Give me an example of hostility by me on ADM.
If you somehow believe there is a laundry list, please do one per post.
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Give me an example of hostility by me on ADM.
If you somehow believe there is a laundry list, please do one per post.
i shall do no such thing.
Ok, Can you name one post on ADM where someone did not snap at me first?
I appreciate you taking the time to point out a possible foible of mine.
But I am proud of that post. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
I stood up for something that I thought needed standing up for. When the head guy makes an announcement of things that have been fixed, and NO ONE even bothers to view it, that is not acceptable (in my opinion)
Before I posted a response to that post by Steven, the topic had like 3 or 4 views after a day and a half. And two of those were mine. I found that reprehensible.
If people can complain when things are not right, then they should also observe and "view" what is being fixed, especially when Steven takes the time to post a topic about it.
Later in that thread, I am called an idiot.
I then made a comment about Twizzle being in a drizzle...(I hope you don't find that to nasty on my part, especially when I then explained how Twizzle may have misinterpreted my post)
Twizzle than stated they had misunderstood my post, but not before I had been ridiculed by both Twizzle and Ivana much earlier in that topic post.
I am going to assume that my explanation will not change your mind in the least, but I appreciate you giving me the opportunity.
Shatzy, do that thing where you make our comments in different colors, I think it's cool!
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I appreciate you taking the time to point out a possible foible of mine.
But I am proud of that post. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
I stood up for something that I thought needed standing up for.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#330099>i have no problem with you posting something because
you feel the need to stand up for it. the problem
i have with the initial post you made is that
it was blown COMPLETELY out of proportion.
tg noted this... at which you agreed and apologized.</font>
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It's called a "wake-up call". It's called "this town needs an enema."
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
When the head guy makes an announcement of things that have been fixed, and NO ONE even bothers to view it, that is not acceptable (in my opinion)
Before I posted a response to that post by Steven, the topic had like 3 or 4 views after a day and a half. And two of those were mine. I found that reprehensible.
If people can complain when things are not right, then they should also observe and "view" what is being fixed, especially when Steven takes the time to post a topic about it.
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<font color=#330099>perhaps.</font>
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Alex wishes Shatzy had just stopped there
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<font color=#330099>however,</font>
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Doh!!! The dreaded however. I'm going to start a however anonymous club.
Although [img]tongue.gif[/img] I'm too busy to run it.
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<font color=#330099>the alternate view is that steven purchased
HB with full awareness of what needed to be done.
he is also attempted to make something better
for HB... which, again, he does in the full
knowledge of being owner.</font>
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I'm not sure the above actually applies to me
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<font color=#330099>all of that aside, it is not your business who
views X thread or how many views there are.</font>
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There ya go, now that is a direct, to the point
poison tipped arrow. Well done! (insert clapping smiling here)
I have an answer to the above, but I will have to PM it to you.
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<font color=#330099>this is what i was attempting to say with my post
on that thread. there is a definite problem with
(perhaps) people's idea of the admin. forum.
on other message boards, 'regular' posters are
not allowed to view/post admin. posts in the
main admin. forums. some people coming from
alternate message boards prolly figure the same
way about HB admin. forums. this is why i suggested
making a sub-line to the admin. category on the
main page.. or some links on the control panel.</font>
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A good idea, although if Steven did that, he may have a dozen Alex's to contend with. [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Later in that thread, I am called an idiot.
I then made a comment about Twizzle being in a drizzle...(I hope you don't find that to nasty on my part, especially when I then explained how Twizzle may have misinterpreted my post)
Twizzle than stated they had misunderstood my post, but not before I had been ridiculed by both Twizzle and Ivana much earlier in that topic post.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#330099>so?</font>
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You're right, when I am called an idiot, it's acceptable. May I have another?
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<font color=#330099>perhaps it is that people are tired of seeing
you yack on in the admin. forums.</font>
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On the other hand, they did misunderstand the topic post. Why justify their position at belittling me when they were confused?
and of course, the whole "epidemic" mess must be considered. You have left out that when I saw that the "Alex epidemic" post was going to stay on Hostboard ADM page one, for up to a month, I took action. I waited 3 or 4 days, (it seemed like an eternity), and it just didn't seem right to denigrate another Hostboard member and moderator in the matter that TG did. If TG had NOT made the Alex epidemic topic post, My name would NOT have been all over ADM.
But to push it off of page one required me responding to several other posts. By the way, I answered every post in earnest, and it took me over an hour and a half. That wasn't right.
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<font color=#330099>while your suggestions are not discounted or ignored,</font>
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yes they have been. Ever since the TG epidemic topic post, ADM has ignored posts made by me.
