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alex, you dingus...
while to some, the marlborough man represents
all that is evil in the (capitalists) world,
some see him as a standard no man can ever be...
and one which every man should strive to become.
rugged, independant (with a slight prompt to be
sensitive), a free-ranger... cavalier, sharp
and cunning... *insert more random bs*
maybe its cuz i'm from the south... i dunno.
i just don't invision the marlborough man as
being spineless.
just my $0.02 ramble from the singular post above
I read your novella. The one that Blazey trumpeted to the world on ADM.
Wow.
I decided I couldn't add anything of substance to the actual topic post, so I read it, absorbed it, and was moved by it.
But this is a new day! [img]tongue.gif[/img] , and another forum! ...and in Alex days that's easily another 100 years.
So now I feel compelled to offer a remedy.
I know that men are from Mars and women from Venus, and that many times a women does not want a resolution, but rather support, to a situation,...but gosh durn it, I still feel compelled to offer a remedy.
I think your story needs to be a trilogy.
While I doubt parts two and three could ever match Part I, I'd like to see you take a stab at writing from the point of view of the cell phone hoochy mama, (aka the cell phone accoster) call that part-2 of the trilogy.
And then write from the point of view of the dreaded marlboro man. (aka the man with no spine.), and call that part-3 of the trilogy.
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quit deleting this thread!!! [img]mad.gif[/img]
is it possible to provide a link???
No, because it is of such a highly personal tone, and it was not D.C. who posted the link on ADM.
However, you can't miss it. Go to ADM-forum one, and look for the Blazey topic post that provides a link to the topic post in question.
(wonders if maybe I should provide a link...) :confused [img]smile.gif[/img]
I hope you find it!
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 25, 2003 09:11 AM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
don't be such a ****** , alex.... [img]tongue.gif[/img]
here's the LINK!, SF
*edit - w.a.n.k.e.r.
*rolls eyes*
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
[QBHow did you put back your previous comment?
Uh OH, it's supermod! (since I must have inadvertently erased your previous comment when I reposted the thread, I was going to reinsert your comment anyway) [img]wink.gif[/img] [/QB]</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
no! i didn't reinsert my post at all!!!
i went back to repost my comments.... but when
i did... my deleted post was there!!!!
i can't explain what happened...
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
don't be such a ****** , alex.... [img]tongue.gif[/img]
here's the LINK!, SF
*edit - w.a.n.k.e.r.
*rolls eyes*</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Thanks Shatzy, it was a dirty job, and somebody had to do it! [img]graemlins/bat.gif[/img]
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
quit deleting this thread!!! [img]mad.gif[/img] </font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
How did you put back your previous comment?
Uh OH, it's supermod! (since I must have inadvertently erased your previous comment when I reposted the thread, I was going to reinsert your comment anyway) [img]wink.gif[/img]
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
alex, you dingus...
while to some, the marlborough man represents
all that is evil in the (capitalists) world,
some see him as a standard no man can ever be...
and one which every man should strive to become.
rugged, independant (with a slight prompt to be
sensitive), a free-ranger... cavalier, sharp
and cunning... *insert more random bs*
maybe its cuz i'm from the south... i dunno.
i just don't invision the marlborough man as
being spineless.
just my $0.02 ramble from the singular post above</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
I meant the phrase to have a nebulous feel to it.
Both rugged, yet yellow toothen at the same time.
there's nothing 'dirty' with providing assistance....
ESPECIALLY when it has been requested.
sheesh, alex [img]confused.gif[/img]
Well, it may not be quite as obvious as you believe.
the request was based on this topic, and it comes close to being "gossip" because Demon didn't put the link up on the ADM board.
Normally, I would agree with you that it makes sense to help when someone asks for it. I just feel this situation may be a tad different.
But thanks again for doing the dirty work.
WHO SAID THAT!
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threads gone so everyone can rest easy
1. The thread in question was posted by demon chloe on a public forum
2.If she didnt want it read i dare say she would not have posted it.
3. I went to the admin page to save it for her. The move topic option isnt yet implemented. She wanted the thread moved to our board. I posted admin to save it for her.
4. Alex your a moron
well i did'nt exactly want it on my board...
I put it on the EMpire for a reason ...no one goes there.............. I didnt want ... it on my board...so people would come find out...the gorry details...I just wanted to move it to some other anonymous board..and go back and read it every once in awhile when i felt weak about..being who i am....
cant forget...
