sometimes life sucks...

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July 11th, 2005, 04:12 PM
Dajistano

Grail, that really sucks.

I'm sure things will work out for you...
July 11th, 2005, 04:13 PM
Peter Peeker

ah, the family tie-in...
yeah tht would make it pretty damn hard.
July 11th, 2005, 04:20 PM
Dajistano

Scott.

Heh... [img]tongue.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 04:37 PM
Peter Peeker

[img]confused.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 04:54 PM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by Dajistano?:
Grail, that really sucks.

I'm sure things will work out for you...

Thanks man!

Quote:

ah, the family tie-in...
yeah tht would make it pretty damn hard.

That's a part I'm not to eager to see... she's really close to her familly, it's really important for her and the bonds are pretty tight... I wonder what backlash I'm exposing myself too... only time will tell...
Right now I'm kinda pissed off at myself. I feel like I've should ended that thing a long time ago, but never had the courage... and now that everything is coming into place... I don't know how to say it... it just sucks... I'm on my lunch break and I don't even want to eat...

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Scott.
Heh... [img]tongue.gif[/img]

oups... did I reveal a secret? lol sorry if I did... [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 04:55 PM
Peter Peeker

not at all, my beret-wearing pal.
I just don't get Vag-istano's reply. [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]wink.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:01 PM
grail25

a beret... grrrr I hate that...

I'll hate papy for the rest of my life because of the Mr steeve show!!! At least in the next one I hope I'll wear a fur hat! [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:02 PM
Dajistano

Quote:

Originally posted by Peeker:
not at all, my beret-wearing pal.
I just don't get Vag-istano's reply. [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]wink.gif[/img]

It's just weird because this was the first thing I thought of.

http://www.scottbrand.com/us/images/...ain_tissue.jpg
July 11th, 2005, 05:02 PM
Peter Peeker

ya will NOW... [img]wink.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:06 PM
grail25

I hope I will... one like Daniel Boon would rock!
July 11th, 2005, 05:06 PM
Peter Peeker

Quote:

Originally posted by Dajistano?:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Peeker:
not at all, my beret-wearing pal.
I just don't get Vag-istano's reply. [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]wink.gif[/img]

It's just weird because this was the first thing I thought of.

http://www.scottbrand.com/us/images/...ain_tissue.jpg<hr /></blockquote>I actually own stock in that company.
[img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:08 PM
Spore

Quote:

Originally posted by madadman:
...once they've made up their mind...

Damn... wish I had known a woman capable of that when I was dating...

Women troubles just suck.

The things I learned are:

1. Cut the ties and never, ever go back.

2. Seriously look at your relationship without "love" as a factor and you can quickly determine if it's worth even sweating over...

3. Women are a dime-a-dozen... unless #2 says otherwise.

[ July 11, 2005 02:09 PM: Message edited by: Spore ]
July 11th, 2005, 05:12 PM
Dajistano

Quote:

Originally posted by Peeker:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Dajistano?:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Peeker:
not at all, my beret-wearing pal.
I just don't get Vag-istano's reply. [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]wink.gif[/img]

It's just weird because this was the first thing I thought of.

http://www.scottbrand.com/us/images/...ain_tissue.jpg<hr /></blockquote>I actually own stock in that company.
[img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img] <hr /></blockquote>Well, they're about to hit the shitter.

Literally.

Oh, I make myself laugh. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:17 PM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by Spore:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by madadman:
...once they've made up their mind...

Damn... wish I had known a woman capable of that when I was dating...

Women troubles just suck.

The things I learned are:

1. Cut the ties and never, ever go back.

2. Seriously look at your relationship without "love" as a factor and you can quickly determine if it's worth even sweating over...

3. Women are a dime-a-dozen... unless #2 says otherwise.
<hr /></blockquote>It's #2 that is getting me right now... My gf is a little younger than I, and I'm really seing that whe're not at the same step in our lives... I don't want to wait another 5 year before she comes live with or 8 years before i get a kid... The more time is passing, the more I'm thinking f*ck it... I'll find another...

... actually I did, but she's already taken... [img]redface.gif[/img] [img]tongue.gif[/img]
July 11th, 2005, 05:18 PM
DARTH POOH

Grail,I'm most sorry to hear of your woes..
Only you can decide where your head is at though.
Personally, I'd flush the $600.00 and not go, but
I say that due to an experience of mine from years ago. Similar situation..Relationship ending and being stuck traveling together.
Man, I hated it because I kept getting flirted with by attractive women..but was still tied to this doomed relationship.
It's kind of hard to have fun when some girl is asking you something like :
Q "So where are you staying?"

A "err..with my future ex girlfriend."

So that's just my opinion, due to my history.
I hope you find the answer that best satisfies your situation's needs. Again, sorry things are so crappy right now, but this too shall pass.
Ron
July 11th, 2005, 05:23 PM
Peter Peeker

Daj, yer not far off...
I've less money now than I did when I invested. [img]redface.gif[/img]

not like it was any serious cash, mind ya.
July 11th, 2005, 05:25 PM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by DARTH POOH:
Q "So where are you staying?"

