.... I will admit - I have a Family Fight Fetish. So - I am not without sin.

This brings up the whole matter of WRONG FANTASY, and what makes imaginary scenes wrong to even imagine in words. A recent example - Because of the delicacy involved in relating fights between pregnant women, (even if the babies are not targets or threatened),( like the wild but goofy fight I saw), and because of the World fascination with teen girl girl fights on You Tube I want to point out that Fetish fixations are usually formed at early puberty by strong impressive sexually charged contacts ... with boots, with big breasts, with fighting, with role warps and transgressive behaviours. Son Mommy/ Daughter Father fantasy prevalence is huge in both genders and is not really linked to actual incest at all.

The female fantasy of being subjugated and taken by force IS NOT A DESIRE TO BE RAPED. My belief is that it is wrong to confuse the language of fantasies which give private catharsis with the language of domination and diminishing used in public discourse to put one group over another. This is one area in which feminist critique has demonstrated a tin ear for distinguishing one thing from another.... especially for females as it is my experience that females have all the ranged of foibles and fetishes that males do.

Puberty Onset sex fetish frameworks is a trope of sex fantasy as is Spring/Winter liaisons between males and females and males and females in the two roles.

I am not the moderator, but MikeJV gave me the job of deleting SPAM Ads and Sex or violence with pre-teens. I let some speculation of such combats fly, but I kill minor sex materials on sight. The outright promotion of combat on such straddles the line. But honestly, Shirley Temple fought several famous fight on YouTube sites, so it also comes down to feeling tone as to if that stuff is cute or porn. But not here. Ok?

My Rule as to Why I Remove a Post

Any fights under 16... even if it have no nudity or sex may be deleted.
Sex or nudity with people under 18 is also off limits.
High School (age) fights, (thanks to YouTube), are quietly allowed.

I think ALL FANTASY is fantasy and Constitutionally Free Speech BUT the venue has to be either PRIVATE or ACCESS CONTROLLED. No Minors. AND ....Someplace Else.

Please accept this in the sense I intend. And note: E-mail or Private Message exchanges are just that PRIVATE and protected as being off campus as far as my admin reach.

I made up this set of rules to keep hands off, but protect the board and do what I think keeps us all on the same site if not much liking some other people's threads.
PLEASE, if you must vent, vent at me, not each other.