Me... the DeMon..........strong...
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 25, 2003 08:15 PM: Message edited by: demon chloe ]</font>
know what..next time make yourself a little clearer..i will apologoize now..i didnt realize i was embarrassing you..*goes off to mind my own business*
I am a firm believer in shades of gray. (I guess that's an oxymoron) Blazey, I think what you did was beautiful, wrong, but beautiful.
I don't want to live in a world where artists make art then hide it in the closet. On the other hand, I don't want Bush's henchmen conducting in home invasions in the name of all that is right and good.
I feel blessed to have read the topic. Is it really gone forever? sheesh. [img]graemlins/dog.gif[/img]
hmmmm. Is it possible that this topic post caused Demon Chloe to delete the original topic?
sigh.
this reminds me of the movie Secretary. The guy who wants to marry the girl, but is too much of a gentleman to get any "action" from our heroine of the story.
Having a way with words should be cherished, sometimes even above privacy. For shame (the word shame is not directed at any individual) if that topic no longer exists, along with all of it's angst.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 25, 2003 08:53 PM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
i don't quite understand why alex wouldn't provide the direct link yet was willing to describe where to go to find said post. hmmmm...
i didn't get to view the piece. my loss. serves me right for not being on HB 24/7 .
SoulFilms..you just said a mouthfull.. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
okie...
First and foremost... regardless of how i feel about that thread...I care more about BLaze than anything....
And I do believe that I offended her by making her feel uncomfortable for trying to help me. For that I apologize.
THat was never my intention. Shes right I put it on a public forum... I did it as a way to get it out of me...
anyway...all said and done...
im keeping her...not the dumb thread.....
was just a lil blip of my life anyway.....
Know what alex..i didnt trumpet it to the world as you said...YOU did that..by bringing it here..and keeping a running commentary on it..under the guise of freindship..such a warm and caring guy..you didnt want chloe to be exposed and vulnerable..h.e.l.l. no..you just went and made an issue out of it..wow..and then you had the balls..well..not balls..the lack there of..to blame it all on me...no one would have even paid it the slightest bit of attention..and you couldnt stand that..you just had to go and trumpet it..didnt ya..i still say your a moron..and whats worse..your a sneaky moron..no wonder you get s.h.i.t. all the time..lord..you ask for it..
and chloe..you have no need to apologize..you made a mistake postin it..plain and simple..and you cant change that fact now..and you also didnt know i couldnt move it to..just any ol place..now you do..end of story..you and i are fine..we will always be...part of being real freinds..is getting mad...gettin hurt...getting over it..i was pissed at alex...not really you..and i was angry becuase it looked like i had set you up..or something..as if i'd ever do that...now..give alex a nice thank you for being a dick..and lets go do something fun... [img]tongue.gif[/img]
and i edited this so you can get the full effect of my words..that got sensored..
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 26, 2003 10:56 AM: Message edited by: Blazey ]</font>
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Blazey, I'm quite stunned by you.
You may have misinterpreted my use of the word "wow".
I didn't mean "wow", that you trumpeted the post on ADM, I meant "wow" by the content of the thread. You weren't being condemned by me at all.
Of course, once you misinterpreted the very first line of the very first sentence in this topic thread, it's quite possible you read everything else with a red filter on.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by soulfilms:
i don't quite understand why alex wouldn't provide the direct link yet was willing to describe where to go to find said post. hmmmm...
I didn't get to view the piece. my loss. serves me right for not being on HB 24/7 .</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
I don't quite understand your point.
The difference is I didn't want to gossip by making it as easy as a click to get to the topic post.
Instead, one would have to go to ADM and find it.
I love how Shatzy, SF, and Blazey have all cast aspersion my way, and yet, my course of action was in fact the most sensitive of all. It really bugs women when a guy can be as sensitive as they, probably because talking about a guy's lack of sensitivity is usually the number one topic amongst women.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Blazey:
no wonder you get s.h.i.t. all the time..lord..you ask for it..
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Actually, Twizzle and Tastinggood have both apologized in recent days.
What you are witnessing is A, I say something, B, somebody else goes off the handle, C they then apologize...
