how do you discipline your child/ren...I have tried timeouts...taking things away from them and groundin them...nothing seems to work for them...its not my 12 year old daughter can careless if she loses her dvd or any of her other major things and when i ground her to the house for a day and let her go out the next day she'll just do it all over again...its like she enjoys it [img]confused.gif[/img] ...spanking i will not do...no kids deserves to be spank for no matter what they do..

what to do?