Katherine Mansfield's "The Garden Party"

Why do you think Laura is unable to finish her final statement, "isn't life...Isn't life--". The narrator says that "she couldn't explain" what life is. Her brother Laurie responds by adding, "Isn't it, darling?" What is the "it" that he speaks of? Why the "darling"?

A little help here please. Your response should be a paragraph length (at least 7 sentences...I want some thought).

Enjoy.

Mr. Branch

PS - please feel free to respond to previous posts by your peers. The only rule is no attacks, although you may refute, disagree, and discuss them.

Laura can't say what she wants to say to his brother Laurie because she feels confused and overwhelmed by her visit to the dead man's house. The blinds that were covering Laura's eyes and holding her innocence were finally taken away, and Laura felt happy but overwhelmed. When Laura tries to explain the visit to her brother, he interupts her by saying, "isn't it darling?" Laurie doesn't use these words to refer to how nice it is to see/understand the pain of others. He uses these last words, meaning how beautifull it is to see things in another perspective, seeing things how different people see things. Laurie says it is darling to learn and experience what's outside the safe and comfortable social bubble. He probably says this to her little sister because he himself had been in the same position already in the past.

Juan Max Boettner Breuer

Laura can't explain what life is because this is the first time that she has experienced life. Prior to the death of the "neighbor," Laura lived in her bubble where everything was perfect. For the first time in years, Laura was not being protected from what occured in society, therefore seeing what reality is made her feel "marvellous." Nobody can explain what life is, but most of us experience what life is. Before seeing the dead "neighbor," Laura was naive and did not understand life. Now that her eyes are open, she starts to understand what life can mean and that confuses her. Knowing something new always confuses people.
Laurie uses "darling" to describe life. Not that death is something joyful, but that life brings with it a box full of candy, each candy being different. For the first time, Laurie is seeing Laura grow up, seeing Laura pass from a stage of naiveness to maturity.

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Why do you think Laura is unable to finish her final statement, "isn't life...Isn't life--". The narrator says that "she couldn't explain" what life is. Her brother Laurie responds by adding, "Isn't it, darling?" What is the "it" that he speaks of? Why the "darling"?
A little help here please. Your response should be a paragraph length (at least 7 sentences...I want some thought).

Enjoy.

Mr. Branch

PS - please feel free to respond to previous posts by your peers. The only rule is no attacks, although you may refute, disagree, and discuss them.

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<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I think that what's stopping Laura from elaborating further is the fact that life is characterized by very antagonistical concepts. She lived a life of luxury on her hilltop manor, surrounded by glamour and comfort. When she travels downhill, she sees the drudgery in which millions of others live firsthand.

When she lays her eyes on the dead man, she comments that "he was wonderful, beautiful" despite the fact that "all the same [she] had to cry". Hence, the dead man was a paragon of serenity and, simultaneously, of sadness.

Laura could not possibly embody all of these opposites in a single word that would describe the whole neatly. Life is miserable, finite, and difficult. At the same time, however, it is miraculous and beautiful. There's despair and hope, death and birth. When Laura saw Scott's body, she realized all these things. Her inability to express this new body of knowledge, however, is not born out of an inability on her part. Rather, it is a discovery that every person must make for his or her own self: thus, it is implied that Laurie already confronted a similar situation and gleaned said knowledge from it.

This ties into the concept of a "loss of innocence" in that her mother, perhaps symbolic of God's warning to Adam and Eve, tries to tell her "don't, on any account--" when she leaves the house. What she hoped to say is not told to the reader, but it is possible to infer that she hoped to warn Laura against seeing the body, against forsaking her innocence in the face of death. Much like Persephone, Laura becomes inextricably chained to a new perception of life, of which her mother might be able to free her temporarily but never perpetually.

As for Laurie's comment to his sister, his reference to "it" is simply an all-encompassing reference to all of life's contradictions. By referring to "darling", Laurie is not only comforting her sister but, perhaps, elaborating on her own conceit of life as "darling", something dear and cherished.

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Laura is not able to describe life because she doesn't know what life is. Laura for the first time saw, through the dead body, what life was really about. Life is about death and the unjustices that society makes. Laura has been blind of what is occuring in her surrounding due to her status in society. When Laura saw the dead neighbor, her eyes opened and saw what she has been deprieved of. The dead body/neighbor represents the passage from being naive to achieving maturity.
When Laurie says "darling", she refers to how beautiful life is. Laurie has seen what life is really about and has pierced the bubble that has been surrounding her. With the dead body, Laura was able to pierce her bubble and see what the "real bubble" looks like.

First of all, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to define life outside of the field of science. On top of this, however, Laura does not know what life is, therefore she can not come up with words for it. What had just happened is that she got a taste of the real world, outside of her family's aegis. For the first time, she experienced something foul first-handedly.

To the contrary of most of my classmates belief, I do not think that the word darling was used to describe life, but an affectionate name for Laura. Basically, Laurie did not say anything about life either, and by saying "isn't it, darlin?" he says nothing new, but supports her way of thought, as if saying "You don't have to try to explain, I understand". The "it" that he speaks of is obviously the concept of life.

Laura is unable to describe life, because she has merely received a taste of it with her shocking experience. She has no words for what she feels, because life simply can't be described in words. Only aspects of life can be given characteristics, but not life as a whole. Here I agree with Mr. Kennedy. Additionally, Laura is perplexed, seeing her perfect world fall apart with a horrible event such as the one that happened. She might have heard of many horrible things in the past, even worse things, but she has never experienced them personally. This is why the death of her neighbor has affected her emotionally so much. The "darling" is just Laurie comforting her and being kind. It is not describing life because it is after a comma.

Mauricio Rodriguez

Laura couldn?t explain what life was. She begins to experience a new part of life. Before, words such as death and sadness were not in her dictionary, and now she was starting to grasp their meaning. Even though we wouldn?t know for sure, but perhaps it was the first time Laura ever cried. She cried because she saw something that should had been awful, yet it was ?marvelous? for her.

Furthermore, Laura couldn?t explain what life was because from learning a new part of it, she realized how little she really knew about it. In Laurie?s respond to his sister, the ?it? refers to all the novel feelings and the boundless mist of life. Understanding Laura's status, he uses ?darling? to help her define life because he knows that there still much more for them to discover.

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Laura is unable to finish her description of life since life iself is something hard to explain. Besides, Laura, of all people, has a even smaller sense of life due to her naive mind. She is surrounded by her family and innocence so that she has very small idea what life really is. However, seeing her dead neighbor brought reality and pain. This experience becomes her first encounter with "life". When Laurie says "isn't it, darling?" he is talking about life and he understands how her perception of life has changed. I agree with Chris when he says Laurie used "darling" as a name for Laura and not to describe life.

<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ August 12, 2007 10:09 PM: Message edited by: alexiacalo ]</font>

What Laura feels after she leaves Scott's home she can't translate into words. So overwhelmed by what she saw and realized, Laura became unable to tell Laurie what life really is, which embodies both her realization (kind of a comming of age realization) and her still present immaturity and innocense. That "it"is missing. That ambigious adjective not even Laurie can fill in. This is Mansfield way of telling/not telling us what life is: vague, finite, beatiful, ugly, dark and bright. All of these adjectives crammed into that "it" to explain what Laurie felt, which obviously can't exist.

The darling. Perhaps Laurie was treating Laura as a child who was just born (you know, comming of age and all). He was looking down at her as if saying "you are still a child. you have a lot to learn."

Yet another comming of age story for the record.