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How do you people deal with you're real life problems...You cry and whine and piss about how life is so unfair..or do you deal with them head on...solve the issues and move on?
I have never seen such a group of immature people since grade school...
Reality check would do you a world of good...
Had a friend that died of cancer last week..she was 31..
Had a friend who lost her baby recently...First child..
Saw alot of homeless people on my way to work this week....Some seniors...Some small children...
Kids are dying all over the world from terrible diseases....Women are being beaten by overbearing men...children are being abused by fucked up adults....
You're problems are minor..and there is always someone who has it worse than you...and this is the fuckin internet..As much as you would like to think its real life its not...Its a box...and at the end of the day the people you are fighting with dont give two fucks about you...
Why cant it be sucked up and move on already...Some of you really need to grow up already..
and dont even go there about how snails Leo or myself fucked up this board....We have been long gone and you are still all fighting....Maybe you were never the "family" I thought you were to begin with...
BTW..I admire someone who sticks to their convictions...That never changes and dont expect nothin from nobody...A few on this board are like that..The rest just whine about them....
It all could have gone back to the way it was....Its sad you took the road you did....but if you dont want to be here or dont like the people that come here..then stay away already....Cause I hate long goodbyes.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
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Heidi, you are correct in many things, but your missing the point....
this IS ALL about our convictions.
Ive never been close to anyone on this board save one, so this is not been about "family" or "whining" this is simply about those who have been shafted in real life and since they cant do anything about it in real life they have brought their imaginary problems to this board...
I dont need to name a name either, but its NOT TJ....he has many MANY probs, but as far as I know he likes to feed on bad vibes, so of course he's been egging on a few.
Now if you have any other idea's as to what is wrong...please hesitant in saying them, we are all blind here..
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Its so simple though...The people that dont like it here ...Leave and stay away....Wouldnt that solve everything..I mean if you didnt like someone in real life would you continue to go to the place they were if you couldnt hold you're tongue around them...
But in reality...adults can not like each other and frequent the same place...People can be mature enough to be in the same room and not like someone..I would think a board would be much easier again..*shrugs*....But if you can feel "hate" here for people you really dont know ..Only thru the internet...This board is probably the least of you're problems....Ya know?...But I guess to each their own..I dont respect some people I have met on the net over the years..but I have yet to hate anyone here or in real life for that matter...Just seems like a waste of energy...but what do I know.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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Actually as of late this place has reminded me of work....alot of good people forced to deal with a few petty fools http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/wink.gif
Personaly I dont hate anyone here, one a considered a friend till he showed his true self and another who so much like me it actually freaks me a little...but the difference between us is this little thing called a "conscience"...amazing what that little thing can do to keep you from being a complete waste of flesh
and by the way, as I said before, your NOT wrong about most what you say, you just have a different viewpoint since you havnt posted here much http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/wink.gif
And just for your info, their are many here who WOULD like to return here and not fight, but if you look long and hard youd be amazed on who has started about 80% of all fights since the board wipe.....and untill that person ceases his juvinial bullcrap you'll only see fighting......hell...makes you wonder if "got rice?" wasnt someone from this board originally.......
and also Heidi, im not attacking you, and its actually nice to see someone actually thinking rather than go off on a temper tantrum, so as always, your more than welcome to post =)
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heidi never looses it, she b cool http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif
and she can say the same things i do, but in a much better way http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
*L* infact, it was my attempt of the same thing she's saying over on my thread here...
i think*L*
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Ignore and forget... that's what I've been trying to do since this whole fiasco started...and the ones that preach about trying to ignore and forget are the same ones NOT ignoring and forgetting. *sighs* It's a lose/lose situation and it irritates me. I have made a few friends on this board. And many acquaintances, and I would like to keep them all in one place. I guess it's my petty plea for everyone to get along, but I guess it falls on def ears.
My real life problems are not as big as other's real life problems, but I do find a grey area when it comes to an online friend, that I know from this board, who has real life problems...and one of the ways i communicate with her is here. I have no idea what my point is, but i hate to see this board go down like this.
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HEH HEH HEH HEH
NO I WASNT GOT RICE?, AND NO ONE HAS CAME RIGHT OUT AND ACCUSED ME OF BEING HIM, BUT DARKLORD, I KNOW THAT YOU WERE REFERRING TO ME, SINCE LATELY, I HAVE BEEN A MAJOR THORN IN EVERYONES ASS.
AND DARKLORD, I HAVE NEVER DENIED THAT I AM FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD.
BUT OH WELL THIS ALL FALLS ON DEF EARS ANYWAY.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>"I mean if you didnt like someone in real life would you continue to go to the place they were if you couldnt hold you're tongue around them..."<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Heh. How ironic. You say this after coming to a board that you knew well enough that someone you didn't like at all (at the time) posted here.
Seriously, This is becoming one of the largest problems on the internet today. The internet is growing so large that it's becoming a daily part of everyone's life. How many people log on at least once a day to check their e-mail? ICQ? The BB's that you frequent? Any newsgroups? A few favorite websites? It's a part of your life.
