You know what ive always said about that Dave.............................................. .......IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO CRY!!!!!
I see nothing wrong with a man crying, it lets me know he has some feelings way deep inside his soul
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You know what ive always said about that Dave.............................................. .......IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO CRY!!!!!
I see nothing wrong with a man crying, it lets me know he has some feelings way deep inside his soul
Of course it is ok for a man to cry. And I must agree with Twilite: It takes a real man to cry!!!
well??????
all that is human can be moved to tears...from the lightest soul to the toughest of hearts...
what an absurd question....
everyone cries....everyone...it's not a gender thing.... and it's not up for debate if it's "okay"...to do so...
people can c ry if they want to....
in fact..... sometimes i wish i owned stock in kleenex..or puffs [img]tongue.gif[/img]
but seriously.... tears are no different than vile swear words coming out of someones mouth... or inane lies that sneak out during tense times....
its just emotion in the form of precipitation
<font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">ummm...excuse me? you calling something i ask "absurd'???- lemme think how many threads you start (never getting much reaction) like "it's monday"..."it's thursday"... how very RUDE of you to answer in this manner.Quote:
Originally posted by demon frog:
what an absurd question....
everyone cries....everyone...it's not a gender thing.... and it's not up for debate if it's "okay"...to do so...
people can c ry if they want to....
in fact..... sometimes i wish i owned stock in kleenex..or puffs [img]tongue.gif[/img]
but seriously.... tears are no different than vile swear words coming out of someones mouth... or inane lies that sneak out during tense times....
its just emotion in the form of precipitation
"everyone crys"...really- do you know everyone?
<u>everything</u> is up for debate amy- even those things that don't include you.
i would have answered this earlier but i just got power back after 4 days of no power-no water...with destruction almost as bad as the hurricane of past...winds as high as 87 mph hit us and things happen when that hits you-and to see this...
yeah i know some of your "people" might try to bite me by saying you were just voicing your opinion...ok-
me too...i think your opinion is not only absurd-
it's rude.
and as far as those who might come back to do the above...enjoy the bite..take two- i can handle it.
i want to add that this is my opinion only and does not reflect on the other 2 mods on Liars.
thank you to Twi- F.P. and Evo for their contributions and thoughts.
there was a reason i asked the question.
i still seek others opinions and thoughts....as absurd as that sounds...
<font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">ummm...excuse me? you calling something i ask "absurd'???- lemme think how many threads you start (never getting much reaction) like "it's monday"..."it's thursday"... how very RUDE of you to answer in this manner.Quote:
Originally posted by Father Dave:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">Originally posted by demon frog:
what an absurd question....
everyone cries....everyone...it's not a gender thing.... and it's not up for debate if it's "okay"...to do so...
people can c ry if they want to....
in fact..... sometimes i wish i owned stock in kleenex..or puffs [img]tongue.gif[/img]
but seriously.... tears are no different than vile swear words coming out of someones mouth... or inane lies that sneak out during tense times....
its just emotion in the form of precipitation
yeah i know some of your "people" might try to bite me by saying you were just voicing your opinion...ok-
me too...i think your opinion is not only absurd-
it's rude.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">jeez...let the elastic out on your panties DAvid. I was saying it's absurd to think of emotion as being a choice of someone else other than yourself.
Yanoo...DAve...we go way back. Far back. I remember the days when you were just finding Absolutely Wrong w/ Reved... but his name was different back then. I was far from putting you down. I was just saying what I felt.
It's cool if you don't agree w/ me. I can read your words about my posts that get no comments. Tell me how you really feel DAve. [img]smile.gif[/img]
Bring it on....
I on the other hand wasn't trying to be rude... I was just pulling from my heart what I felt was something I was compelled to respond to.
I cry. Therefore I knew what I wanted to say when I responded.
No need to worry tho DAve. I have no henchmen to come and bolster my views. I am a loner here.... which
obviously you already noticed by your pointing out my absurd and ridiculously low commented threads.
Peace be w/ you and your soul DAve. May you live the life you've cultivated for yourself in the goodness of the blessings of those that you love and love you in return.
I apologize for my rude remark.... wasn't intended but when necessary I shall always try to right the wrong I've chalked up....
live the life you've imagined for yourself...
