So I found out my ex gf is now a stripper@the mouses ear

yeah girl i dated back in high school for like a year question:

what is the etiquette here?
I'm guessin mega, burton, or ironlung has plenty of experience with this type of stuff, so I'm looking forward to hearing from them as the rest of you.

Never been to a strip club. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] I think half of my graduating class wound up being strippers though. No ex girlfriends unfortunately.

We must see photos!

Most girls nowdays dress and act like sluts...i wouldn't sweat it...all my exes act like sluts too.

Used to live next to a girl up in Inman Village who I eventually learned was a stripper. She asked me once if I would drive her back and forth to work in Kingsport and she would give me gas money. She told me she worked as a waitress. I kept wondering how she could afford to give me that much gas money if she just worked as a waitress. She eventually came out and told me what she really did and if I helped her out, there could be some fringe benefits in it for me. I still lived with my mother at the time, and if she'd found out she'd have cut my throat!

hahahahaha...i remember that chick from Inman..but not her name...and Dane, if ur ex ever walks up to you tryin to talk to ya, tell her "Nah, I don't keep with cheap sluts anymore...but there must have been somethin you liked since folks nowdays have to pay for what i got for free" (then take the free blow job)

just think of all the money you saved Mr Dane. you had freebies for a year.

Apt. #2?

You guys are bound to be talking about Jessie Heider(sp?). I think she married/had kids with Larry Huff. I saw her at the ear one time, shes no waitress lol. The ear is boring to me so I usually dont waste my time. I just happend to be over there hangin out with some friends so we went. That is the only time Ive ever been.

It really was no big deal bumping into someone like that simply because Im sure there was a hundred other people that had bumped into her before I ever did. Your ex should pretty much expect for old friends and ex's to pop in on her so I dont think it would make for an awkward situation. After that though, its all good, do what you want to do and wrap it up. Smash it if you want. When we bumped into her, she introduced us to all of her friends/strippers that worked there. After you get hit on by a thousand guys with hairy plumbers crack, its likely nice to see someone you know [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

I did the same thing Dane, a girl I went out with for a while in high school ended up stripping there for a while. At least yours didn't run away from home and you got calls from her family because she told them that she was still with you when you hadn't gone out in at least 2 months. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]

I went to the old Bottoms Up once, pulled in and saw my old neighbors truck there, and was like "she must be in here with some guys". Well I was right, but the guys were paying customers. I had lived next to her for 20 years and had never even seen a boob flash... walked in there and saw it all.. haha..
well, I had a few friends with me, and one was a chick. Needless to say, I got her a job at Bottoms Up. I will tell ya though, it is trashy for a woman to show her body and do that stuff, but I'm tellin ya, they rack in the cash.

Naw she (Jessie) was a kid then....Apt 2?..that's not who i was thinkin bout either mikmo..pm me and let me know who that was if ya don't mind.

your starting to show your age beast [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: steer</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I went to the old Bottoms Up once, pulled in and saw my old neighbors truck there, and was like "she must be in here with some guys". Well I was right, but the guys were paying customers. I had lived next to her for 20 years and had never even seen a boob flash... walked in there and saw it all.. haha..
well, I had a few friends with me, and one was a chick. Needless to say, I got her a job at Bottoms Up. I will tell ya though, it is trashy for a woman to show her body and do that stuff, but I'm tellin ya, they rack in the cash. </div></div>

It is sort of trashy around here because most chicks are desperate as can be and wont go any further in life than that. I met some girls in Miami that were strippers and they were basically doing it to pay their way through Vet school to become doctors. You could tell too, they were highly educated. It didnt seem so trashy knowing what they were doing I guess.

yeah...turned 34 a couple months ago.

