In talking to some bisexual women,their mores seem to get bogged down in some rather bizarre (at least to me anyway) double standards.Some feel that if they have a boyfriend or husband and play with a female on the side they aren't cheating.They feel it to be cheating only if they're with a man.Then others will say that their affairs with women are just for sex pleasure and that their affairs with men are for love.What's funny is that these same women will also complain about a man who pursues women just for pure sexual pleasure.That is, to them, it's OK for a bi woman to pursue another woman purely for sex, but not OK for a guy to do the same thing.(Weekend Huntress Disclaimer:I know you frown upon casual sex,so I'm sure you don't subscribe to this way of thinking)Kind of like it's OK for an African American to use the "N" word on another African American, but somehow taboo if a white person does it.
Disclaimer:I realize this in no way describes all bisexual women and this is NOT meant to be a generalization of any kind.Just an observation.
Double standards of any kind have always perplexed me.