Circle of Freinds to say goodbye

Dearest Judy
Almost two years ago, we stood here linked hand in hand to say farewell to Dustin and to offer you our love and support.
Today, you will be laid to rest and I want for you to have the same love and support you did when Dustin died, to see you into heaven and to Dustin's side.
You touched many of us in so many ways. I for one will miss you so badly. Your memory and the memory of the times we spent togather in happy times and in sad times will forever live in my heart
Goodbye my dear freind. I'll see you again someday.

*stands and extends my hand*

Judy...you were a beautiful and a strong woman...you had a smile that light up the room each time you came in...you knew how to make everyone laugh and smile and you were there when we needed a shoulder or just an ear...Its not easy to say good-bye...Knowing you are now with Dustin makes me happy, but we are gonna really miss you Judy.

*reaches out for ~lily~s hand and holds out other hand for someone else*

*takes lily's hand and holds out my other*

Judy.....we shared more then anyone will ever know...good times and bad.....we had a awsome girl's weekend
and I will never forget it.

Thank you.....for being the friend that you were
I will miss you very much!!

*HUGS*

Judy,even though we never got to meet i just wanted to say thank you for being there for me online as a friend listening to me laughing with me and just being there it meant alot to me ...i know you are in heaven with Dustin now i know you two are looking down at us here on earth and smiling with rays of sunshine ,i will never forget you *takes the next persons hand* and says a lilprayer love ya judy!!

*takes Twi's hand*..Judy..you know i never got to tell you how much your words meant to me when we talked about losing a child..you made me not feel anger over it..made me feel like it was not my fault..and i'd see him again one day as you knew you's see yours..i wish i had told you that those words helped me to deal with the pain and anger i'd held for so long..Now here i am today too late..but im still going to tell you thank you..thank you for your wonderful spirit..your kind heart..and loving ways..your going to be missed..please remember your promise to kiss my angel if you got there first...i love you sweet lady..

<font color="#003300" size="1">[ March 04, 2004 10:27 AM: Message edited by: Blazey ]</font>

Judy,
Thanks for being such a great friend..
I shall miss you forever and a day.

*grabs CG's Hand*
Maxine

*wipes a stray tear or two n takes blazey's hand softly whispering*

Judy..
You will be missed immensely. A better friend than you will be hard to find. I know now YOU will be holding Dustin's hand when he crosses the streets of Heaven and smiling down on all those you loved and who loved you. I know that list is long. Thanks for being you.

Friends

A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.


Judy thank you for being you.
Allthough I missed that girls weekend, and the oppertunity to meet you in person you still touched my life in a way few others have.
I'm sitting here looking at my little angel, Brayden and I can't help but to think how happy you must be on one hand to be with Dustin once again. On the other though how saddened you must be to leave your other angel behind.
I know that you will be forever looking down upon him to help and guide him through all of lifes trials and tribulations.
Rest assured dear friend that if there is anything we can do for him we'll be there in a heart beat.
God Bless you Judy......until the day I get the honour of finally meeting such a wonderful lady.... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

*takes summers hand and extends my other hand*

<font color="#003300" size="1">[ March 04, 2004 10:48 AM: Message edited by: AngelKiss ]</font>

*just takes ak's hand..

you guys already said everything.. my heart aches [img]graemlins/broken_heart.gif[/img]

*takes paige's hand*

Judy...
I am having a really hard time talking about this. About you. I still somehow can barely believe you're gone. My heart misses you. I re-read your emails the other night... and cried. I am trying to take comfort in the fact that even tho we never got to meet face to face here... someday I will meet you face to face. Then there will be nothing but smiles and joy. I'm really going to miss you.... I do so much already. Love ya...........

*squeezes bri's hand..........In memory of a wonderful person who obviously touched so many lives......I remember her strength.....and the admiration I had for her....She will never be forgotten......

Judy..
God, everytime I think about you I cry. We didnt keep in as constant touch the past few months as we used to. For that I'm so incredibly sorry. You truly taught us all so much about life, love and patience. Here, even as your days on earth have come to an end. Your still teaching. I'll cherish this little gift you made for me even more now. Love you, and miss you so much already.
-offers hand-

Takes myras hand...judy thank you for showing me that no matter what we go through...your inner strenth will see you through...your with dustin now..we love you holds out hand for next person

*takes a hand and extends another*....I always had deep admiration for Briar and was humbled by the strength and courage she had...she touched my life forever....

takes REd's hand.... and stands silent....thinking of a beautiful butterfly in flight....

our briar~

holds my hand out...waiting for the next~

*takes no one's hand* Bye Judy! See you in a couple of hundred years! *walks out whistling*

some people need to use humor to make it through situations....

[img]graemlins/kiss.gif[/img] TJ


just extends my hand again~

briar,

I still cant believe that your gone. It's been awhile since we last spoke, and chances are i prolly annoyed the hell out of you when we did.
But i do appreciate your honesty, and the fact that you never looked down on me, or my annoying ways. I would say that i'll see you when i get there, but im going to a diffrent place than you.


*takes chloes hand, and holds out my own*

There was no humor in that. I think Hands Across Hostboard is strange. And as for the message, that's something between Judy and I, she knows what it means.

Spyder, I know for a fact she liked you. Hell, everyone likes you, you're the Aracnid!

