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This is not bad luck, I saw this comming....
My ex wants to take my kids outside the country. That won't happen, and she is getting a lawyer.
I have already paid a lot of money for this year school, and I am talking about three girls. I might not be a mother, but I try as much as I can to give them love, security and attention.
best of luck to ya, bud [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
Try not to strangle your ex in the courtroom.... the judge and jury have a tendancy to frown upon that. [img]wink.gif[/img]
How old are your daughters?
I have a 14 years old girl and a 5 and 4 small ones...so I am in the middle of a teen with issues and small kids asking about everything.
The gap is mainly because we lost a child in between.
I pray that everything works out in a reasonable way for the situation. [img]smile.gif[/img]
been there before....it sucks....but fight for everything you can get.....good luck!
Me too. Never been in a legal battle before, even though I have to take a lot of pressure in my job, but that is something I have learned to live with the years.
Lucky for me collecting figs is just a hobby that takes some heat out my brain cells. But is not a priority either, I know I won't get any more toys for a while until this is solved.....
i know EXACTLY how you feel i have been in and out of the courtroom for the past 3 years with my ex and it sucks.... he is always trying to take my kids away from me for the simple reason of the money he has to pay... he is actually trying to do that now!!! but best thing to do is behave in the courtroom....
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Morti, unfortunatly this is backwards. She can make up a lot of things and gain support just because she is a woman. No offense.Quote:
Originally posted by Mortitia:
i know EXACTLY how you feel i have been in and out of the courtroom for the past 3 years with my ex and it sucks.... he is always trying to take my kids away from me for the simple reason of the money he has to pay... he is actually trying to do that now!!! but best thing to do is behave in the courtroom....
If she has a steady job, a place of her own and my kids will get the security and education they deserve, I could have think about it. I don't have problem to pay for the support because I know it's my dutty.
If she's a good mom and the kids are taken care of, that's one thing....
....but taking your kids out of the country where you'll rarely see them is a WHOLE DIFFERENT ISSUE! [img]eek.gif[/img]
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">agreed.....Quote:
Originally posted by Baimun:
If she's a good mom and the kids are taken care of, that's one thing....
....but taking your kids out of the country where you'll rarely see them is a WHOLE DIFFERENT ISSUE! [img]eek.gif[/img]
that is something you can damn sure fight for... keeping your kids in the country.. here she would have to have a damn good reason to do that.
I'm with you bud
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">agreed.....</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">The big one doesn't want to go at all. She understand the situation and wants to stay with me, I have not even influenced in her decition. The small ones are still too young too understand what is happening. My initial proposal to her was to let them visit her on Xmas and vacations, BUT ONLY IF I GO THERE and I confirm my above requests. Besides we have to sign an agreement that they will come back afterwars.Quote:
Originally posted by alkoholik:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Baimun:
If she's a good mom and the kids are taken care of, that's one thing....
....but taking your kids out of the country where you'll rarely see them is a WHOLE DIFFERENT ISSUE! [img]eek.gif[/img]
She was not happy with that.
these things are always so ugly and i am so sorry you have to deal with it, just hope that after you go to court she will live with it, my ex is never satisfied even though he loses everytime.....
Good Luck !
I'm waiting for my X to do the same... a few more years and she can do whatever the fuck she wants. [img]mad.gif[/img]
Good luck, hope everything will turn out for the best. [img]smile.gif[/img]
Must remember to hug the wifey and kids tonight.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I hope you have someone else already with you. My social life sucks, because I have no spare time plus I give most of my time to my girls, something I like and will keep on doing.Quote:
Originally posted by Mortitia:
these things are always so ugly and i am so sorry you have to deal with it, just hope that after you go to court she will live with it, my ex is never satisfied even though he loses everytime.....
I wonder how this online dating works.....
I'll tesitfy for ya! [img]wink.gif[/img]
...but in all seriousness, that sucks, just make sure you talk about it to your kids, and give them all the love you can, and then some more! [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
My heart felt best wishes to you MM. I hope you can get this resolved with the least amount of pain as possble. I've been divorced for eight years but the battles with my ex over money, the kids, etc. never friggin ends. I hope you don't have to go through the same crap.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Please stop emailing me! I'm a guy dammit! [img]wink.gif[/img]Quote:
I wonder how this online dating works.....
Sorry to hear that your ex is giving you a hard time MM4, I hope everything works out for you
One other thing, and this goes to Brian....
Even with your problems, you have a good wife that is supporting you all the way, and you are loved. I wish I still have that.