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<font color=#330099>you also provide your fair share of pressure to
1quickSI and other admin., especially about
adding new features, etc.</font>
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Practically every time I have a question or make a suggestion, I quantify the suggestion by saying
"I understand you may be busy, but is it a good idea, and might it be looked into at a later date".
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I am going to assume that my explanation will not change your mind in the least, but I appreciate you giving me the opportunity.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<font color=#330099>go ahead and assume.
i find your general sweep of the entire moderator
community inconsiderate within that thread in
particular.</font>
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Yes it was, but it was meant as a wake-up call.
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<font color=#330099>that thread was the starter thread for your
aggressive posts on the admin. board alone...
there are other times when you use the admin.
threads to expound a topic that would best
be suited away from the admin. forum... like
with your posts on the xtianity/demon thread
(in admin.).</font>
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I did not start the thread, and as you may have noticed, today, two very brilliant and my two new best friends supported my position on the matter.
And my point in bringing it up was to make it as an example to NOT bring that kind of stuff to ADM.
Can't you even give me credit for cutting through the I'm a Christian pretense that started the whole topic??? You of all people, sheesh.
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<font color=#330099>as you know, 1quickSI has closed many threads
that have gotten off topic... and instigating
further 'off topic' query is just redundant.
you should have posted your question to gary
on his own board... or invited him to view a
subsequent thread on yours.</font>
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An interesting point you bring up, however..(doh!!!) perhaps I'm being a rabid dog, but I think I brought out to the light that that topic was inappropriate. Instead of just saying it was inappropriate, I think I gave a rational reason why.
It was disinguenous, although I don't in any way put that label on xGaryx, he was trying to make a point. I suppose if he had just said, If I were Christian....
But he didn't, and I wasn't swift enough to figure out what was bugging me about the topic post.
But I think a lot of good information was exchanged. Separation of Church and State, separation of main page and forum...come on, that's good, on topic stuff!
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<font color=#330099>when i made the comment that your posts have
been seemingly more hostile, i was not only
referring to admin. however, i have said enough
on this post and wish it to end for now.</font>
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Please make a separate topic on that, because I think you may not be correct in that assessment either.
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<font color=#330099>as i tried to say on the DEMON thread here in DT,
most of the time, i think your perspective of
a particular post someone makes is a bit off.
you shouldn't always think that people are always
being negative with you.</font>
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Now that cow can't fly. Blazey just came in out of nowhere, and even after I explained what I meant by the word trumpeted and wow, she didn't even take a moment to respond.
How come earlier you agreed that I was getting some flak from others, now you are saying I am imagining it?
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<font color=#330099>speaking as someone that is familiar with you
and your posts... your recent posts (past week)
have been really intense and you seem completely
high-strung.</font>
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In fact, I have left nice posts all over Hostboard, on the Minnesota Youth in Government, in the Herb and Tea forum, Demons and Hellfire..etc...
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<font color=#330099>you should relax and view a post a few times
in different perspectives before responding...
if a post warrants a response at all after some
reflection.</font>
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sigh. All I can say is you are right, and you are wrong. And you completely ignore any **** that comes unto me from others.
I am still in shock by Blazey, yet you act as if it was completely normal, the way she just blazed in, set a fire, and left.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 27, 2003 09:51 PM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
That was tiring.
If I don't respond anymore tonight it's because I need to get a big project finished.
alex,
while i do not mind editing a post so that
readers can distinguish your reply from my
original post, i do not like the way you do that.
my post is chopped up... and what is worse,
my post is chopped up badly... based on how
you read it. its not fair to do to my words.
next time, i'd appreciate you leaving my original
post and c/p (copy/pasting) an additional copy
with which you reply to in that manner. after that,
i can go in and format the replies based on
html if you want... but please, don't do any
more of that.
here is my post before you edited your reply into it:
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I appreciate you taking the time to point out a possible foible of mine.
But I am proud of that post. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
I stood up for something that I thought needed standing up for.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
i have no problem with you posting something because
you feel the need to stand up for it. the problem
i have with the initial post you made is that
it was blown COMPLETELY out of proportion.
tg noted this... at which you agreed and apologized.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
When the head guy makes an announcement of things that have been fixed, and NO ONE even bothers to view it, that is not acceptable (in my opinion)
Before I posted a response to that post by Steven, the topic had like 3 or 4 views after a day and a half. And two of those were mine. I found that reprehensible.
If people can complain when things are not right, then they should also observe and "view" what is being fixed, especially when Steven takes the time to post a topic about it.
