What now?

**diluted** · November 10th, 2004, 09:52 AM

well ive come to a new path in my life,

ive successfully lived under my own steam for three years now (depending how you look at it) you might say two however its coming to an end perhaps

my flatmates are leaving julia is off to auckland to live with her boyfriend and bcome a teacher as she is now fully qualified and ashticles is trying to find a new flat with new flatmates (we have lived together for 2 years afterall)

so i may be moving on home an interesting prospect ...

just dunno what its gunna be like, i kinda wish i was more impulsive and actually felt like throwing some cash together for a ticket to england or something ...

**oranges** · November 10th, 2004, 08:18 PM

england sounds nice!!! [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

just kidding... [img]tongue.gif[/img]

perhaps you could just do what dew is doing and find a new flat [img]biggrin.gif[/img] wouldnt be so hard... people always need new flatmates... that would be being impulisve as you would be doing something out of the ordinary and meeting new people at the same time while doing it for cheaper than a plane ticket to england

**demon chloe** · November 10th, 2004, 08:24 PM

sends you money to travel:::

**SHATOUSHKA** · November 10th, 2004, 11:31 PM

call me biased..... but i feel that once you have
made the adult decision to move out... its rather
gay to move back with your parents.

i can understand if you were really stressed or
something extremely bad happened and you NEEDED
to... but let's face it, 4H, you are 21 now...
you have a job... you have the means to make it
on your own. why move home?

i can only assume it is because you are scared
to live alone? or if you have other people that
are interested in being 'flatmates'... why not
do that?

i think you should seriously think about your
options and the pros/cons before chucking the
towel in the gay direction.

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**diluted** · November 13th, 2004, 04:28 PM

the thing about moving home is the ability to save $$$ very quickly something that is not so viable while flatting,

as for living alone id love that but its not economically viable in New Zealand without earning pretty decent money

however as it stands i am probably looking at finding a flat with tenants looking for one more with an aim to saving money to buy a car and then with a view to moving home once i have purchased a car

moving home would allow me to own a house within 18 months of the time that i did move home which is part of my goals at the moment

just cant spell

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