sorry

You had no need to say sorry Pnut!!! We support each other here.

Hugs you again!

<font color="#9966FF" size="1">[ October 24, 2003 04:30 AM: Message edited by: Barb_T ]</font>

I don't know what you posted and subsequently deleted hun but I'm with Barb in that you NEVER have to apologise for posting your thoughts on here. [img]smile.gif[/img]

it's ok. i read the rules again and it says that serious personal issues shouldn't be discussed. i didn't think before i posted. i'd just had the worst day of my life. it was the funeral for my friend today. it was horrible. his coffin covered in the australian flag, the last post playing (he had been in the navy). he was too young. i wish i'd done something to stop him. there can't be a god. life really does suck.

I can totally sympathise with you hun cos I too was at a funeral yesterday of someone who died way too young and was a genuinely wonderful person.

Yep, life truly does suck sometimes. [img]frown.gif[/img]

Yes life indeed sucks and he was far too young [img]frown.gif[/img]

Pnut have you been able to speak to anyone at Reach Out about how you're feeling, all of which sounds very normal in the circumstances?

I know how I felt after Sandi's funeral and even how I feel now. Sometimes it's very hard to come to terms with no matter how much we try to help sometimes there is little we can do. You and your friend did try Pnut!

P.S. I am on MSN atm

<font color="#9966FF" size="1">[ October 24, 2003 06:30 AM: Message edited by: Barb_T ]</font>

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Originally posted by Pnut:
it's ok. i read the rules again and it says that serious personal issues shouldn't be discussed. i didn't think before i posted. i'd just had the worst day of my life. it was the funeral for my friend today. it was horrible. his coffin covered in the australian flag, the last post playing (he had been in the navy). he was too young. i wish i'd done something to stop him. there can't be a god. life really does suck.

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<font size="3" face="Tempus sans ITC, Papyrus,Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Pnut Im soo sorry that you lost your friend. That must of been an incredibly emotional day. There are no words to offer you comfort. Time is the only healer of such wounds.
I honestly believe there is no way you could of stopped him. You just cant stop someone who wants to do this believe me. All you can do is be the best person you could be and I believe you were. Talk to as many people as you can and know that you are allowed to feel as much as you are feeling.

Kat

I'm pretty sure that guideline doesn't apply to your situation and I'd like to echo what everyone else has said.

Michelle

xx

<font color="#9966FF" size="1">[ October 24, 2003 02:04 AM: Message edited by: Pnut ]</font>

Hugs you tightly!

Pnut some things are just beyond comprehension [img]frown.gif[/img]

Aww Pnut i dunno what you posted but i am sorry. I really feel for you. like i have said to *just about* everyone on this board, if ever you need to talk i am on MSN (or you can email) [email protected]

I will be glad to listen. like Kat said, time can be a good healer

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