</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
perhaps.
however, the alternate view is that steven
purchased HB with full awareness of what needed
to be done. he is also attempted to make something
better for HB... which, again, he does in the
full knowledge of being owner. all of that
aside, it is not your business who views X
thread or how many views there are.
this is what i was attempting to say with my post
on that thread. there is a definite problem with
(perhaps) people's idea of the admin. forum.
on other message boards, 'regular' posters are
not allowed to view/post admin. posts in the
main admin. forums. some people coming from
alternate message boards prolly figure the same
way about HB admin. forums. this is why i suggested
making a sub-line to the admin. category on the
main page.. or some links on the control panel.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Later in that thread, I am called an idiot.
I then made a comment about Twizzle being in a drizzle...(I hope you don't find that to nasty on my part, especially when I then explained how Twizzle may have misinterpreted my post)
Twizzle than stated they had misunderstood my post, but not before I had been ridiculed by both Twizzle and Ivana much earlier in that topic post.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
so?
perhaps it is that people are tired of seeing
you yack on in the admin. forums. while your
suggestions are not discounted or ignored, you
also provide your fair share of pressure to
1quickSI and other admin., especially about
adding new features, etc.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I am going to assume that my explanation will not change your mind in the least, but I appreciate you giving me the opportunity.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
go ahead and assume.
i find your general sweep of the entire moderator
community inconsiderate within that thread in
particular. that thread was the starter thread for your
aggressive posts on the admin. board alone...
there are other times when you use the admin.
threads to expound a topic that would best
be suited away from the admin. forum... like
with your posts on the xtianity/demon thread
(in admin.).
as you know, 1quickSI has closed many threads
that have gotten off topic... and instigating
further 'off topic' query is just redundant.
you should have posted your question to gary
on his own board... or invited him to view a
subsequent thread on yours.
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when i made the comment that your posts have
been seemingly more hostile, i was not only
referring to admin. however, i have said enough
on this post and wish it to end for now.
as i tried to say on the DEMON thread here in DT,
most of the time, i think your perspective of
a particular post someone makes is a bit off.
you shouldn't always think that people are always
being negative with you.
speaking as someone that is familiar with you
and your posts... your recent posts (past week)
have been really intense and you seem completely
high-strung.
you should relax and view a post a few times
in different perspectives before responding...
if a post warrants a response at all after some
reflection.
here is how you should have quoted to make it
way easier for me and others to respond to:
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
i have no problem with you posting something because
you feel the need to stand up for it. the problem
i have with the initial post you made is that
it was blown COMPLETELY out of proportion.
tg noted this... at which you agreed and apologized.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
It's called a "wake-up call". It's called "this town needs an enema."
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
perhaps.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Alex wishes Shatzy had just stopped there
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
however,</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Doh!!! The dreaded however. I'm going to start a however anonymous club.
Although [img]tongue.gif[/img] I'm too busy to run it.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
the alternate view is that steven
purchased HB with full awareness of what needed
to be done. he is also attempted to make something
better for HB... which, again, he does in the
full knowledge of being owner.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
I'm not sure the above actually applies to me
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
all of that aside, it is not your business
who views X thread or how many views there are.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
There ya go, now that is a direct, to the point
poison tipped arrow. Well done! (insert clapping smiling here)
I have an answer to the above, but I will have to PM it to you.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
this is what i was attempting to say with my post
on that thread. there is a definite problem
with (perhaps) people's idea of the admin. forum.
on other message boards, 'regular' posters are
not allowed to view/post admin. posts in the
main admin. forums. some people coming from
alternate message boards prolly figure the same
way about HB admin. forums. this is why i suggested
making a sub-line to the admin. category on the
main page.. or some links on the control panel.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
A good idea, although if Steven did that, he may have a dozen Alex's to contend with. [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
so?</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
You're right, when I am called an idiot, it's acceptable. May I have another?
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
perhaps it is that people are tired of seeing
you yack on in the admin. forums.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
On the other hand, they did misunderstand the topic post. Why justify their position at belittling me when they were confused?
and of course, the whole "epidemic" mess must be considered. You have left out that when I saw that the "Alex epidemic" post was going to stay on Hostboard ADM page one, for up to a month, I took action. I waited 3 or 4 days, (it seemed like an eternity), and it just didn't seem right to denigrate another Hostboard member and moderator in the matter that TG did. If TG had NOT made the Alex epidemic topic post, My name would NOT have been all over ADM.