My apologies to Lady Love and Wild for putting my thoughts on your board.... I thought all were welcome here. Obviously I was incorrect.
Wild..... Lady.... w/ regrets. [img]graemlins/wilted.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/thumbs_down.gif[/img]
the last post is as big a piece of crap as i've ever seen- looking for the other two to jump in and excuse the rudeness you apologized for- lord does it get any more pathetic?
my point was to let those reading this know it was a personal view- but you, of course, have to try to make it a political tactic.
and the comment that <u>YOU</u> cry? i didn't ask if YOU cried-but it comes around to being about YOU...as usual.
i will take time to comment on your former post tomorrow- but for now- my statement is that the latter post is uncalled for but usual YOU. can't keep things between two- gotta pull others in for safety and comfort. not a problem....sincerely.
a pissing contest this shall not be- just an open exchange.
chapter 2 tomorrow.
Have at me DAve. Obviously you're irked about something.
I truly was explaining myself. OooPs... I said something about me.
It's all a bout me... me..ME!!!!
WEll, it is my world..my life should be about me. I stand... again on my saying. Whatever your agenda is, I can take it. Just be at peace with yourself and then all is good in your world.
Since you addressed this "cry" issue on a public forum and I was not banned I thought it was okay for me to put in my two cents. That's what a public forum is. And YeP...you didn't ask if
I cried I just added that... it was a choice I made all on my own. Imagine that!
As for my apology to Lady L and WIld....I still stand right there..... because I did not intend for one minute to start a pissing match and I won't. Even now all I am saying is... tell me what really is on your mind about me.
Again, I apologize for my rude remark.... wasn't intended but when necessary I shall always try to right the wrong I've chalked up....
you are repeating yourself amy-a sign of other problems.
i have decided to leave this thread up for 24 more hours and then delete- something that goes against my grain and before anyone starts with a "censorship" issue- it's not...it's just not worth making this board a bitch out shout out board, although if PM'd by either of the co-mods-and they have no beefs about it i will do just that.(i was an invited host here and respect the majority mod opinion and if given none will err to the light side)
in the meantime a little advice for the frog or the MOney whatever gal- don't try to analyze my thoughts. seems to me you would be better served to go back to school and learn your trade better or seek professional help to know that the sun is the center of the universe- not YOU.
now i am getting ahead of myself as i promised i would not-
your sugary epitaphs and invites to open up might work on 10 year olds but don't phase this old fart.
soooooooooooo i will let this stand, with notice that tomorrow, about this time, it will be like that great film...Gone With the Wind.
oh and your statement of it being YOUR (caps mine) world...wow.....just......wow.
yeah you're right..i do have a few problems this fine THursday....
-... my dogs in heat...she looks miserable...
-... i have no orange juice in the house
-... the flowers out front wont make it thru fall
-... my Mom didn't do so good on her test yesterday
and a few more I shall keep to myself...
Thanks for the comments Dave. You are truly a gentleman. You really know how to charm a great group of people here at HB. As for me your words only stung in one spot...
Go ahead and delete it. Why keep it up until tomrrow?
I still stand by my words.... my life is my world...I share it. Youre not the only one who volunteers... and does good... [img]wink.gif[/img]
But... alas... it is my world...
Be gone little t hread.....get on out of here....
Peace be w/ you DAve.
I better go to therapy now... bon jour mes amies!
Did you mean: bonjour mes amis??
controlling people tend to give "permission" for what is stated to be done (ie delete thread)- keeps them feeling in control.
may keep it around for shits and grins.
that is what i meant actually...my 7th grade french isn't as good as it once was.... thanks
and you can keep it...i kept it too ...i kinda like this discussion....
Since this is an open forum. I'll add my two cent on the original topic.
I dont think its ok for men to cry. At least all the time and about everything.
I think there's nothing more ugly than a man that whines. I understand heartbreak, loss in life. Of course you'll shed a tear.
Some men though piss and whine about everything. Sensitive men are not my thing.
I need a man with strong shoulders.
Thats just my 2 cents.
Just to add, Amy and I have been friends for years. We couldnt be more different. Yet we never felt the need to attack each other cause our opinions are different or the way we express them is different.
Why ask for an opinion, then be pist when its given?
