It's easy to forget the limitations of a message board when communicating below the surface thoughts.
My gut feel about the question of why someone loses their stuff is simple...AGE! I can't overstate this fact enough...the body doesn't respond they way it did as a 25yo. You can keep mentally sharp, but the physical will not progress equally. There are exceptions, but they are, well...exceptions. As time goes on, your motivation changes--what was incredibly important at 25 can be ridiculous at 45 to some. SOme might call this maturity.
Also, rock drumming really started in the 70's for the most part. We are now seeing the case studies of those who can still play this music after 50--that is, those drummers from the 70's.
A rock gig is not a jazz gig. When I see Joe Porcaro play in his late 70's, he is not pounding out drumming that a leader for the next OzzFest is interested in. Certain art forms require more energy than others and thus allow for a greater lifespan. Do you think Travis Barker will be playing the way he does at 57yo?
Personally, I think Neil's contributions for the future lie in his mind, not his hands & feet. The man is incredibly articulate (written & verbal) and can teach well. He has so much to offer experientially. Communicating clearly is a gift as much as playing great. The thing is the man has something to say after an incredible life as a drummer in a band loved by millions worldwide. His view on life is interesting as well, and personal tragedy has given him a depth beyond most--he was pretty deep as it was.
Lastly, I must heartily agree--we all deal with pain differenty. To one, it pushes them forward, to another, it breaks them down. It is easy to judge others here--and we usually do based on how we would react to circumstance. It is hard to have a, "Seek to understand before being understood" attitude. In short, most people rarely "really" know what is inside a man. You could play in a band for thirty years and still yet not really know those you make music with and stood side-by-side with all those years.
How many really knew what Carlos was going through? The list goes on...
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