Yet too many people try to say it isn't. They say "It isn't real life." Well, honey, let me tell you, it is. The people you talk to on the net (usually) aren't just computer programs or pre-recorded people on the other side of the screen. They're real, flesh and blood people, just like you and me. We're all people. And like people, everyone has morals, feelings, convictions, emotions... all that gooey stuff that "makes us human" (yeah, I sound like a bad after school special). It is real. And while you personally may not take your on-line friendships seriously, many people do. Hell, I know people online that I'd trust more than half the people I know IRL.
But heck, there are people that don't take their IRL friendships seriously. Many of these people are probably the same who don't take on-line friendships seriously.
A bond between two people is a bond, where be it text on a screen, a conversation in person, or even a hug and a smile. This may be something you don't understand. Hell, most people don't truely understand it until they've had a strong bond with someone.
When any bond between two people is broken, both sides hurt. Sometimes, only one person shows the pain, sometimes both, and sometimes neither, but it's still there, even if they don't always recoginize it.
It's like the guy who stands around saying "I don't care, I don't give a ****. It's not my fault, don't blame me." over and over again. If you don't really care, then you'd just drop the subject and move on and ignore those who bring it up instead of harping over it again and again.
Anywhoo, the point is (did I have a point), maybe if some people would learn to be a little more considerate of others online and realize that it isn't a game and that the other people on the other end of your internet connection are _real_, then maybe the world would be a better place... for you... and me... just wait... and see...
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You're right..I did come here...and You're right there was someone on this board that I didnt like...Difference is I never intended on staying..or coming here alot..and I could have been here and not said a word to Leo...and Leo and I have been in rooms for hours together and not spoke a word to one another....I only get defensive when I have too...
and I know fully that people are real on the other side of the puter...Umm..cause Im real..*L*..And I met one of my best friends on the puter...I met her in real life but it started here....so you are preaching to the choir babe...BUT..some people take it way too seriously...
My only point was...Why stay somewhere that makes you miserable and you dont like the people there...and if you do stay...why preach everyday why and who you dont like...Thats what dont make sense to me..If you're not the type to be around people you dont respect without keeping you're mouth shut..Why bother to keep goin back to where they are?.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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Uncle bob always says shit like that, thing is the people or person that hated heidi and I isn't here anymore and aparantly doesn't care about this board.
heidi on the other hand has respected it. Sometimes an outsider can give more perspective since we don't have the emotional ties you do.
Shit Rev gives the coolest and NON-negative posts on mel's board... same with spyder cus they don't get the personal attacks they do here. Please don't respond with why they get these responses cus it's been said....and fuck it's old. Don't let anyone dictate what you post about... respond in that summer movie thread *L
or create another one.
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"some people take it way too seriously..."
Yes, damn it. I hate it when people take other people's emotions and lives too seriously. Damn them and all they stand for.
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Okay... If Leo stays away, she doesn't care about the board. If Leo comes back, then she's "staying somewhere that makes her miserable where she doesn't like the people there".
It sounds like to me she's being forced into a no-win situation.
And I still don't get why someone who claims he's being "stalked" on the internet by a woman would come over to a board where he knows she posts. It just doesn't make sense. Even more so, why the hell would that said person continue to go over to her board and post when he knows that she does not want him there.
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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[This message has been edited by Uncle Bob (edited May 07, 2001).]
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Umm... didn't you pretty much accuse Leo of stalking you when you said she kept sending you e-mails and going in chat rooms that you were in and such?
And I don't care if you have an excuse or not. It just seems like a stupid thing to me to go over to someone else's board when you know they can't stand you. I mean, "Duh."
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Okay you got me...
I'll confess to you Uncle Bob. I did post hi on leo's board...why? because I am sick and obsessed.
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In fact don't be angry, pity me.. my life hasn't been the same. When i see a cat I think "that cat looks like a lioness" then I feel that oh so familiar lump in the throat and the tears well up. In fact I've been clawed many times for going to pet cats I've seen. But I must stroke them, I must touch them... http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/otn/sad/oshame.gif
Do not fault me for my this my friend...
Uncle bob, or If it's okay bobbie. you have seen through my hard exterior...it's an addiction. An addiction that has gone out of hand, shit I bought my beautiful r/t girlfriend a lioness suit...she does not know why.
And let me just hope she never does...
Excuse me....I need some time to myself
*humming [i]Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
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Uncle Bob..Why do you keep bringing up the past...This thread wasnt about Leo..why make it about her...You seem to think you know the whole story when You dont know the half of it..I sit here reading you're posts wondering what it is you think you know..Cause you couldnt make less sense to me.
