Have you ever..

[oranges]

yes...


its such a strong word

[Hannibal]

But why couldn't you just hate them?
I mean... i dont see how you can WANT to feel one way towards someone, then "not be able to"
it's a feeling, it's not like, an ability...
it's just a feeling
if you want to feel that way, then do it.
What stops you?

[oranges]

maybe that the hurt you feel wasnt directed at you but it reflected back to you... make sensE?

[oranges]

ok now you've got me thinking damn you... its after school hours [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]

putting all that effort into hating someone is a waste. i know i am better than that so why not just accept that is that and move on? besdies im probably just jealous more than anything.

[oranges]

hb is ganked... again [img]graemlins/whatever.gif[/img]

<font color="#000099" size="1">[ July 30, 2004 04:03 AM: Message edited by: oranges ]</font>

[oranges]

and again [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]

<font color="#000099" size="1">[ July 30, 2004 04:04 AM: Message edited by: oranges ]</font>

[Hannibal]

Wanted to hate someone, but couldn't?
How does that work?
I personally, have never experianced that...
but.. someone said it the other day, that they wanted to hate someone else, but couldn't...
just curious...

[Hannibal]

Well, i guess what I was getting at, is that ultimately, you're in control of your outcome... right?
I mean, if you want to hate someone ,then do it.
But I agree oranges..
as Henry Rollins once said...
"To hate is to show you still care, who needs that, focus on what's really important. "
right?

[Hannibal]

Sorry for making you think oranges...
I would've posted this in an actual philosophy board, but the only one worth a piss, banned me for no reason.
Well, there is a reason, but... it's stupid, and petty, and childish.
But that's another "stupid session" all together.
So, anyways, sorry for making you think.

[Blazey]

ppffttt..i'll bet to them the reason wasnt all that.. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

hate is a strong word but its only a word..it depends on the person themselves i think ..as to what actually effects them..if i said i hated you hanny..would you care?..nah..prolly not..but if i said it to jason..yeah.he would care..difference in people ..some words effect..some dont.. [img]cool.gif[/img]

<font color="#000099" size="1">[ July 31, 2004 02:25 PM: Message edited by: Chele ]</font>