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Awww, don't be wishing regret on her. Vanda's a cool chica. We want her and you to both be happy, even if it's through being apart from one another. Got it? [img]wink.gif[/img] Cool. Now, ask yourself, why did she dump you? Was there a reason? Will you both still be friends? These are important questions to answer.
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Originally posted by burning_flag:
vanda dumped me [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] john is verry depressed at this moment and vanda will regret dumping me
Nothing quite like a creepy post to get you through your day!!! [img]eek.gif[/img]
i dont know but i feel like dieing
Don't be complicating matters by doing something that you'll end up regretting in the long run. Even though you might think it helps matters, it won't. And getting even is NEVER a suitable goal in a situation like this. Just a few things to keep in mind.
hey Lycan, do i have to make an appointment to see you or do you take walk in patients? I could spend some time on the couch with my problems.
I could spend some time on the couch sleeping! I'm really tired for some reason.
John...I've talked to you before about this.
Saying you feel like dying isn't worth it.
It's just a broken heart you're feeling.
I'm not going to tell you that it doesn't hurt, cuz it does. It'll pass and you'll get better about things. Though, a broken heart can sometimes feel like it'll last forever.
Just take it easy man, and take it day by day...and don't do anything that you'll regret later.
Ans always remember that if it doesn't work out, then fuck it, that one wasn't the one. That person is out there, and when you find her (him, it, whatever you're into...) you'll know it and things will work out. You were "dating", in other words, applying for a lifelong job. This wasn't it.
Now sure how old you are, but if you are under 30, take your time finding that person you wish to spend you life with. Get it right, or as right as you believe it can be. If you're over 30, you also still got time, but the frustration makes more sense. If you're over 40, same thing. Same thing goes for you up until your 80. By that point just start drinking heavily and doing LOTS of drugs and get what you can out of life!!! [img]smile.gif[/img]
LMFAO!!!...love the ending of your post Carl...HAHA!!!
vanda dumped me [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] [img]frown.gif[/img] john is verry depressed at this moment and vanda will regret dumping me
I really dunno what to say other the nit happens and it hurts like hell. Ya gotta move along though or it'll eat away at you and screw up your life.
Just my two cents.
Ya got that right Tyger.
okay I just read this thread and wanted to give my thoughts on this~ I've been a victim of both the dumper and the dumpee - I'm always getting dumped - I mean I was always getting dumped then in 95 I met this great guy who turned out to be 4 years younger than I was - me 21 and him 17 (no chester jokes please) anyways.... he didn't look his age, neither did I - anyways we wound up living a life of alcohol/drug induced chaos - once I got sober I realized that him and I weren't compatible and that he had his own issues to deal with so I dumped him 7 years later - don't ask me why I stayed in the relationship maybe I was just too drunk or spun out to realize what was really going on - anyways my point is you have to look out for yourself and focus on yourself and think for yourself don't let anyone else command your thoughts or choices or whatever, etc etc!!! During the first breakup I met another dude (a musician unfortunately) and he was the greatest guy I had ever met then he dumped me a month later but I'll never forget him though - then I tried working things out with the other ex and that didn't work out either - now I'm going out with a great guy (who's not a musician) and he's possibly the BEST THING thats ever happened to me - I just turned 30 and its true you should wait until your around my age to realize whats out there for you - remember everything happens for a reason and things just happen to fall in place sometimes - anyways I'm sorry for boring you all with life story but I figured it would help me and help out someone else in giving them hope in love !!! Just be patient and love will hit ya right smack in the face when you least expect it!!
".......anyways I'm sorry for boring you all with life story but I figured it would help me and help out someone else in giving them hope in love !!! "
What I meant to say "helping me" was that this was very therapeutic venting out how I felt, and how I feel now - I'm very happy where I am now in life !!!!
im forever on drugs these days ther is nothing else for me to do
Well, I'm not saying wait until you're older, I'm saying don't get pissy about it and too depressed about it until life is getting near it's natural end. I CAN'T say "wait until you're older", as I got married when I was 24. Almost 10 years later and things have never been better. But it isn't everybody who gets that lucky at a young age. I just knew me, and knew what I was feeling was VERY different than all teh other situations.
Everybody is different, but there IS somebody for everybody. Patience, understanding, and compromise, and all works, if it is meant to. If it doesn't work, then it doesn't work and life moves on.
John,I promise you,in 1 years time (which is like a flyshit in a whole lifetime)you WILL feel a lot better!!When I was younger I also wanted to die cos my boyfriend,who I loved more than life itself (it seemed) dumped me.Hell,am I happy I didnt!!Since then I have met many wonderful peeps,met and gone out with men who are absolute sweethearts, and made great friends.It doesn't even bear thinking about that I would have missed out on all these wonderful peeps,and many wonderful experiences.There IS a future for you, a good one!And yes,you WILL find it when time is right!And everybody who has been in ur situation will be a living,smiling proof to this!
<font size="3" face="Arial">Man, glad I never walked with that mentality!!! IT WAS A GIRLFRIEND!!! MOVE ON MAN!!! LIFE IS BETTER THAN THAT!Quote:
Originally posted by burning_flag:
im forever on drugs these days ther is nothing else for me to do
Okay, I've gotta throw my two cents in AGAIN. Here's a quote for ya:
"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else."
Hey, it worked for me. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
It'll pass man just don't dwell on it and it'll pass.
Worse things can happen bro, no need to do something silly ya know?...I think that's pretty true what Miss Ashton said, just have it off with another babe and that should clear up all your problems...You'll soon forget about your last girl, she ain't worth necking yourself over, no-one is worth that bud!!!