A "err..with my future ex girlfriend."

Lol! Actually I did say that to one of my friend *feels almost a shame* [img]redface.gif[/img]

I think the worst that can happen while I'm on vacation his that we'll go our separate ways during the week... I just don't want to break up while I'm on the plane on the way back... Papette sugestion wasn't bad... I realy have to wait and see how everything turns out... I mean I'm pretty sure of how it's gonna turn out, but when... that's another story...
Last night I really came close to the subject... but I've put on the break at the last instant.
July 11th, 2005, 05:26 PM
Quikman

I would say go with her, you never know if the vaccation saves the relation ship. You could perhapps think if you dont gothat " darn what if the vaccation hade worked " better to take the chance then soak about it later and if it dosent help then try to enjoy it so that you two will have a nice last memmory.

otyher then that I can just say good luck man hope it turns out for the best whatever you choce to do

// Mac
July 11th, 2005, 05:30 PM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by Plo Koon:
I would say go with her, you never know if the vaccation saves the relation ship. You could perhapps think if you dont gothat " darn what if the vaccation hade worked " better to take the chance then soak about it later and if it dosent help then try to enjoy it so that you two will have a nice last memmory.

otyher then that I can just say good luck man hope it turns out for the best whatever you choce to do

// Mac

Thanks Mac!
I don't think the vacation will really do something for us... whe already patched up our relationship a couple of time over the last 3 years... I think it's time I move on to something else...
July 12th, 2005, 03:07 AM
grail25

... and I'm in that phase right now... let's just say that everything is going down hill with my girlfriend and the end is really near... I just need something else... I can't speek with her right now because next week we're going on vacation for a week and our plane ticket are already bought. I'm sure that if I bring up the subject right now, everything is gonna end right here and now... Sometimes I think that maybe the vacation will bring us closer together, but after last night, looks likes it's not gonna work... shit...

Anyway sorry for ranting... just had to get some off my chest...
July 12th, 2005, 03:14 AM
madadman

Sorry to hear about your troubles. One thing about women, once they've made up their mind about something it's hard to reverse it. Hope the trip helps, but personally I'd get to the bottom of things now and possibly cancel the trip. It could be really uncomfortable if you don't.
July 12th, 2005, 03:17 AM
Peter Peeker

damn, Dom...

all I can do is wish you my best... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/beer.gif[/img]
July 12th, 2005, 03:19 AM
grail25

Actually I think whe're both seing that the end is near... So at least it's not only her decision... You're not the first person telling me to cancel the trip, but flushing 600$ down the drain is a little bit frustrating... and we're going to Iles-de-la-Madelaine, the most beautiful place I ever went to... I really want to go back... so I'm like torn between those 2 choice... end the relation and screw my vacation or stay with her for another week and maybe have a little fun while I'm in the "Iles"

I really don't know what I'll do... Thanks Madadman! It's really appreciated. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
July 12th, 2005, 03:20 AM
grail25

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Originally posted by Peeker:
damn, Dom...

all I can do is wish you my best... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/beer.gif[/img]

Thanks Scott! I'll take a couple of those beers... and I'll probably finish Tony's rhum this week too... lol
July 12th, 2005, 03:21 AM
Peter Peeker

this may sound heartless but...

would you go without her?
July 12th, 2005, 03:24 AM
Shypappette

Wow, that's hard! I can understand you still wanting to go on your vacation.
Maybe you should go on the vacation so you don't miss out, and then have your "talk" with her on the last day of the vacation, when you're both a little euphoric from the nice surroundings and relaxing week. Maybe it will make things easier on you. Then you can fly back together and begin a new life.

That's a hard call! I hope you're ok! [img]biggrin.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rose.gif[/img]
July 12th, 2005, 03:29 AM
Andyman

Bummer Grail. I hope things work out for you.
July 12th, 2005, 03:30 AM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by Peeker:
this may sound heartless but...

would you go without her?

It's not heartless, but yes I'd go without her... but if she's not there I'd be a little f*cked since we're staying in her grand-pa's home, we're using the car that her father sent there for us and all her familly is there... [img]confused.gif[/img]
I'd go with someone else in a couple of years, but it would cost me a max to stay there for a week... so yes I feel like I'm kinda using her for that... [img]frown.gif[/img]
July 12th, 2005, 03:33 AM
grail25

Quote:

Originally posted by Shypappette:
Wow, that's hard! I can understand you still wanting to go on your vacation.
Maybe you should go on the vacation so you don't miss out, and then have your "talk" with her on the last day of the vacation, when you're both a little euphoric from the nice surroundings and relaxing week. Maybe it will make things easier on you. Then you can fly back together and begin a new life.

That's a hard call! I hope you're ok! [img]biggrin.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rose.gif[/img]

I've tought about a couple of "scenarios" and that one is the most likely to happen... I think I'll wait and see. I know I'll be ok, it's only a bad phase I need to go through... Only upside is I'll go and take an apointement (sp?) for my tattoo lol!

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Originally posted by Andyman:
Bummer Grail. I hope things work out for you.

Thanks Andy [img]smile.gif[/img]