*holds Thans hand and squishes T inbetween us...waits for the next person*

Judy, right now im at a loss for words. Just
thinking about all the things you and i talked
about the last time we talked. How happy you
sounded after all you had been through, telling
me you knew you would be with Dustin soon. And
remembering how we laughed at sharing the same
name. Wish I could stop crying long nough to
see....just grabs a hand.....

gets outta my place in line..squeezes Chilly's hand ... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

*HUGS* my favorite demon tight
i needed that right now...im still at a loss
for words......our last conversation was just
like she knew...Dyl told me not to cry...to
be happy for her cause she is holding Dustin
right now...right where she wanted to be...
and I know she is with Mark, Marci, Elana
and Amanda right now...and I know they are all
dancing and having a good time...so I have to
stop crying...its just so damn hard...guess
cause my lil men are at a weekend youth retreat and not at home for me to hug...and i miss
them so much right now...

the hell with holding anyones hand...

*HUGS* all of you tight........
I love each and everyone of you...each in your
own way.....everyone has touched me in one way
or another...even though im not around much
anymore...you are in my thoughts...just like
Judy...i was going through my files the other
night and found a pic of Dustin...and sat
and cried...remembering my conversations with
her...and then I came online and found this...
thinking...if only i had come online and found
her when I had found the pic...now im too
late....i dont want to be too late anymore...
i want you all to know how much your friendship
is appreciated...your kindness..your thoughtfulness...even your differences...cause
that is what makes each of us special...

Judy...
Its been a week.

How can it already be a week?

I still don't really know what to say ...

Just that I miss you and you are in my thoughts today.........
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*hugs Tee*

many many many mornings we sat together while i was at work and she was at the hospital and created the best of the bestest online survivor webpage.....

she rawked.


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I agree completely with MrS...you all are special to me as well in your own way an i luv y'all...

Judy...
I miss you still and i will always..Hug that precious angel of yours cuz thats what you both are now angels watchin over those who love you here on earth. until we meet again our friendship will live on in my heart and the hearts of all your loved ones here.*smiles thru my tears*...

*Holds out her hand*

Judy ...you made me belive I could do anything in the world I set my heart on ...just as long as I take one step at a time

We will always love you Judy

..Still seems unreal..Judy...you were always nice to me. You will be geatly missed..*thinks of her and dustin together*...*S

recently i have lost a few people very close to my heart....i haven't been online much....so coming online and hearing about Judy took its toll.....we weren't close in this past yr....seems i or the net faded away....but not a day goes bye i don't think of the people i've grown to care about...i guess what i'm trying to say.....don't be a fool such as myself....if you have some wonderful friends be it on the net or your next door neighbor.....don't let life take over to much....find time to tell them you miss them and love them.....because if you don't....you'll end up like me.....spending your days wondering how they are....and it might just be to late....i'll miss you Judy....i know that in my heart you'll always have a special place...and now....like i said when dustin passed away....my lil brenna will show him the ropes....i asked her to watch over you as well...all my memories are right here....taps heart.....all my love.....bk

*takes BK's hand and closes the circle*

You're a wonderful bunch of people...thank you for taking time to honour a great lady and a dear dear freind.

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-takes a deep breath and wipes the tears from her face- this is Wild Angel.the reason my name isn't displayed as such, is a mix up that isn't important. an explanation for why it's been so long and now I'm posting. I just found out about a month ago about the passing of a beautiful woman and the discovery of this board came last night. I'm not around much anymore and when I am it's at times no one else would be. I sat and read almost every thread that this board offers and I sobbed. The memories that others would ridicule because of where they came from make my heart swell with the pride of knowing all of you. I can truely call you my friends. Over the years I've lost touch with so many of you but there isn't a day that goes by that a thought of someone brings a smile to my face. I remember the hours spent on the porch of the party house with all of the gang and the smiles that we brought to each other. The passing of briar makes my heart ache in a way I didn't expect and that alone teaches me a lesson. We don't choose who we love and our emotions have a mind of their own. I remember the days of laughing until my sides hurt, talks that made us all think, and tears that could fill the ocean to it's very brim. Most clearly I remember the day my son was attacked by a dog and briar was the one to comfort me when I escaped here for a moment of peace. That is almost 7 years ago now. Friendship is timeless. She was a beautiful human being, an amazing woman, an incredible mother, a strong soul and a genuine friend. May the world be so lucky to ever have another like her. [img]graemlins/broken_heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/broken_heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/broken_heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/broken_heart.gif[/img]

*HUGS* you

I still am at a loss...i miss her so much...

i'm in the same boat Chills...Judy was definately one of a kind and one of the best i miss her*sighs softly swipes tears*

*breaks the circle where brii's standin

hi brii! ..*grabs yer hand

oops sorry..its gotta lil peanutbutter n jelly on it...k

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briar!! i never called you Judy! i seen this thread from the outside for sumreason, and i realized i aint on this thread, sooooo i come runnin in here like almost three years later, and only YOU know i still think aboucha alot, and sides, its never too late to join a circle of friends.....

*stuffs the rest in my mouth and holds out hand and closes the circle again

<font color="#003300" size="1">[ October 17, 2004 05:05 PM: Message edited by: M?????a ]</font>

wishes I woulod have found this again before now.

~sits an takes watch for all I could say has been said~

well, its been almost a year since briar's passing. an while i dont see many of you in the chat room, i know that one thing hasnt changed.

briar is still missed..

so alla you come back in the chat room an say hell-o.

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