You start.
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Alex
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You start.
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Alex
Yes, but i don't know how.
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I don't think they can exist either.
Oh great, now what!
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Alex
let's arm wrestle
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General Philosophy
no, its a contradiction in terms.
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your turn....
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Ah, forearm play. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif
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Alex
Why would the two be mutually exclusive? Say I come up to you, tell you I'd like to have sex with you, however I have had, do have and likely will have many partners besides you. If you say OK, we find a place to get it on. If you say no, I bow politely and disappear into the mist. What's unethical about that?
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Until the day arrives when we treat our non-sexual partners equal to our sexual partners, personal ethics will always take a backseat to Sexual promiscuity.
In your scenario, you said you would walk away, because the other person said no, and that would be fine. Walk away as in "see ya".
But if you had had even remotely good sex with that person, in one way or another, that person will probably remain in your life.
And down the road, the person you had sex with (unless it was awful) will have "favored nation" status over those you don't have sex with.
The sex card leads to further possiblities.
The values, responsiblity, or ethics card, usually leaves you with less from others, but more from within.
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Alex
i think alex went off into a 'future tense' tangent. (love it!)
anyhoooo,
the two are significantly diverse, thusly, they cannot, nor will they ever be compatible under any circumstances. here's why:
simple:
the fact that you went up to anyone and asked for sex means that your sexual promiscuity proceeds your ethics.
amen.
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