A lot of the ladder theory sounds accurate to me.
Basically a guy meets a woman,judges her looks and then he decides whether she is a pleasant person or not.
You may think,"yea shes hot,but I bet shes a whiner for sure and would be a lame matress partner".
On the other hand you may meet a woman and think,"well shes happy,a bit ordinary(lumpy body parts),but I bet she knows how every thing works and would be an enthusiastic matress partner!"
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