Dave you can have at me too. We have no history so it'll be more fun *laffin
i was waitin to post this
i agree with chloe though, everybody cries
and i'd have told ya that i cry, too
but i'll tell ya what i see.. *L
a lot of mm... inventory takin... that's not yer own...
of course it's okay for men to cry
so long as it doesn't happen in front of me!
Oh wow, I rarely come here but for some reason today I wandered in. Imagine my suprise to read this buncha horse shit. Dave are your true colors finally coming into play here? Don't you know that with every finger you point there are several more pointing back at you? You didnt ever have the guts to talk like this on my forum so you go and get added to this one so you can finally say the things you have been holding in for quite some time. I cant say that Wild and LL would really like to see you doing this to Amy or any other poster here. Maybe they need to rethink the dubious honor they bestowed upon you? Your threat to delete the thread makes me think maybe they wouldnt want to read it or know that you were the reason behind it.
If your thinking of taking a shot at me..think again. You already know I can hold my own dont you? lol.. You crossed the line when you made things personal with Amy. It's one thing to state the obvious but entirely another to drag personal things into a discussion on a forum isnt it? If I were you I think i'd let it go now for your own good and the good of others that really dont care to read this garbage. Now thats not a threat to you either, its some well meant advice. I happen to have thought better of you and I want to continue to do so. Don't prove me wrong..
Its ok for men to cry
anyone who knows amy *which you dont* knows she wasnt attackin the question but just like she said that cryin is limited to woman.
dave to attack someone like that made you look really stupid...thats just my opinion so dont cry about it ok.
but if you wanted to cry it would be ok.even if you are a "man"
Oh I forgot to answer the question! Yes, I think its OK for men to cry. They are human just like anyone else. If they didnt cry I'd be worried about them! Now that don't mean I want to see a whiney baby LOL but when something bad happens, or an emotion is strong and a man sheds some tears..its a beautiful thing to me. It just shows me that no one is immune and that he has feelings. No shame in that at all!
<font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Tahoma,sans-serif">You shure know a lot about SIGHcology...Quote:
Originally posted by Father Dave:
Did you mean: bonjour mes amis??
controlling people tend to give "permission" for what is stated to be done (ie delete thread)- keeps them feeling in control.
may keep it around for shits and grins.
Hiya Everyone... [img]smile.gif[/img] ..... welcome to the fabulous CRazy Liars board.....
How come none of you get your ass handed to you in a sling? [img]tongue.gif[/img]
I think if something really bad happens, Of course its Ok for anyone to cry. Heartbreak, loss, that sorta thing.
Some men are just sensitive, cant say much to them, and they pout.
Its unattractive. I agree with Paige if you're goin to cry. Dont do it in front of me *laffin
one ofs my henchmen musta put the phear of gawd in DAve... cuz eye ain't scene him make a peep about what a disturbed creature I am for almost 24 hours!
gotta love when he does PM
tis very rare when the fear of God himself is neccesary....Often men are swayed by fears of other things..or simply no longer have the spirit to fight...
that could be...
i didn't want to fight to begin w/....
because...even tho i stand by my every stinkin' word up there.....i ended up getting pissy towards the end...
telling me i have signs of other problems... yeah... i got some problems... alright.. wanna see my rash?
You're right, maybe he hasn't the spirit to say rude remarks anymore...or maybe the power went out on his hardened heart...
Whatever goes on in his life...I shall say it again... I hope he lives the life he imagined for himself....
after numerous attempts to get back into this thread and being bounced by ie - i'm finally through. it's gotton very childish and seems like the emperor has no clothes and i'm the only one to see it...not sure what the reference to any pm is about, but as my grandma usta say- "the more you stir shit the more it stinks" so let's let it go.
everyone semed to be served-amy got attention-some others got to bust on ole' dave and i got some much needed numbers posted....yay us!!!
peace be with y'all.
stirs dave more
HAHAHAHAHAHA i get it!!!! dave = shit HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
next?
*wanders in and reads*... holy shit! *blink blink*....*wanders back out again*..... [img]graemlins/wonder.gif[/img]
<font color="#600080" size="1">[ September 22, 2006 08:39 PM: Message edited by: Rogue Angel ]</font>
you mean holy dave?