i like roxane.
i don't know much about her... and yes, my
information (though limited) comes from a biased
source.... but from what i know, i like her.
from what i've seen, i like roxane.
i like how she will confront wes.... perhaps
a bit hostile... but always head-on... and not
in some game-playing way that most typical
females do. she doesn't resort to emotional
'you are so mean to me' type posts in order
to get her point across.
she isn't perfect.... but she is stronger than
other options i've been accustomed to.
i realize i'm no one... and i don't want to
get involved.... but i've heard enough...
not just here... but in general...
and its time i say what i need to say.
i think wes and roxane would be a good couple.
they are both stubborn, head-strong, independents
that clash at times (hense the bitching)....
but are so similar its scary.
because roxane is similar to wes, she can
easily distinguish whats going on... and what
motives cause what reactions.
she can analyze, predict, react, and judge...
all based on certain properties of a situation.
these are all qualities of wes.
these are not bad qualities.
perhaps roxane forces wes to see a view of
himself that he'd rather not see... a view of
himself that he wishes to ignore... and this
is what causes some conflict.
but no matter... showing this view is always
constructive in theory. you can lead a horse to
water but can't make him drink.
this is true of both of them.... they both
seem to feel the same in certain aspects,
but currently both are struggling to attain
some hidden apex of respect... without really
seeing what the other is saying (maybe because
the realization is too great).
so X has screwed around (maybe not literally)
with other people... maybe X has played games
so much with other people that Y is pissed
off.
from what i understand, X and Y are free agents.
in being a free agent you have the liberty
of seeing whom you wish to see, and shouldn't
get flack about it.
however... i also think that if X is messing
around with people just to make a powerplay
at Y... then shit is ganked.
perhaps i know more than i should... i dunno.
but what i do know... and what i'm about to
say... i've always said since the first day...
i've talked about it alot... and i still think
the same way....
roxane is a good change for wes.
i deeply feel that both wes and roxane like
each other and they both know they should be
together.
perhaps there is a problem with good communication.
its a problem all over.... its the largest
problem in regards to relationships and the
biggest reason people don't 'work out'.
THIS is the single biggest issue between roxane
and wes, from what i've seen.
i think roxane and wes should be together....
i think a new slate should be made... scratching
all else from it... and certainly scratching
M from it.... as this variable is nothing but
a nuisance anyway (we all know how i feel about
that one).
i cannot stress it enough....
i dunno what else to add. i'm merely rambling now.
but i just thought it needed to be said.
so please... for the love of GAWD....
end the bullshit.
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