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I think I'm losing my h-ness, and beocming...BISHY!
With my current gf (not the 1 night stand girly), I feel no need to have anyt ype of sex. I'm happy just being sappy and hugging and cuddling... I actually don't really want to have sex, as I think I'll lsoe something in this relationship...
Is reading too muchh shoujo manga having a real life effect on me, or am I just getting more control of teh evil hormones?! (No fscking way! O.o)
It all depends, IMO, seems that your new GF is not that active sexually speaking as your previous one...
Don't worry, it is normal, for you feel well with her and she feels well with you, right?
As a personal opinion, it is only that what matters.
I'd call that you're maturing as a person. (you're becoming an oldie! [img]tongue.gif[/img] )
Damn, I wish I were at home so I would have more time. I'll try to be quick, but I can clarify and further develop all this later.
I don't think being mature or not has anything to do with the sexual interest.
You should keep in mind that sex between two people in love is, besides fun, the ultimate form of expressing love. I can't think of a single reason why you wouldn't want to do such a great thing.
However, every couple is different, and stuff that works for some ones might not work for some others.
You and your girlfriend should always do what you feel like doing and enjoy. I guess it's not much of a problem if you don't feel like having sex, it's far from the most important thing in a love relationship, but both of you might be missing something great. Why wouldn't you want to try?
Oh, I think you think your relationship might lose some kind of... innocence to it. (I don't mean virginity.) Well, that'd be a reason, but you know you'll have to go deeper someday, otherwise your relationship would never flourish and evolve.
Maybe it is just that you are in love and you are under the influence of other kind of hormones that you are not used to.
Your feelings are perfectly normal.
Love? Weeyaaaah.... @_@
Yes, xell, even polls says that the most satisfactory form of sex is when it is done between people who are married, what means that they loved each other enough to give that step, it is, Much much much love. (agh! how sappy! too much sugar!... >_< [img]wink.gif[/img]
Or maybe You = Keiichi and ur gf = belldandy? ^^
It takes the superior man to be content with just being with his partner, and not having to go to the extent of having sex with them to enjoy their company.
I think your in a good position Xell. It may have taken Shoujo anime's to get there, but now if you do decide to have sex, it'll be purely to express your love for her. So no worries. [img]smile.gif[/img]
Uhhhh *reads over message*... [img]eek.gif[/img]
I think i may have watched one too many Shoujo animes aswell.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ July 31, 2003 12:01 PM: Message edited by: Cataferal ]</font>
I shall never be like K1 and Boring Bell! NEVAAAAAAAAAAA!
ph34r!! your hormones are losing potency! MUWAHAHAHAHAAA! XD lol well...its just a new step in life i guess ^^
AHH! You've been infected, Xell! They're coming to get us all! RUUUUN!
[img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img] What happened to the truth?! "chix0rz are teh 3vil ones" as your name used to say.
Anyway, I'll just say, that you might get burned worst this time. Deeper emotions are involved.
To Xellos! Our new resident bishounen.
*Hsss* It's only a matter of time! Save yourselves, I'll hold them off! *cuddles girlfriend*
mmm... Resident bishounen... good thing or bad thing?
Depends. If you're a sorrowful bishounen, don't go to Otakon. Fangirls will eat you alive.
Any other kind of bishounen is safe. Besides, we need someone to throw stuff at and watch them cry.
Lmao!
Nah, I can't be angsty. And whyw ould I cry if you threw stuff at me? I'll be an Aoshi style Bishounen ^_^
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<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ August 01, 2003 06:34 AM: Message edited by: -Wiseman- ]</font>
Hehehe this reminds of the trailer for American Wedding (which i have altered to fit this)
"A relationship is a commitment. The longer you can go, the longer u can go without sex."
Oh hahaha no just don't listen to that ^_^ as long as u genuinely enjoy her company it's fine and don't blame the shoujo manga! lol there's nothing wrong w/a touchy, sappy, cuddly relationship