But to push it off of page one required me responding to several other posts. By the way, I answered every post in earnest, and it took me over an hour and a half. That wasn't right.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
while your suggestions are not discounted or ignored,</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
yes they have been. Ever since the TG epidemic topic post, ADM has ignored posts made by me.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
you also provide your fair share of pressure to
1quickSI and other admin., especially about
adding new features, etc.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Practically every time I have a question or make a suggestion, I quantify the suggestion by saying
"I understand you may be busy, but is it a good idea, and might it be looked into at a later date".
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
go ahead and assume.
i find your general sweep of the entire moderator
community inconsiderate within that thread in
particular.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Yes it was, but it was meant as a wake-up call.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
that thread was the starter thread for your
aggressive posts on the admin. board alone...
there are other times when you use the admin.
threads to expound a topic that would best
be suited away from the admin. forum... like
with your posts on the xtianity/demon thread
(in admin.).</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
I did not start the thread, and as you may have noticed, today, two very brilliant and my two new best friends supported my position on the matter.
And my point in bringing it up was to make it as an example to NOT bring that kind of stuff to ADM.
Can't you even give me credit for cutting through the I'm a Christian pretense that started the whole topic??? You of all people, sheesh.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
as you know, 1quickSI has closed many threads
that have gotten off topic... and instigating
further 'off topic' query is just redundant.
you should have posted your question to gary
on his own board... or invited him to view a
subsequent thread on yours.
********</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
An interesting point you bring up, however..(doh!!!) perhaps I'm being a rabid dog, but I think I brought out to the light that that topic was inappropriate. Instead of just saying it was inappropriate, I think I gave a rational reason why.
It was disinguenous, although I don't in any way put that label on xGaryx, he was trying to make a point. I suppose if he had just said, If I were Christian....
But he didn't, and I wasn't swift enough to figure out what was bugging me about the topic post.
But I think a lot of good information was exchanged. Separation of Church and State, separation of main page and forum...come on, that's good, on topic stuff!
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
when i made the comment that your posts have
been seemingly more hostile, i was not only
referring to admin. however, i have said enough
on this post and wish it to end for now.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Please make a separate topic on that, because I think you may not be correct in that assessment either.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
as i tried to say on the DEMON thread here in DT,
most of the time, i think your perspective of
a particular post someone makes is a bit off.
you shouldn't always think that people are always
being negative with you.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Now that cow can't fly. Blazey just came in out of nowhere, and even after I explained what I meant by the word trumpeted and wow, she didn't even take a moment to respond.
How come earlier you agreed that I was getting some flak from others, now you are saying I am imagining it?
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
speaking as someone that is familiar with you
and your posts... your recent posts (past week)
have been really intense and you seem completely
high-strung.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
In fact, I have left nice posts all over Hostboard, on the Minnesota Youth in Government, in the Herb and Tea forum, Demons and Hellfire..etc...
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
you should relax and view a post a few times
in different perspectives before responding...
if a post warrants a response at all after some
reflection.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
sigh. All I can say is you are right, and you are wrong. And you completely ignore any **** that comes unto me from others.
I am still in shock by Blazey, yet you act as if it was completely normal, the way she just blazed in, set a fire, and left.
here is my reply to your comments....
your 'wake-up call' was posted on a thread that
you claimed no one read/viewed. isn't that a
bit redundant???
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
You're right, when I am called an idiot, it's acceptable. May I have another?</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
as i presumed, you misread my statement.
however, since you bring this whine up later,
i'll address it now.
since you are not familiar with the people you
post against/with in the admin. forum, you
inadvertantly instigate further (seemingly
negative) posts from them.
this was true of the gary thread. because you
are not familiar with posting styles and whatnot,
you believe that you are proving a point,
when really, all you are doing is starting a
tangent.
in as far as the 'epidemic' mess....
you have no business doing what you did with
that thread. you complain here (and there) that
such a thread should not be left to view for
many days because the content of that thread
is derrogatory to you. however, you have also
made many a post in the admin forum about
particular members... with NO REGARD for their
feelings on the issue.
case in point -- the thread you made about the
'evil' ID someone had chosen. this was, again,
not your place to comment on... but yet you
felt the need to make an issue about it in the
admin. forum.
you complain about slander and yet are no different.
this is what makes you a hyprocrite.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Ever since the TG epidemic topic post, ADM has ignored posts made by me.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
this is utter BULLSH|T and you know it.
