'm a novice. I've gone to school, but I studied science, not art. I like drama, but have no clue how to make it good, so I just shoot wildly with the biggest guns I can find and hope that I hit something. I've read other people's stories, but it just doesn't seem to rub off on me. I'm just hoping that more = better, because subtle writing isn't one of my strengths.

<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ February 28, 2006 10:43 PM: Message edited by: Semigloss ]</font>

[AVIDmike]

I am listed on pnemodelplace.com as an Adult Producer and I get inquiries all the time from women looking for modeling jobs.

I received one just the other day from a woman who is a kickboxer. SHe provided me with a phone number so I called and talked with her at great length. She told me she loves to beat other women at any type of competition and she thought that a sexual competition would be the "ultimate" competition for her. Needless to say, she will be appearing in my videos very soon! :-)

I have talked with nearly a thousand women over the years about sexfighting and this woman is the FIRST to contact me and actually WANT to. Usually, I have to send the woman a video so that she can understand it better but this woman is READY!

Sexfighting(or erotic competition)LIVES!

[bigguy]

Now that I read that, I can easily believe that there is a lot of sexfighting in the world! Even if we don't see much of it, the vast majority of it would be taking place in secret.

After all, it is essentially sex and most people don't go to much effort to publicize the details of the things they do in bed.

Regarding Giannis1's 4th point about women who hate each other sexfighting, it is a commonly known phenomenon that hate can shift to love very easily when there is a strong physical attraction, maybe just long enough for some hot, sweaty sexfighting before they remember why they dislike each other so much.

<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ March 04, 2006 01:07 PM: Message edited by: Semigloss ]</font>

[Pudduh]

I disagree that sexfighting is all trib orientated.

There are a fair few females out there who like to compete through 69 and through any kind of sexual competition (obviously within reason). This way there are more possibilities and the competition is much more exciting.

[KateyRed]

Heh..I do enjoy some playful combat in bed..but must admit that watching two "free" guys doing it is much better [img]wink.gif[/img]