Question:

**imported_VTgal** · November 15th, 2005, 01:22 AM

Answer honestly men....

Have you ever thought, "I'm not good enough" after a relationship has ended or after being rejected?

**knight_67** · November 15th, 2005, 01:32 AM

sure have, sure have..
especially since that ended relationship on christmas of last year

**Big_AL** · November 15th, 2005, 03:17 AM

to be quite honest everyone feels like that when it happens. Dont worry like the old saying time heals old wounds.

**imported_mega** · November 15th, 2005, 01:58 PM

yep, especially when you get dumped for a guy making over a million a year and another guy gonna be a doctor. You start to question everything about yourself, how you look, the stuff you say, how you act, are you stupid, etc. Its pretty much a natural depression.

**imported_VTgal** · November 15th, 2005, 03:51 PM

Just wondering if guys ever thought that. I don't personally know any male that ever thought that.

However, it seems to always be a woman's first response after a break up.

**1inStripes** · November 15th, 2005, 04:38 PM

I am with them Kelly. If it is someone that you ever cared about, I least in my shoes, it went through my mind about that.

**R0cketer** · November 15th, 2005, 04:47 PM

I think that daily/regularly. Seriously, guys for the most part are more protective of feeling that way, and wearing it outwardly, but we think that too, it's just not macho to admit it or whatever.

Heck, not feeling 'good enough' is one of the biggest reasons why I think I have hardly asked any girls out in my life. In the old days, I used to be more appealing or something, they asked me *lol* Now I just doubt myself too much.

So I can't speak for all guys, but I know at least one who thinks that way.

**CoeburnCane** · November 15th, 2005, 08:30 PM

I thought that for a split second after my ex-fiance left me for my ex-best friend.

Then I wised up. Sometimes when you're a guy or a gal, and someone decides to leave you--you've got to decide what direction to go into and go after it 100%. This allows you to leave those insecure thoughts behind and work on you and improve yourself for your own gain---then it becomes that guy or gal's loss once you've made yourself unattainable to them.

I had my fiance leave me, and here's how it all went down--I worked on my accounting degree, and now work as an accountant for a publicly held local company. She's got her history degree, but has a "career" with Movie Starz in Wise. (LOL) The guy she left me for was a janitor at Wellmont with no degree at about the age of 33. My g/f now is much cuter and more loving than my ex ever was, and she's a grad student at ETSU. I think I came out pretty good in that situation... [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]