The problem is I look bad because B, somebody is mad at me, then C, when they apologize, I look bad again because look at how "nice" they are being by apologizing...and D, no matter how I respond, or if I don't, I look bad again.
Three bad effects from one misinterpretation.
Welcome to the club. Thanks for being part of the denseness.
Shatzy. I'm not going to give your horrible words extra play by repeating them in my response, instead I'll respond to them here, on your post....line by line.
<font color=#FF0000>*edit-- while i do not mind that
you have chosen to respond to me in this manner
or format, alex... i will serve us both the
dignity of coloring my text against yours so
that no one will be confused as to whom said what</font>
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<font color=#FF0000>your conceitedness and arrogancy lately is really
something to be mindful of, alex.</font>
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Right off the bat, don't make such derogatory statements, make your points, one by one...like a civil person
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<font color=#FF0000>in the past
week alone, you have posted a great deal...
mostly harsh, touch-sensitive material --</font>
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WTF does that mean???
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<font color=#FF0000>and then, when everyone is calling you a j.e.r.k.,
you cop out on 'good guy' roleplay.</font>
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in fact, I've gotten apologies from four different people...and that just galls you, doesn't it.
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<font color=#FF0000>i'm not sure what has come over you recently.
but your consistant lashings to anyone countering
your posts is quite rude and tiresome.</font>
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Give a frickin example.
And don't count the people who have ended up apologizing....
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<font color=#FF0000>the comments you have made on this thread alone
are undoubtedly sharp and condescending, and to
be honest, repulsive.</font>
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Huh? I have been completely stand up. It's your frickin misinterpreting that is the problem.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Alex:
The difference is I didn't want to gossip by making it as easy as a click to get to the topic post.
Instead, one would have to go to ADM and find it.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#FF0000>by directing SF to research the material through
the admin. forum only reduced the nature of the
original DC post to nothing more than gossip.
something you claim you did not want to do...</font>
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That is just plain nonsense. That was me being respectful of the original content material. I am amazed at how you have blatantly misinterpret my intent.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Alex:
I love how Shatzy, SF, and Blazey have all cast aspersion my way, and yet, my course of action was in fact the most sensitive of all. It really bugs women when a guy can be as sensitive as they, probably because talking about a guy's lack of sensitivity is usually the number one topic amongst women.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#FF0000>and you wonder why i called you a misogynist.</font>
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There you go again, trying to justify your insane rant from a half year ago. It's clear that once you form an opinion, you will keep your belief in the background and bring it up in the future to try and justify your position. That was your lowest moment on Hostboard, and you actually bring it up again.
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<font color=#FF0000>This stereotype you made is uncalled for. yet,
you feel it your privy because the bulk of your
respondees are female.</font>
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no, because in this instance, it is dead on accurate. It galls you that I was being more sensitive than you. D.C. WAS NOT COMFORTABLE with the topic post being put on ADM, and I sensed that, that is why I did not put a direct link to it. You were completely oblivious to this, and now you are very upset that I understand the situation on a deeper level than you.
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<font color=#FF0000>many males have commented on your lack of 'sensitivity'</font>
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huh, give me quotes, and don't use quotes where the person later apologized...sheesh.
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<font color=#FF0000>in posting... no ... ADVERTISING a persons being
especially on the admin. forum. yet... you make
no lash at gender notation.
i find this a low and cowardly blow...
moreso to your reputation than your forum...</font>
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What are you talking about??? Advertising a persons being...???what does that mean?
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Alex:
Actually, Twizzle and Tastinggood have both apologized in recent days.
What you are witnessing is A, I say something, B, somebody else goes off the handle, C they then apologize...
The problem is I look bad because B, somebody is mad at me, then C, when they apologize, I look bad again because look at how "nice" they are being by apologizing...and D, no matter how I respond, or if I don't, I look bad again.
Three bad effects from one misinterpretation.
Welcome to the club. Thanks for being part of the denseness.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#FF0000>this is, by far, the most insulting and ridiculous
thing i've read on this thread.</font>
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Well, it's all TRUE!
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<font color=#FF0000>how dare you
attempt to rectify your actions by slacking
off on others ... especially in the manner that
you did. </font>
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What are you talking about?
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<font color=#FF0000>it is apparent that you have no real
responsibility for the words that you post...
yet you feel free to saddle another's responsibility by mocking the apology.</font>
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Maybe if the person hadn't been so abrasive in the first place, the APOLOGY WOULD NOT BE NECESSARY.