________________________
about the xtian thing... as i stated before,
had you been familiar with the poster, you would
have chosen a more appropriate form of establishing
your point... instead, you created a tangent
thread that went no where but to cause other
people to reply nonsense... totally nothing of
an admin. nature.
and as for your last comment, i do not ignore
ANYTHING... despite your pretense to think i do.
i never ignore anything on HB... i view all
that i can. because i do not reply does not
mean that i am ignoring anything... merely,
that i am heeding what i am reading.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I am still in shock by Blazey, yet you act as if it was completely normal, the way she just blazed in, set a fire, and left.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
blazey's first post on the DC thread can be
taken in a few ways/perceptions:
your way -- which states that blazey came out
of no where and insulted you BAAA!! BAAA!! BAAA!!
or my way -- which states that blazey came out
of no where and informed an otherwise dense
public.
p.s. -- if you are referring to the:
#4 alex you are a moron
comment, it would seem more mature to ask blazey
precisely what she means before judging the
context of the statement as rude, derrogatory
or... otherwise.... negative in nature.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
here is my reply to your comments....
your 'wake-up call' was posted on a thread that
you claimed no one read/viewed. isn't that a
bit redundant??? </font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
That is what is known as a conundrum. But the other alternative, do nothing, just continues the apathy.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
You're right, when I am called an idiot, it's acceptable. May I have another?</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
as i presumed, you misread my statement.
however, since you bring this whine up later,
i'll address it now.
since you are not familiar with the people you
post against/with in the admin. forum, you
inadvertantly instigate further (seemingly
negative) posts from them.
this was true of the gary thread. because you
are not familiar with posting styles and whatnot,
you believe that you are proving a point,
when really, all you are doing is starting a
tangent. </font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Do you realize how profound a statement you have just made. What BETTER way to forge communication and new ideas than to not have to worry about who it is you responding to, to not have worry about ego's, or keeping it light. The friendship formality is cr-ap. It means you always posture to defend a friend, even at the expense of intellectual honesty. (as you will prove later on in your "defense" of Blazey calling me a moron)
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
in as far as the 'epidemic' mess....
you have no business doing what you did with
that thread. you complain here (and there) that
such a thread should not be left to view for
many days because the content of that thread
is derrogatory to you. </font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Yes, I broke up your paragraph,it should stand on it's own, and it does not. The epidemic comment is either wrong or it isn't and has no relevance to any other situation. You support such a negative connotation with my name. And you never offer even a modicum of defense when I am the one being insulted.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
however, you have also
made many a post in the admin forum about
particular members... with NO REGARD for their
feelings on the issue.
case in point -- the thread you made about the
'evil' ID someone had chosen. this was, again,
not your place to comment on... but yet you
felt the need to make an issue about it in the
admin. forum.
you complain about slander and yet are no different.
this is what makes you a hyprocrite.
</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
That's so sad. That you would call me a hypocrite because I ASKED, did not demand, I ASKED if it was ok that someone was named after a child serial killer who had killed over 30 teens.
I seem to recall a very good discussion ensued on that topic thread, and there even was a poster on that topic who at first insulted me, and then retracted it when they realized who John Wayne Gacy was.
What a poor example to give Shatzy. It kind of gives me the willies a bit, you are very liberal sexually, but to the point of condemning me because I wondered if the name John Wayne Gacy was a bit extreme for someone to use on Hostboard???
That's sick Shatzy. For you to use an example of a mass murderer OF CHILDREN, my questioning that name, as some kind of example of me being a hypocrite.
This makes me nauseous. Your personal sexual views are not the norm for a reason, our society would fall on it's **** if implemented.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Ever since the TG epidemic topic post, ADM has ignored posts made by me.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
this is utter BULLSH|T and you know it.
[/QB][/QUOTE]
Well, here are FOUR topic questions that were never answered...although, this is a tricky situation. Because if I list a lot of questions, then that proves one thing...If I don't list a lot, then that proves another...But four, I think that is a significant amount.
http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ult...pic&f=1&t=1837
http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ult...pic&f=1&t=1830
http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ult...pic&f=1&t=1829
http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ult...pic&f=1&t=1815
________________________
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
about the xtian thing... as i stated before,
had you been familiar with the poster, you would
have chosen a more appropriate form of establishing
your point... instead, you created a tangent
thread that went no where but to cause other
people to reply nonsense... totally nothing of
an admin. nature.
</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
I'm really disappointed that you view it that way.
Clearly, the "mess" that started this was about Gary's MIDI greeting on Absolutely Wrong's main page, and was now getting out of hand. The bickering had landed on ADM, and I thought Gary crossed a line in only mentioning one-half of what
"offended" him.
It was disingenuous. TWO posters have now come forward and basically chimed in and supported my position. Why can't we drop this for what it is, it was a "discovery" type of post. We all learned something from it.
