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I need some input on how to mend a friendship that has been broken..ive sent numerous emails apologizing for everything that happened on my end .. but the friend will NOT respond to me ..how can a friend of 10 years just let it go ? how can she not forgive and forget? mind you it was things said on both our part.i really miss her so much but she isn't willing i guess ..should i let it go ? what should i do?
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I'm sorry I never got 9 of the emails LOL
I miss you too twinkle twinkle lil twi, come watch days with me? [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
gul u so funny i miss ya bebecakes .....*watches days wif you*
"if you truly love
something
you must set it free.
if it loves you in return,
it will, someday, come back
to you."
patience.
dave
and if it dont love you....it wont come back
and you're better offf?
just always be the best you can be...admit your strengths..admit your faults...and give it your best
you can walk away knowing you tried.....
no...if it does not come
back
you hunt it
down and
shoot it.
dam
if you respect your friend you allow him/her the decision they have taken and move on knowing your paths crossed for a reason, for a time, and that the interaction enhanced you both....but not everything is forever
hehaha.... dave too funny [img]tongue.gif[/img]
yeah i know not everything is forever...seems kind of odd tho to me...if one person just walks away from a friendship and the other is hanging... the one left has much to consider
if they both realized that from the onset and the ending it could be different tho
i agree that people grow and change...ive changed drastically.... but I know how Twi feels, I look at my own life today and I see something similar... I drive by her house every day...and yet, Ive had to move on....
Life is hard but good...
<font color="#0040A0" size="1">[ July 14, 2005 09:20 AM: Message edited by: demon chloe ]</font>
Its hard Dave,Fi and Chloe
it seems like if i would admit my faults. apologize and being sincere about it .that she could too.we have been best friends for 10 yrs we got into a lil spat and haven't talked for a year and 5 months .during that time ive tried 2 times to get her to talk to me ,she will not answer my emails,calls ect. ive asked her to please talk to me ..to no avail.
either i really didn't mean nothing to her during those 10 years or she is willing to throw it all away over a stupid lil spat.it don't make since to me but i know in my heart i tried ..i have found forgiveness in her.so i guess i'll let it alone and carry on with my life.ive tried i can't make someone like me .its just gonna be hard to find a friend like she was *sigh*
You said, "...its going to be hard to find a friend like her..."
I disagree. She isn't being a very good friend at all. You will sweet one. A more deserving friend i'm sure.
ekkk Chloekins i didn't realize i said it that way , i meant really deep down inside before all of this happened she was good at heart,she "was" a good person.we got along well ..i should say maybe i can find a good friend with some of her qualities.its hard to find a good friend these days ,one that you can share your inner thoughts,one you can trust.she "had" those qualities at one time.but its kinda hard to explain in some ways . i guess i shouldn't want a friend like the way she is acting now.which i have since emailed her and told her that ive tried hard on my end ,ive apologized several times..ive done all i can do .i can't make her like me again .i think ive come to the conclusion .i need to carry on ..even though it breaks my heart. i guess i need to let her go. [img]confused.gif[/img]
Twi... I dont think you should let her go... tuck her away somewhere that doesn't cause you pain, keep living and enjoying life and hold on to the goodness you had w/ her... and hope...
Always have hope [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
you don't prove that
you're somebody's
friend by standing with
them when things are going
well.
you prove it by standing with them
when nobody else
will.
dave
*sniffs* gee Dave and Chloekins ya'll have a way with words touching to say the least but very meaningful.
Twi.......I too am in a similar situation...
but I have come to terms with it and as hard as
it is...i know she has moved on in her life, and
if I cant be acknowledged, then it is time for
me to not worry about it anymore...there was a
reason we became good friends...and there was
a reason we parted...we were friends when we
both needed it most...and for that I am forever
grateful! Dont get me wrong....I still love her
like a sister, but I guess we just dont need
each other anymore...
im gonna do like chloe said tuck her away for now.im not sure now if i do want to remain friends with her if she can't respond to my emails and talk to me like a civil adult would instead of ignoring me ,makes me mad how would she feel if the tables were turned? if i done her like she is doing me? i don't think she would like it too much.Hubby says leave her alone and move on find more friends .i think thats what iam gonna do im not gonna wait around on her because i don't think its gonna happen.anyways hope all is well mrs G miss ya *smoochies*