(Real) life sexfighting

[sffan4e]

I was not sure to share these experiences for quite some time. But then again, some things have changed for me. So I decided to do so, in the hope that it might be of use to some of you.

Not everybody is so lucky to experience a real life sexfight. I am amongs one of those. And as we all know, girls who slap the hell out of each other, pull hair, scratch each other, is not sexfighting, but catfighting, right?

So in a few occasions I paid for them. In some parts of Europe prostitution is legal and regulated. They pay taxes, have unions, police presence to keep the order, etc. And I am talking about adults, as no minors are allowed. Of course, I realize not everything goes as it should be, but that's another discussion.

So to come back to my experience, it appears practically all the 'working girls' are unknown to the existence of sexfighting. So I had to explain everything to them, and show them with video examples of what I am looking for. And it has been difficult to find the right video to show them what I meant, especially in a short window of time. That's also why I posted a while ago what you think are good videos to show girls what sexfighting is about.
To stimulate the competition I often offered a significant prize/bonus to the winner. For some girls this seemed to help motivate them.
Also, sometimes I had to intervene if things got too much to the regular lesbian side.

Just realize that some girls get it, and some girls don't. Especially if it's the first time they see and hear about it. That's why I would not bet all my money on 1 horse (ok, it takes 2 to tango, I mean trib... Ah you get the point ).
Also, men are like a light bulb. You push the button and we switch on. Girls are like volume knobs, you turn them on slowly. So in my experience, it's worth to take the time (and thereby money) that the girls can get into the mood. A 15 or 20 minutes quicky might be enough for a man, but for a woman it might not even be enough time for foreplay. So I would recommend to save up for an hour or more. And remember that it is double the price because of 2 girls, if not even more, because it's not regular sex.
I myself, don't want the girls to really hurt each other. So be clear to discuss what's OK with them. Also, beforehand check what is possible with the girls. Some have problem with oral, some have problem with trib, some might have problems with sensitive body parts because of cosmetic or surgical recovery. One time, I found out only after the girls got busy and naked, that she recently had a C-section and was still recovering. That was a bit a shock to me, and immediately toned down the intensity and changed some positions she would be more comfortable with.
Because I realize it's a fantasy, and we have to respect what the girls are OK with. So try to think of positions they can do beforehand. For example, a few times one or both of the girls have long nails. That's not comfortable to penetrate pussies with. A solution for me were a couple of positions they could rub pussy with. Some positions work better with long nails, like the side by and stroke down instead of up. Or have them both on their knees facing each other, so they could easily rub the others pussy with their hand. All the while kissing and use the other hand on tits, butts, etc.
And again, check out what they are OK with it beforehand.

And also, check with them both present so that both are clear what is to be expected. I one time was in a hurry and the day before only talked about it with one girl. She would talk with her friend. It appeared she either did not duscussed or did not understood English as well as I thought. Because things did not turn out well. There was no chance of a sexfight, as many things the other girl was not willing to do. And one of the rules practically all the girls have, is that they don't do refunds! So that was an expensive lesson I hope you can avoid.

The best live action I had was when the girls are really into each other. Duh!
But what I meant to say is that most girls prefer/like guys. They sometimes do a little trio with some soft lesbian play, like caressing the other girls tits, rubbing their breast together, or lightly touch the others pussy. But things like kissing the other, fingering inside the pussy (some do only with condom), oral, ass fingering, tribalism, etc might be out of the question. And they quickly wanted to start to pleasure the guy, instead of each other.
So what I did at some point, after the first step of asking what they are OK with, was to have a short 20 or 40 minute lesbian session to check out how their chemistry is together. If that part was not hot, than the sexfight would most of the time be a disappointment.
But if things did turned out well, than I brought up the sexfight element. And introduced the prize for the winner. I realize that most of it is a fantasy in such setting, and the girls might share the prize later. I didn't mind, but the prize often did help to motivate the girls.
Sometimes it was better to tell what the prize was, buy often I found out it was better not to. Especially in the beginning some girls thought I was joking about it.
And also, sometimes they started to talk about sharing the prize beforehand. There goes your competitive spirit right? All little lessons I learned on the go, which I hope you can benefit/learn from.

Another thing I experienced is that some girls are stronger in sexfighting. When you have 1 pair where 1 girl wins all the time, it might get boring or frustrating for the looser. The fun for me and her ended their. There is no chance for her to win, in a for me possible way. Theoretically, you could setup a handicap match where the weaker girl only looses when she gives up/wears out, but wins if she can make her opponent to orgasm at all. But I do not know how long that might take. Half a day, a whole day?

In the places I have been to, the girls were all available to fuck with the guys. So after the match, it was no problem for them to pleasure me.
But if you ask for 2 lesbian escorts, you might not get the release from them you had hoped for. So keep that in mind.

Also, another point of the girls being really into each other, is that's for prostitution girls, it's best if they know each other intimately. Because than they know if both of them don't have health issues, what the other is OK with and how they can make the other cum.
I noticed that some girls might be willing to do stuff with an unknown girl, but that might be less intense and hot. Like they don't want to trib or do oral. Totally understandable for their own (and your) health safety.
But if the girls know each other, take their checkups together at the same doctor, etc things could really fire up!

Something that Giannis said about custom videos, also counts here. The girls are not machines. Not every day is the same, the mood might not be the same as well. So sometimes it could be more hot that other times. It's not a sexfight video you replay.
Just like a football or soccer match, things might be different every other time. Keep that in mind.

