promiscuity

[soulfilms]

why is it that women are considered 'easy' by the same token that men are considered successes?

[Alex]

Probably because of the idea that the guy "seduced/conquered" the women into being "easy".

[soulfilms]

the things is these days, a girl's considered quite loserish if she's a virgin and not young yet if she's promiscuious, she's considered a **** and branded so for the rest of her associations with such acquaintances. men are just considered losers if they're virgins with no repercussions if they're not (that's unless they themselves go and catch something).

[soulfilms]

i'm in the middle of <u>The Female Eunich</u> by Germaine Greer.

maybe that explains things a little.

[Alex]

Part of what you're dealing with is idle minds idleing.

It can get quite boring when one is not revving their own engine, so why not look and judge someone else. I have managed to AVOID these idlers. Not by choice, not by judgement. When I associate with people, it's because they need to create.

I consider sex a trivial camoflauge of what's really important.

<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ September 07, 2002 12:40 PM: Message edited by: Alex ]</font>

[soulfilms]

and what is it that's really important?

[Alex]

creativity.