Your issues will be resolved eventually, so stop asking to be dead. I might not be a real friend for you, but I have seen $hit happenning to others. If you need something, I am here.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Please stop emailing me! I'm a guy dammit! [img]wink.gif[/img] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">lolQuote:
Originally posted by Andyman:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I wonder how this online dating works.....
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Please stop emailing me! I'm a guy dammit! [img]wink.gif[/img] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">lol</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">No wonder you never answered.......Quote:
Originally posted by grail:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Andyman:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I wonder how this online dating works.....
Here is some update....
She called me a minute ago. She wants to meet with me at a restaurant this evening. Wonder what the **** it's on her mind now.
just be carefull! dont say anything you'll regret and dont leave you drink unattended!
don't volunteer any info is what my stepdad always tells me and he's a lawyer.... don't get mad keep your cool and if she tries to piss you off try your best to ignore her, i have learned that works better, my ex gets scared now when i don't say anything to him [img]wink.gif[/img]
honestly i am so numb to all his bullshit i can't even say anything anymore i just get on the phone with my best friend and vent to her [img]graemlins/angel.gif[/img]
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ September 01, 2004 01:48 PM: Message edited by: Mortitia ]</font>
Best of luck, Tony!!! Don't let her use her evil woman sweet talk when you meet this evening!! [img]wink.gif[/img]
We meet two hours ago at a restaurant.
Seams that she decided not to go legal now, after our last "conversation". We still have a long way to go, but is a start.
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ September 01, 2004 11:41 PM: Message edited by: Moviemaniac4 ]</font>
nope i have no one at the moment and that's the way i want it for now.... everything i do in my life revolves around my kids.... hopefully things will work out for you soon [img]wink.gif[/img]
dude, I've found that I have great friends here and you are one of them. you all mean the world to me. If it wasnt for you all and my family, you'd be watching shit on tv on the biggest episode on someone going postal ever. so, thanks for being there.
I wish you the best on keeping your girls. after meeting you and talking with you, I cant see how the court could go any other way. You have to be a fantastic dad. I hope it goes easy and you win without much of a fight at all. and I'm here if you need to talk. you can call whatever (JUST TALK SLOWER! That spanish throws me off [img]wink.gif[/img] )
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Most of the time I think more in other people than myself, that is why hearing you talking about the "what if" concerns me.Quote:
Originally posted by chaserfan:
dude, I've found that I have great friends here and you are one of them. you all mean the world to me. If it wasnt for you all and my family, you'd be watching shit on tv on the biggest episode on someone going postal ever. so, thanks for being there.
I wish you the best on keeping your girls. after meeting you and talking with you, I cant see how the court could go any other way. You have to be a fantastic dad. I hope it goes easy and you win without much of a fight at all. and I'm here if you need to talk. you can call whatever (JUST TALK SLOWER! That spanish throws me off [img]wink.gif[/img] )
If you don't like my spanish, BILL ME !!!! [img]wink.gif[/img]
BTW, if your daugther have not decided yet where to spend the honeymoon, let me know. Maybe I can get a package deal here. My brother also manages a hotel in Varadero, Cuba. I can talk to him if you are interested.
I'll be sure and talk to her about it! they were looking just the other day for a place to go. can you email some of those beautiful pics so I can show her and her fiance?
and I love your spanish! I just wish I could speak it. took two years and it still seems like such a fast speak that I cant understand. plus I probably skipped alot of the classes.
You have a tourism guide plus other stuff going your way tomorrow........
that's good but make sure you still get things in writing... so neither of you can say well she or he said........ it's easier that way
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I will. But that takes some pressure from my back for a while.Quote:
Originally posted by Mortitia:
that's good but make sure you still get things in writing... so neither of you can say well she or he said........ it's easier that way
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Did you two have...you know...um...how shall I phrase it?...drinks afterward? [img]wink.gif[/img]Quote:
Originally posted by Moviemaniac4:
We meet two hours ago at a restaurant.
Seams that she decided not to go legal now, after our last "conversation". We still have a long way to go, but is a start.
<font color="#cd6600"><font size="1">[ September 01, 2004 11:41 PM: Message edited by: Moviemaniac4 ]</font></font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Did you two have...you know...um...how shall I phrase it?...drinks afterward? [img]wink.gif[/img] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">You can have her......Quote:
Originally posted by Tr3s:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Moviemaniac4:
We meet two hours ago at a restaurant.
Seams that she decided not to go legal now, after our last "conversation". We still have a long way to go, but is a start.
<font color="#cd6600"><font size="1">[ September 01, 2004 11:41 PM: Message edited by: Moviemaniac4 ]</font></font>