Also beware that some girls might lure more out of you then you are comfortable with. I can not press this enough. To me it was not only important to make clear what I was expecting/hoping to see and what the girls were comfortable doing, but it was also important to make clear to all the girls what they could expect from me. Because some girls wanted more as things progressed. And I don't like that. It turns me off. I know the extra's is business for them. If for example with regular sex you want/need extra time after the first 15 minutes, you have to pay extra. If you want to have anal sex, you pay extra. Etc etc. And not only that, you have to pay upfront. Makes sense for the girls, because there are people out there who might try to get away with some free service. But what a turnoff it is that with each and every thing the girls say that it takes extra and you have to get your wallet dozens of time. It might not only be more costly, but it also personally turns me off. Especially when they start begging.
Of course with some girls, who got to know me a little longer, they know I keep my word and can even pay afterwards. But in other cases it would be wise to make things very clear beforehand.

To spice things up... 2 is better than 1 right? So I not only had 1 pair of sexfighters, but even 2 pairs on the bed! Boy, I needed more eyes! There was too much to see and I almosy had to run around the bed to see all the action.
I only did this with girls who are comfortable with each other. Otherwise things also got boring. But when the chemistry is good, things were amazing. Teaming up, switching partners... Oh boy, it was like in a candy store...

Another combination I enjoyed very much, perhaps even more than 4 girls, we're 3 girls. More is not allways better. Ok, perhaps 5 would be better than 3. But what I want to say is, that I had 3 girls try to make each other cum. The 1 who came would rest and pleasure me. The 2 remaining sexfighters took each other on. When 1 of them came, the looser came to me pleasure me, while the one who just rested took her place. Just like my the Alpha blonde custom video, but now the looser not only rested from her orgasm, but pleasured me while doing so.
So more is not allways better...

Something you might consider if you have the opportunity, is to see if you can be present during a sexfight production. In the past I know Tribgirls/HPC, Ultimate Surrender, etc. had such opportunities to be present during the match. Those girls often are experienced sexfighters. And chances are relative huge that you get what you have seen in their videos.

One more note when watching a life sexfight between 'working girls', is that they are not used of being watched. Most customers come to have sex themselves. Not to be (only) a spectator.
So, many if them were worried that I was filming them secretly. It helped a little bit that I showed them the custom videos I have had made, but only a little.
It didn't help that at first I kept my clothes on, because I wanted to see a life sexfight. Not to participate in one. Some girls were worried about that the most. Was I having a hidden camera in my watch or one of my shirt buttons, or something. Because nowadays they be as small as a needle head.
So later on I not only explained that I wanted to watch, don't record anything, showed them that if I wanted a video I had producers made them for me, and that if they would feel more comfortable I would take my clothes off. And if the action was hot enough, for me to join them. All that made them a but more at ease. So keep this in mind, because a sexfight is already new/strange to them, but having you only to watch and nothing else can be really weird for some of them.
One girl really was freaked out, because she later contacted me again, and was asking if I really didn't make a video. Fortunately there were a few things I was able to do, to make her feel at ease and all was fine afterwards.
But really understand that practically all of the girls do NOT want to be recorded at all. Some might, after you discuss what is OK with them, but often in ways that they are not recognizable. Because some have family and friends who do not know the work they do.
If they wanted to be on video, they would have done porn.
So really DO NOT VIDEO them in any way, without prior permission. That means to be also careful with your mobile phone, when you go into sauna clubs or red light districts with Windows. I have seen cops being called in within minutes, to check/clean someones phone. That is no fun and the other girls will probably ignore you forever.

Hope these insights are of any value. And feel free to add your own insights and experience, so others can learn from.

[labeltornoff]

Also, men are like a light bulb. You push the button and we switch on. Girls are like volume knobs, you turn them on slowly. So in my experience, it's worth to take the time (and thereby money) that the girls can get into the mood.

That's an insight that many of us miss. Guys get aroused easily [raises hand], and often assume that women are the same. Sometimes that's true, but not always. Besides, a build-up -- the anticipation, as Anubisx once said -- can increase the impact when the sex turns to fight and vice versa. I prefer the slower approach, even though some of my stories start with a slam, bam, wham. But, then, I'm a guy, and can't help myself.

Thanks for the post. Keep up the good work.

[sffan4e]

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That's an insight that many of us miss. Guys get aroused easily [raises hand], and often assume that women are the same. Sometimes that's true, but not always.

So true indeed. When I asked for a lesbian show to see if they can make each other cum, some said that they need more time than 20 minutes or so. And in most occasions I genuinely believed them, that it was no sell pitch. Most, because with some you could tell.

For me it was actually to check out their chemistry, if they might be hot for a sexfight. But a good thing is to know if they can arouse each other to the level of an orgasm. Which is one of the things I enjoy to see.

Having said that, I have also seen girls who were ready to cum in 5 minutes if her partner did the right thing. And it was no spit or gel. Because later on, I learned what she liked, and I could also make her cum in 5 minutes. And boy, she would get really really wet!!

Besides that, for an orgasm, I think you really have to be in the moment. With girls too, if they loose their concentration, they loose that momentum... than the orgasm is gone. If she's horny, you don't have to start over, but distraction is no good.

So although everybody is different, I do believe in general girls need much more time.