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National Enquirer of HOD ? [img]wink.gif[/img]
I would echo what Andy Edwards and DSOP said. If a woman senses you are dependent in a clingy way, and feels your insecurity, she may take great pleasure in torturing you emotionally. I'm not saying be the bad guy, but some women love that dynamic. Go out, get drunk, pick up some women and have a good time. Throw it back at her and then move on. Afterwards, go play some drums. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
Sleeping with another guy when you guys were apart is to be expected... more often than not women will do those things (or many other crazy things of that nature) when they break up with someone because, well, that is just the way it is... the rebound. The first one i would let slide because you were broken up and when you are broken up, that type of shit happens. The second one, well, that is the one that would worry me. That is the one you need to deal with... whatever the circumstances are/were, that will be the determining factor.
Let the first one slide because you weren't together at the time, the second time is what i would think about.
Heaven and hell relationships are. [img]confused.gif[/img]
Sounds very familiar to me. Went thru the same thing, but I was the one that was boning everything in sight. But "she" left, so I felt I was entitled.
After 6 months (6 months of which I was dating several women, went to France for month and got lots O French tail, etc) I shacked up with my old kiddy sweetheart. That lasted 1.5 years after I found out she was a flaming drunk.
I had kept in contact with girl #1 over that period, just sending her a card every once in a while (like 3-6 months apart). Sent her a B-Day card, etc. She called me one day after I broke up with the drunk and said she was hating life without me in it. We've been back together now for some 2 years and it's like were married. In hindsight she told me that she always loved me. That there was too much history between us to forget that. That she found herself thinking about me more and more as time went on.
Buddy... If she really loves you, let her go. Just let her know you love her and you're giving her her space to figure things out. Continue on with your life, date other women, and keep your mind busy. Know what they say, an idle mind is the devils play ground. In other words... thinking about the situation and dwelling on it at all will just bring about negative, non-positive effects. Stop sending the flowers and the cards. Stop calling her. Let time pass... ALOT OF TIME!!! If she loves you, she'll come to her senses.
Like all my friends said. Things happen for a reason. After the dust settles and you get your head clear again, you'll understand that much better. Your life will take the path it was meant to take if you trust in your passions and likes.
If you get back together with her, make sure you have her get a disease test BEFORE you check her oil!! GOT IT!!! VERY IMPORTANT!!!!
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">DITTO!! Don't play Russian roulette with your pistol.Originally posted by JoesMechanic:
If you get back together with her, make sure you have her get a disease test BEFORE you check her oil!! GOT IT!!! VERY IMPORTANT!!!!
Ditto Andy Edwards..
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