For you to blame me for trying to put an end to the bickering between Blazey, and Gary, and JC and on and on...that is so wrong. I did not start any of that, but I thought once a topic post could be
skewered and shown to be insincere on some level, that it would help STOP the use of ADM for such foolishness.
I also tried to elevate the discussion to one of content. Making the whole fracas about what one can do on their own forum versus what they can do on the main page of their forum.
You do not to see that what I was trying to do was create discovery from anger. That is how peace foments. Talk about killing the messenger.
The main page should be kept sacred since it is shared by all forums on that page. This is an important "finding", and one that I had never seen
discussed before, and it takes the pressure off of people being angry with each other.
It was a philosophical olive brance I offered, and you did not see that.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
and as for your last comment, i do not ignore
ANYTHING... despite your pretense to think i do.
i never ignore anything on HB... i view all
that i can. because i do not reply does not
mean that i am ignoring anything... merely,
that i am heeding what i am reading.
</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
That sounds like a Star Trek episode about the computer that takes over the ship. You'ze scarin me.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
I am still in shock by Blazey, yet you act as if it was completely normal, the way she just blazed in, set a fire, and left.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
blazey's first post on the DC thread can be
taken in a few ways/perceptions:
your way -- which states that blazey came out
of no where and insulted you BAAA!! BAAA!! BAAA!!
or my way -- which states that blazey came out
of no where and informed an otherwise dense
public.
</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
Shatzy, you're defense of Blazey is very suspect to me. Her behavior was rude, pretentious, and over the top. I meant no harm to anyone. The next thing I know, Blazey's calling me a moron.
It was uncalled for. There were many other ways she could have handled it, she chose the most confrontational approach possible, and you act as if it's acceptable. Makes me wonder if you and Blaze are exchanging those **** sites left and right. (just a guess)
Try not to mix business with pleasure, please?
Try not to defend people you may socialize with with people who are trying to do the right thing.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
p.s. -- if you are referring to the:
#4 alex you are a moron
comment, it would seem more mature to ask blazey
precisely what she means before judging the
context of the statement as rude, derrogatory
or... otherwise.... negative in nature.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
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It's pretty evident that there are those who get defended at all costs by you, and those who you accost.
sigh.
you have got to be insane.
i cannot believe you got all of that from my post.
you are highly sensitive in your interpretation of things.
you do not need to forge communique on the admin.
forum, it is not your place. draw the person to
your board or to their board (if applicable).
to instigate tangical posts on the admin. board
is rude to the admin. period.
if you want an example of wtf i mean, i'll show you.
CLICK
this thread was created on something posted in
the admin. forum. you did NOT see me posting my
tangent thoughts on that admin. thread.
take a lesson.
*******
your slight views on how i defend/do not defend
you have no bearing on me nor persuede me to
do anything about it. you are obviously content
on defending yourself... don't ask it of me.
*******
the resurrection of the GWG ID you brought up
is very significant. it is NOT YOUR PLACE to
push for segregation/discrimination on ANY poster
that has done NOTHING to you.
my referral to that thread is also significant
in that it shows you blatantly smattering the
admin. board with trivial matter of an ID...
the exact same thing you condescend TG for....
don't go there. its the pot calling the kettle black.
but you won't hear of that, now will you?
no one likes to be shown they are a hyprocrite.
thanks for supporting that cliche.
*******
and as for your comments about my liberalisms
in sexuality and whatnot, you really have no
clue, do you.
*******
as for saddling you with the 'blame' for the
DC/blazey admin post... thats just something else
you have made up in your head. i never blamed
you for anything.
as for the rest of that statement, again, you've
completely missed the point.
funny... i'm not the first to have said this
to you recently...
would you like to be handed another clue???
*******
as for your philosophical olive branch...
as tempted as i was, i was not going to talk
tangent in the admin. forum.
had you brought that issue to another board,
i would have responded.
take the suggestion...
*******
you are more than capable of calling blazey's
post what you will, however, we both know that
you really do not know the true intent behind
her post.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Try not to defend people you may socialize with with people who are trying to do the right thing.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
this is really not your place.
you are not supreme ruler on what is 'right'.
secondly, you WILL not suggest something like
that to me again.
*******
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
It's pretty evident that there are those who get defended at all costs by you, and those who you accost.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
this, again, is completely unfounded and untrue.
it makes no difference to me whom i'm speaking
to when i make a judgment call on a post.
blazey, for one, can attest to the fact that there
have been times that we have been at odds...
BOTM and **** nasty are two prime examples.
again, alex, i suggest you do a little more
research in your accusations prior to posting
them.
know your victim/criminal before pointing the finger.
you will be proven wrong by me everytime.
rest assured.
