A Dilemma(of sorts)

[Sam Gowland]

'Agony Uncle Alex' [img]wink.gif[/img]

[img]graemlins/sleepy.gif[/img] After spending an entire night with this guy whom I'd only just met, do I now make contact with him or await his first move????...

Do you think it was perhaps just a one night stand ???? lol

Star

[Alex]

[img]graemlins/star.gif[/img] As long as you whistle while you wait, all should turn out well.

(that sounds like a fortune cookie, doesn't it!)

[Sam Gowland]

*begins to think 'perhaps I've been whistling the wrong tune' [img]graemlins/wonder.gif[/img]

[Alex]

Have you ever experienced the "I'm waiting the for the phone to ring" routine? Was it a one time thing, or does it periodically happen?

And being of sound mind, which do you think is most normal of these three scenarios? "Waiting for the phone to ring" once, and then never again? Going through this scenario periodically, (say once a year). Going through this scenario everytime one's heart is aflutter?

[Sam Gowland]

Truthfully, I'm not a waiting around type of person. I can't remember ever putting everything on hold whilst awaiting someone to get in touch. If I really wanted to keep in touch with someone I would make sure i had some way of contacting them be that phone number, email addy etc and then I'd probably contact them.

If (as i'm forcing myself)I had to pick one it would more than likely to be the first option. Give them that one chance they might call. when they don't move on and don't waste any more time waiting on them.

[Alex]

sounds pretty logical to me.

I must inspect for cracks.