Whatever

Now you will feel no rain
for each of you will be shelter to the other
Now you will feel no cold
for each of you will be warmth to the other
Now there is no more lonliness
for each of you will be compantion to the other
Now you are two bodies
but there is only one life before you

May you live in love and joy together
now and always

--Ancient Apache Prayer

you know what ladies ...i been thinking...Love is shit ...men want you to love them because they think your the one they love...they look after you love you tell you words of encouragement help you make you grow up..then all of a sudden you become this hated women by all his mates a slut a whore all the things he liked about who you wer,nt before...god i need to find out more about this love shit before i take another step....

Yanno Soul.....Being hurt is the hardest thing to get over...Moving on is even harder than that...Time heals nothing at all....but with time things tend to make more sense.......When you fall in love and lose it ...if you do it once...or do it a few times through out your life ..each and every time there's a lesson to be learned...and the best you can do is learn it.

Personal things..and matters of the heart are best left for private conversations...between the only two people who really knows what happened.

If I have learned anything from Love its that there is always two sides to every story...and having people who dont know the two sides judge the situation makes it all the worse.

If you lost this time....Hold your head up high and know you will learn from it...Hope to hang onto a friendship...maybe someday that will turn into more......and please
Dont worry what others think.....cause you know at the end of the day there is only two people that have to deal with this...and how they do that is nobody's business but their own.

and one more thing before the sermon is over..*G*

No matter if its love or friendship...If you dont have trust ...You have nothing at all....I firmly believe that...If you cant trust what the person says.....If You cant believe what they are telling you at all times...No matter how much love is there...It wont work without the trust.
And trust is the hardest thing to get back when its lost.......
Ok.....no more preaching.......Please continue as if you all were normal.. [img]graemlins/smarty.gif[/img]

heidi and I were once in love. Just about to get married and everything, got up to the alter the Reverend said his bit and then it came time for the vows, here's what they were...

heidi's: TJ, I will love you forever. I will be there for you through thick and thin. Every day will be all the more sweet so long as we are together. I would move Heaven and Earth to make you happy. You are my friend, my rock, my love and now you are my husband.

So sweet, and then it was time for me to give my vows...

mine: heidi, you've got a great ass.

She smacked me, left me at the alter and I haven't seen her since. Love's tough.

LMBO@rev...

anyways.. soul.. heidi is right.. love will come and go in and out of your life right up until the day you die... not every man is out to hurt you, or control you, or whatever, some of them actualy really do care... don't let one bad experience change it all for you... but be careful with that L word, hey.. don't waste it on someone who doesn't deserve it

*LMAO@ Rev...thats exactly how it went down.. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

I think everyone needs to keep in mind that there are TWO sides to every story and unless you sat down and got both You really cant judge it one way or the other........its good to be supportive.......but its not fair to assume someone is to blame...when you dont know for sure...Yanno..

Thankyou *S* ,,,,You have seen the truth Heidi and i have read your words and mulled em over and its got to finish ...I guess when you have something so special it is hard to know when its got to be sorted he is a good man..
.............trust is the key .......he lost his trust in me through my own doing...*S* be safe

has never taken sides... good luck with that, soul...

I wasnt pointing fingers Paige...I dont do that if I usually say the name outloud.. [img]wink.gif[/img]
it was a general statement..
Well Soul.......I wish you all the best with that too....Cause I know it sucks.. [img]confused.gif[/img]