You can believe that I "harrassed" a person because they chose to use the name "John Wayne Gacy" by bringing it up on ADM, but you would not be in the majority.
So, believe what you believe, but at least understand your position is a minority one.
And what's with this "WILL" cra-p. I suggested you not blindly support someone else simply because you might be more than a Hostboard acquaintance.
It's called professional courtesy, to not sit there and defend Blazey for her crudeness that came out of nowhere.
As for what is "right"...I do believe it is "wrong" to favor people simply because they are acquaintances...or put another way, there isn't a **** bit of difference between you and George Dubya. You rant about George and his cronies even as you blindly support your own cronies.
Don't you ******* see that?
oh lord... you are thick.
i did not 'blindly' do anything....
i do not 'blindly' do anything....
i have not taken ANY stance on the blazey issue.
i have merely stated that there are (at least)
2 possible perspectives....
and since you continuously wish to debate this
issue, i choose to argue the ONE SIDE you fail to see.
get over yourself.
and as for professional courtesy goes,
i shall not be looking to you for guidance.
~ fin
and one more thing....
you asked me to point out your hostility....
for once i considered that you would have approached
this issue (of your hostility) with a bit of
maturity. i gave you too much credit.
instead, you have done nothing but behaved like
a child. you still refuse to take a gander at
your posts like anything but how YOU SEE THEM.
tsk tsk....
you lose so much
by the way, those weren't even swear words that the censor censored.
This idea that I must look at my posts to see how others may view them.
The problem is I do look at how others post and always try and give the benefit of the doubt.
Perhaps the real problem here is that others don't give me the same courtesy.
Tsk Tsk.
i cannot speak for others
I then made a comment about Twizzle being in a drizzle...(I hope you don't find that to nasty on my part, especially when I then explained how Twizzle may have misinterpreted my post)
Twizzle than stated they had misunderstood my post, but not before I had been ridiculed by both Twizzle and Ivana much earlier in that topic post.
***********
This was my reply: Don't be silly, I looked at the thread 2 or 3 times.. I'm assuming this is the reply you're refering to as you said 'much earlier in that topic post'. If you think that by saying 'don't be silly, I'm ridiculing you, fine go ahead. Your outburst was silly.
Give me an example of hostility by me on ADM.
Okay, you're familiar with this thread: http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ult...pic&f=1&t=1828
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Ivana:
I then made a comment about Twizzle being in a drizzle...(I hope you don't find that to nasty on my part, especially when I then explained how Twizzle may have misinterpreted my post)
Twizzle than stated they had misunderstood my post, but not before I had been ridiculed by both Twizzle and Ivana much earlier in that topic post.
***********
This was my reply: Don't be silly, I looked at the thread 2 or 3 times.. I'm assuming this is the reply you're refering to as you said 'much earlier in that topic post'. If you think that by saying 'don't be silly, I'm ridiculing you, fine go ahead. Your outburst was silly.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
That isn't the comment I was referring to. I was referring to the "Are you Jealous" comment that you made.
The problem with you asking that question is that it is actually an accusation. And it is virtually impossible to answer the jealousy question without looking...jealous.
Yet to ignore the question also creates a negative. You may have not meant it in the way that I interpreted it, but how can you gauge how others will interpret that remark?
A few months back, EK-2.7 and Tastinggood had a "skirmish" that carried on to the ADM forum. Basically, one or the other had invaded the others mod control panel and changed settings and such.
They both know Shatzy and socialize with Shatzy, and that is why I brought up the issue, on ADM, the exact place where EK-2.7 and Tastingood had had their go around a few months back.
In one sentence, (are you jealous), you take my sincere question, not meant with malice, but just out of remembrance of the past, and turned it into "am I jealous".
I doubt you meant to be malicious at all, but I had to say something, and frankly, no matter how I responded, I doubt I would have come out looking OK once you had made your jealous comment.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 30, 2003 04:46 PM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
That isn't the comment I was referring to. I was referring to the "Are you Jealous" comment that you made.
The problem with you asking that question is that it is actually an accusation. And it is virtually impossible to answer the jealousy question without looking...jealous.
Yet to ignore the question also creates a negative. You may have not meant it in the way that I interpreted it, but how can you gauge how others will interpret that remark?
A few months back, EK-2.7 and Tastinggood had a "skirmish" that carried on to the ADM forum. Basically, one or the other had invaded the others mod control panel and changed settings and such.
They both know Shatzy and socialize with Shatzy, and that is why I brought up the issue, on ADM, the exact place where EK-2.7 and Tastingood had had their go around a few months back.