When I was stationed in Hawaii, 95% of the prostitutes there in college at the university and that was their "job". They charged $300 per 20 mins..and they raked in the cash. I know this cuz me and my buddies hung out with alot of them at McGilacutys in Waikiki when we weren't in the field. As, far as girls doin that kind of work, I think it degrades them but society has made it okthrough the things they have been bombarded with growing up. But, personally, I wouldn't date a ho or a stripper or a former ho or former stripper cuz my standards are higher than that.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sup-rbeast</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yeah...turned 34 a couple months ago. </div></div>

Thought he was reffering to me for a minute there, hell could have been I am 33.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sup-rbeast</div><div class="ubbcode-body">When I was stationed in Hawaii, 95% of the prostitutes there in college at the university and that was their "job". They charged $300 per 20 mins..and they raked in the cash. I know this cuz me and my buddies hung out with alot of them at McGilacutys in Waikiki when we weren't in the field. As, far as girls doin that kind of work, I think it degrades them but society has made it okthrough the things they have been bombarded with growing up. But, personally, I wouldn't date a ho or a stripper or a former ho or former stripper cuz my standards are higher than that. </div></div>

Yeah you cant exactly take a stripper home to mom. That kind of money is ridiculous. Thats one reason I hardly ever go to places like that. I would rather get the real thing for free than throwing money at someone thats just there to tease you. Obviously some will do more than that, but I wouldnt really want to pay money for sloppy 1000ths.

Dude...those weren't strippers...lol...those were street walkers.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TheBeast</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sup-rbeast</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yeah...turned 34 a couple months ago. </div></div>

Thought he was reffering to me for a minute there, hell could have been I am 33. </div></div>

You all are still kids.... [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

Wait till you're pushing half a century.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sup-rbeast</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dude...those weren't strippers...lol...those were street walkers. </div></div>

ohhhh lol

Really tho...could you imagine what it would be like to find out your GF or wife was a ex-stripper or ex-prostitute?..I'd leave em regardless of whether i loved em or not...cuz like i said...my standards are higher than that.

Yeah I agree. Women are supposed to make you feel somewhat special but if you end up with someone like that, then you gotta feel like your no more special than joe blow on the street corner. Not to mention, shes probably had a 14 inch cak in her so you end up with a Napoleon complex. Id feel dirty and cheap. Embarrassed to be seen with someone like that too. You know everyone would be laughin at you.

I've dated chicks that had been around the block...and i've dated some that ended up takin a trip around the block...but I've never kept one like that.

I dated a girl that later worked at the Ear to Dane. Its not biggie. Its probably more common around here than most think.

Tell ya what I'll do for ya Dane. Pass her name to me. After work, I'll stop by and get a video of her, on my cell, grinding my crotch as she gives me a lap dance. Ill send that video to her parents and let them enjoy the show.

hey great idea burton2019, wouldnt be the first video she made. i take it you've never seen Bone in 60 seconds?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: burton2019</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Tell ya what I'll do for ya Dane. Pass her name to me. After work, I'll stop by and get a video of her, on my cell, grinding my crotch as she gives me a lap dance. Ill send that video to her parents and let them enjoy the show.</div></div>

I'll come bail ya outta jail after the bar fight [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] The cell phone idea in the strip club is a bad idea. Wish it werent the case, but they will whoop a person's arse over taking some pictures in a strip club.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mega</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: burton2019</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Tell ya what I'll do for ya Dane. Pass her name to me. After work, I'll stop by and get a video of her, on my cell, grinding my crotch as she gives me a lap dance. Ill send that video to her parents and let them enjoy the show.</div></div>

I'll come bail ya outta jail after the bar fight [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] The cell phone idea in the strip club is a bad idea. Wish it werent the case, but they will whoop a person's arse over taking some pictures in a strip club. </div></div>

Mega isn't lying about that. When I was living in Wv, I would go to few "Gentlemans Club" and I seen many of fights break out because of that [censored]. Some places are cool with you having you cell phone as long you not taking pics or vids. Then there is some that tell you to leave it in you vehicale.

I'm wondering who many people I know are currently stripping. I think I have 2 ex's who did for awhile. Don't know if either does it now or not.

It kind of sucked because both of them were pretty innocent when I was dating them, I didn't get anything more than 2nd base heading for 3rd action, and then found out that they were showing everything they had for money. I guess I just never paid them enough LOL

Those situations are always funny Rock. I had a buddy that dated a girl for 2 years and couldn't get passed 1st hardly. After they split up, she was knocked up pretty soon with the next guy she dated.

$hit being from Kingsport, when I go to the ear it's like a class reunion for me [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]