All this was about....Is how you deal with problems..and Yeah some do take this too seriously..Some even put their family life second to it...Some ruin marriages...Some think they fall in love and get hurt really bad...so Yeah some take it too seriously..(thats what I meant by that comment)
Its not worth getting upset here..Life's too short to keep repeating yourself over and over again..or to be somewhere you dont want to be...dont give me the whole speech about how "people are real with real feeings"..I know all about it..Have great friendships that started here and lasted for years...All I was pointing out is that real life issues come first..and when you see the suffering around you....being miserable here seems like a waste of energy..This isnt about Leo...Snails or myself...You know only one side of that if anything at all...This was simply asking the people fighting to stop and look at what they are fighting about..and ask if its worth it..
As for Rev and spyder ...I see them post on mel's board...They are always funny ..never judge anyone and just seem like they want a good time...Thats the side of them I know..and Rev let me rub his ass for luck one time..*G*..They seem Kewl to me.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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Gee, it seems like there's stuff missing from this post that was here at one time... interesting... Maybe it's a time paradox.
Anywhoo, heidi, yes, I'll admit, I did scrape the surface when I mentioned Leo (without saying her name), but that was a side comment not really pertaining to the entire conversation, just one part of your statement in general. When I posted Leo's name directly, it was in reply to snail saying she didn't care anymore and how she has been put into a paradox where if she posts or doesn't post, she's still screwed either way she goes. I.e.: having to hang around people who she isn't fond of or being told she doesn't care about the board (I believe that post hasn't been deleted yet, eh snail?)
And, as per my view of the situation, I don't have to "know" much of anything. You have two people who have had problems in the past. Both sides claim they just want the other one to leave them alone.
So, later down the road, one party makes a point to start posting at a board where they know the other party posts. Even if they are tired of getting e-mails and hearing from that said person.
Then, later, after both parties blow up at each other again, the same person goes, not only to another board where that party knows the other party posts at, but the second party's own board.
Can you honestly, honestly tell me someone isn't looking to cause trouble?
And, maybe it's just me, but I don't see how it is considered fun or "not judging" to go over to someone else's board posting topics calling people a "c*nt" and such just to try to piss them off. The only thing I call that is immature.
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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I swear to God I didnt come here to discuss the Leo ..snails drama thing..*L*..Uncle Bob keeps bringing it up ...Its all his fault..blame him....*points finger*G*...
*L*..Im not even goin there on that topic..I never started this one to bring up all that old crap that no one cares about anymore... http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
It was a sensible discussion way up there somewhere..Honest..Just look..Yep...It was.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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I don't care for your motives. Drop it.
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*LOL*@wyatt watch out heidi he said drop it he's a tough guy.
Hey bob get a clue k? looks like you're looking for one.
end of discussion.
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Heh... figures...
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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I'm thinking you miss Leo just a little??....the drama etc. The old bunny boiling days.....figures.
stab stab!!
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Me neither....Exactly what I would expect... http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
*waves at past 7..Miss you girl.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
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Yup. For someone who's been on the net since the late 80's, the twain of you are very predictible in your actions.
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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*LOL*..I have an Uncle Just like you..but he drinks alot..thats the excuse we use for him.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
*sticks my fingers in rotten's mouth while he yawns*
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I am known for not being a very emotional guy,So with my life problem's.I have done nothing but stuff them deep inside and tried to forget the past,but it alway's seem's to come back and bite me in the ass.I ethier explode in Anger or I get very depressed.What is my problem?I have no clue.I wish I could have someone to talk to ablut my problem's.but have no one. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
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Did someone say McDonald's?
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How sad that you feel the need to make excuses for the behavior of your family members... I'm sorry, I never realized... http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
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[This message has been edited by Uncle Bob (edited May 11, 2001).]
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Darksyde....Sorry to hear that?.... http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
and Uncle Bob...My Gawd man it was a joke...but sometimes its easier to make excuses for someone than to think ..They are acting that dumb for no reason..*shrugs*...You seem to miss the point..*hands you a sense of humor*.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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Shit Dark, that sucks. Sounds to me like you are an emotional guy, you're just bad at handling or even acknowledgning your feelings. Having someone to discuss them with would be a good first step, so hearign that totally sucks.
I guess anyone with a really good friend should consider themselves lucky...
Not meaning o rub anything in here...
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I can see that bunnies peiner.
I mean weenis. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif
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~Murder one I didn't know what I did
I figured it out by murder two
Murder three I stopped feeling ashamed
This is me I'm going for you.~ by:dwim
~I'll try being nicer if you'll try being smarter.~
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Umm... so now you're telling me you care so little about your family that you can make jokes in such bad taste about them? How sad for you. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/frown.gif
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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*LOL*@bob you need a hobby
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*LOL*....btw..*considers myself very lucky to have good friends..*smooches rotten.. http://www.hostboard.com/ubb/smile.gif
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Umm... I'm supposed to take advice on life from a guy who's hobbies are:
a.) Drinking
b.) Spending time posting on internet message board administrated by people who don't want him there
c.) Cyber-lovin'
Ummm.. yeah... riiiight...
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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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