In one sentence, (are you jealous), you take my sincere question, not meant with malice, but just out of remembrance of the past, and turned it into "am I jealous".
I doubt you meant to be malicious at all, but I had to say something, and frankly, no matter how I responded, I doubt I would have come out looking OK once you had made your jealous comment.
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As you can see from my post above, I've mentioned that thread. Now you say you doubt I meant anything malicious by it but you got quite angry in that thread demanding that I apologize and what not. I doubt anyone took my remark as an accusation of real jealousy.
If you were worried about what others might think, you could have replied with: no, are you? [img]tongue.gif[/img] . Problem solved [img]smile.gif[/img]
I disagree with that. IF you had said "Are you Jealous" in a personal message, where it was only the two of us, your suggested response of "No, are you" would work quite fine.
But on a public forum where anyone who reads it will have their own interpretation, it's much more damaging of a statement.
I am saying two things here, I'm saying that it sounds like you weren't trying to be malicious, but that doesn't mean that that comment about jealousy was not damaging.
*is dizzy*
do you realize how long you've been discussing this?...and it's not in the least entertaining or educational? lmao...now...let's talk about Dunk!
I am saying two things here, I'm saying that it sounds like you weren't trying to be malicious, but that doesn't mean that that comment about jealousy was not damaging.
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You care too much what others think.
I posted on shatzy's board and someone said:'I don't like Ivana' so I replied with: Boo Hoo! [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]
See where I'm going with this?
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Katt721:
*is dizzy*
do you realize how long you've been discussing this?...and it's not in the least entertaining or educational? lmao...now...let's talk about Dunk!</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
who is dunk?
who is dunk?
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LMAO [img]smile.gif[/img]
May I post a pic and show you?
Situation, Situation, Situation.
ADM would be like Congress.
Shatzy's forum would be like a backroom deal. [img]graemlins/angel.gif[/img]
In some situations, it's paramount that you do care what others think. In other arenas, much more slack can be the order of the day.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Katt721:
*is dizzy*
do you realize how long you've been discussing this?...and it's not in the least entertaining or educational? lmao...now...let's talk about Dunk!</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
who is dunk?</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
*hasn't time to show you right now*
I believe Ivana will post a pic for you.... [img]smile.gif[/img]
In some situations, it's paramount that you do care what others think. In other arenas, much more slack can be the order of the day.
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Okay, what does that mean?! [img]confused.gif[/img]
btw - this is Dunk [img]wink.gif[/img]
http://www.imagestation.com/picture/...5/fd477593.jpg
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ivana:
In some situations, it's paramount that you do care what others think. In other arenas, much more slack can be the order of the day.
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Okay, what does that mean?! [img]confused.gif[/img]
The same phrases don't work on every forum.
(by the way, I soiled your dunk topic that Shatzy started, the one about banning him)
It was quite by accident...tee hehehehe
It's my own fault for posting a link to my board on the admin forum [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Naw, I checked your "recent posts".
You must admit it's ironic that the one post that I do read has TG using the word jealous in it.
I probably ruined your favorite topic. [img]graemlins/angel.gif[/img]
You're mistaken - I've got lots of favourite topics [img]tongue.gif[/img] And it takes much more than a reply from you to ruin it [img]wink.gif[/img]
*edited cos I forgot to add* You're right, it is ironic and I like a good irony [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 30, 2003 06:45 PM: Message edited by: Ivana ]</font>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
In some situations, it's paramount that you do care what others think. In other arenas, much more slack can be the order of the day.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
not to me... i am the same regardless
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by shatzy:
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
In some situations, it's paramount that you do care what others think. In other arenas, much more slack can be the order of the day.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
not to me... i am the same regardless</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
me too
Well, congratulations on being charter members of the "youthful arrogance" brigade.
As you age a bit more, you'll change your stance.
At which point you will have succeeded in "having it your way" your whole life.
*sighs*
You're impossible to talk with and you have no sense of humour [img]frown.gif[/img] To you joking and having fun is a sign of arrogance.
*will refrain from commenting on age cos you wouldn't like what I'd have to say*
That's rather harsh.
The idea that where you go is where you are, and never shall one alter their behavior under any circumstance comes off to me as being one with less of a sense of humor.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 31, 2003 03:43 PM: Message edited by: Super-8mm in the DigitalAge ]</font>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor=""><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Super-8mm in the DigitalAge:
Well, congratulations on being charter members of the "youthful arrogance" brigade.
As you age a bit more, you'll change your stance.
At which point you will have succeeded in "having it your way" your whole life.</font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>
**wonders how old you are**