I don't scorn anyone for apologizing...but the damage is already done.
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<font color=#FF0000> you really are crude
and your recent posts are apalling.</font>
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again, which posts? the ones where I admonish moderators for not reading Steven's updates?
Which posts?
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<font color=#FF0000>i think you need to wake up... or die a
thousand deaths from hypocrisy....</font>
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Me thinks you have used far too many ID's for far too long, and in the process corrupted your relationships with others because of it.
You need to choose, ONE AND ONLY ONE ID, or your own hypocrisy via multiple Id's.
Your behavior on this topic post, along with Blazey's, is nothing short of abuse. And all because I was trying to be helpful.
that is fuked.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 26, 2003 03:20 PM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
All I can say is...READ THE FIRST POST AGAIN...
There was no intent in anyway to do anything but offer an idea. A helpful Idea.
Once again, Blazey, the word "wow" was not offered
in judgement of you posting the link on ADM, the word "wow" was my awe at what Demon Chloe had written.
I find it interesting that when Tasting good used the word epidemic, as in "Alex Epidemic", NO ONE came forward to say that epidemic was a word in bad taste, but when I use the word "trumpet", Blazey makes me out to be a criminal.
alex..you drew attention to something that truly wasnt your business..yes..i posted it..but who would have commented on it..if you hadnt made a thread on it...hmmm..i didnt see one person saying a word..until you did..now..out of your sensitivity..your male sensitivity..why didnt you just delete this topic..when you relaized what you had done..why didnt you just say..oh no..i f.u.c.k.e.d.up..and remove it to save feelings from being hurt..BUT..Oh no..heaven forbid you'd be that sensitive..you had to turn it into..what looks like a circus side show act..when you in all your sensitivity reliazed how personal her thread was..why didnt you pm her with your comments?.now see..that wouldnt have gotten the desired effect would it..point made..and i'm done..
Hi shatz.. [img]wink.gif[/img]
you want an example, alex?
you're reading it
Blazey...
Do you really believe that me here, on this lonely forum, where very few people come, that somehow I "outed" your topic, that you posted on ADM, that had several dozen views?
Perhaps you are upset that I saw what you did as being a bit out of the box, (but appreciated), whereas you didn't see it that way.
Which leads us back to the main issue of sensitivity, women don't seem to like a sensitive male. In essence, I saw something that you didn't, and that bothers you.
Instead of being honest about that issue, you create a new one, that somehow me mentioning it on this forum created more exposure than you putting it on ADM...
Please, don't continue on that tact, please?
I just told you i was done..i have no reason to say anything else.. [img]smile.gif[/img]
Your first post on this topic was rude and you assumed a few things incorrectly. You never actually had a discussion over this issue. (this forum is called "Discuss This").
If you are done without ever starting, you may have unlocked the secrets of the universe.
ahhhh..once again..point proven..and i didnt have to say a word..and yep..i'm rude its all part of my online charm and on that note..since this is a "discuss this" forum..why dont you discuss my a.s.s.walking out your door.. [img]eek.gif[/img]
I could make a funny remark about your a.s.s., but I won't.
However, you have managed to be a svengali in all of this. My whole purpose in this topic post was to encourage Demon Chloe to WRITE!
Instead, you Blazey, have tried make this about you.
what a ridiculous interpretation of this thread, alex.
while there is no doubt that you attempted to
coerce DC to continue writing, blazey has not
attempted to re-direct this thread with the
goal to focus the attention on herself.
Cut the blind support cra-p.
There was no coersion, there was encouragment.
It's suspicously like a form of jealously all over again. The patterns do repeat.
quit with your overly WRONG judgments, alex....
your interpretation of posts is totally OFF
and its making you less of a character i would
like to talk to.
you do not hold the monopoly on semantics so
i'd appreciate it if you would quit adjusting
definitions to words to suit your needs.
'coerce' was in reference to the fact that you
suggested DC write additional posts on the topic.
you are, in fact, coercing her to write more.
as for the 'jealousy' thing... i have no idea
wtf you are talking about.
stop making it out like everything posted is
a negative mark against you.
grow up.
how about "entice", how about "encourage"?
Your "choice" of words is caustic at best.