Ex-Wives

[censored] my exwife did me wrong. It wasn't long after we lost our child, when she decided to cheat on me. I guess I wasn't there enough. Hell I even found her on a dating website with a nickname I gave her. LPD and Indian_Dad know that messed with me. Hell if it wasnt for them two I honestly dont know what I would have down. So thanks bros. I was pretty head over heels for that girl from day one. I was willing to over look all her bs to stick it out and make it work. It took me almost 8mos to get over it. Finally I just let go. It was tough. But I her she is with some [censored] now, lol. Deserves her right [censored] it. Oh the funny thing about me, Indain dad, and LPD was that we were more or less going through the same [censored] at the same time, lol.

Misery loves company. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

You know what amigo? We all got through it, and we're all still standing.

Thankfully, I was never married. But I have been through the wringer with my boy's mother, so I kind of know how you fellows feel. She took my boys to Lexington and had the nerve to tell me that I should give up custody of them because they are going to live a better life up there. Well, guess what? No way in hell I'd ever do that. And that "good life" they were going to live didn't last that long.....she was back down here in 4 years time, which ticks me off because I missed all that time with them. Fortunately, I've met someone that can put all that old pain to rest. Hopefully at 40, I can finally find happiness!

[censored] getting married! [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

I just got married 16 months ago. This is all so much fun to read I can't stand myself. I do believe I have a good one, no GREAT ONE. She has been married before and went through a divorce so she knows all about that. I am also thankfull that I didn't marry the first girl I was engaged to and we split just before we did get serious about marriage so I wouldn't be going through a divorce which most likely would have happened.

I've never been married but i dated a girl with a kid..and i went through some hell there..The baby wasnt mine but i loved her like she was. Id sit at the house with her while her mom was out at the club doing who knows what.. I was in that relationship for almost 2 years but it felt like 15, it was hell. We stayed together and she calmed down a little bit stopped going to the club but started workin at sykes and after a few months we broke up and she done had a new b/f from sykes

I have a great one now. She, like me, went through a hellish first marriage. We both learned alot. My ex isn't fit to shine elp6n's shoes [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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Somebody's chances of getting some tonight have went throught the roof ! j/k [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Just be glad you got out when you did balla33, without having to go to extremes.
I'm all about family and stuff. But when it's is killing the whole family or the main two members cannot make work. Why make the whole family suffer? I mean let's be honest.
Lung sounds like he has had the best of it so far. And im sure others are looking in saying i have been there.
But until you been on the side of a woman full of vengeance, no one knows. Three years after the divorce and several thousand dollars later, i am just now finding the peace i should of found, a few years ago.
Believe me sometimes you will do or pay any amount to find some peace of mind and just some peace.
And yeah i know what Indian_Dad went through and Shoe as do they know what i went through.
I will say thank God for divorce. It may not be the best thing and bibical, but i think it also says it's better to be on the house top than in the house with a brawling woman.
Not just woman it goes both ways. But mine was with a woman. She may of been right but after so much crap. Sometimes you just don't care or can't take no more. And that is from either side.
Later guys. And as i always give others advice. Talk and always talk, keep that and other things active, it keeps the marriage going, and helps to work through the hard times.