That's an insight that many of us miss. Guys get aroused easily [raises hand], and often assume that women are the same. Sometimes that's true, but not always. Besides, a build-up -- the anticipation, as Anubisx once said -- can increase the impact when the sex turns to fight and vice versa. I prefer the slower approach, even though some of my stories start with a slam, bam, wham. But, then, I'm a guy, and can't help myself.
Thanks for the post. Keep up the good work.
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