*looks around cautiously*
There's nothing wrong with it at all. My gf has stuff that she uses when we're together. It ensures that she can be satisfied every time too. And it saves work for me. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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*looks around cautiously*
There's nothing wrong with it at all. My gf has stuff that she uses when we're together. It ensures that she can be satisfied every time too. And it saves work for me. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
you saying you don't get the job done every time?
*snicker*
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Haha...
*hangs head in shame*
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Wow, thank you all for your opinions!, i really appreciate it, it helped me out a lot, thank you! [img]smile.gif[/img]
one last word of advice...
DO NOT take pictures... [img]wink.gif[/img]
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">HAHAHAHAHA!!!, Oh trust me, i don't even have a camera anymore to do that, and the ones that were on my computer, gone!!!Quote:
Originally posted by Peter Peeker:
one last word of advice...
DO NOT take pictures... [img]wink.gif[/img]
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dang, I was gonna ask...
umm, never mind!!
good, very good that you got rid of them.
Damn.
If this is adventurous for you, then I must be a crazy mofo with my girl.
Stuff like that makes things fun / hot. Go for it.
It really depends on the person. If the guy is comfortable with his sexuality and truly cares for your "friend's" enjoyment then it should be no prob. I imagine some guys would feel "threatened" by a possible mechanical replacement. Beware the guy who wants to "borrow" it more often than you do. [img]wink.gif[/img]
In the end, all our advice here is really for naught. We don't know your "friend's" boyfriend anymore than we know you.
Somebody "stop me" before I "quote" again!
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">In the END!!! NOBODY said ANYTHING about doing that!!! [img]tongue.gif[/img]Quote:
Originally posted by Andyman:
In the end, all our advice here is really for naught.
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 09:01 AM: Message edited by: Nomalas ]</font>
ya know. i'm sure no one really cares what i have to say but i'm gonna say it anyways.
if i were the dude, i would feel a little like "man. am i not getting the job done?". but i wouldnt want to deprive my female. so i'd say go for it. but why use a vibrator when a guy can use his tongue?
maybe you can coach him around a bit and you wont need the vibrator. or maybe you're just one of those gals that need it.
i used to do this one chick that could not climax in intercourse. i mean, after three or four hours, you give up. but i could go down on here for like 30 seconds and she would scream and moan her guts out and sometimes even pass out. It was kinda weird.
I see no problem at all with bringing toys into the sack.
But you should remind your lady, according to Arnold Schwartenegger, the climax isn't the best part
Toys are cool. I like toys.
Steve, my beetle gets me where i need to go just fine, but sometimes i like to drive the mini for fun... should my beetle be jealous? [img]wink.gif[/img]
in regards to the toy thing, though I think Leegeta is looking more for male opinions than female, I'd have to say that if my boyfriend wanted to introduce toys into the bedroom, I'd probably not have an issue with it. I know a lot of guys actually get off on watching women use things like that. I've never really considered it though, cause I'm perfectly happy with how things are now, but there's nothing wrong at all with trying new things. as long as it's not dangerous to your health or well being, why not?
and if you REALLY want to get into it..there are actually "make your own dildo" kits where you can make your toy by casting a mold of your man's penis and filling it with the rubber/latex/whatever the hell it is stuff. my sister actually did that. imagine my surprise when I went over one day and she'd forgotten to put away the two molds she'd made for it..I can't look her boyfriend in the eye now without wanting to laugh.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">LOL! But if she's not happy with his "wares" then why would she want a casting of it?Quote:
Originally posted by Tortricidae:
and if you REALLY want to get into it..there are actually "make your own dildo" kits where you can make your toy by casting a mold of your man's penis and filling it with the rubber/latex/whatever the hell it is stuff. my sister actually did that. imagine my surprise when I went over one day and she'd forgotten to put away the two molds she'd made for it..I can't look her boyfriend in the eye now without wanting to laugh.
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<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">LOL! But if she's not happy with his "wares" then why would she want a casting of it?Quote:
Originally posted by Andyman:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Tortricidae:
and if you REALLY want to get into it..there are actually "make your own dildo" kits where you can make your toy by casting a mold of your man's penis and filling it with the rubber/latex/whatever the hell it is stuff. my sister actually did that. imagine my surprise when I went over one day and she'd forgotten to put away the two molds she'd made for it..I can't look her boyfriend in the eye now without wanting to laugh.
[img]graemlins/wonder.gif[/img] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I have nooooo clue. she claims to be totally happy with him (my sister has the annoying habit of sharing every single tiny detail of her sex life with me), but wanted to immortalize his manbits in latex, I guess. might be for when he's out of town or something..I didn't ask. all I know is every time I see him now, I'm filled with the urge to say "hey bentdick smallcock, how's it hanging?"
that might be very bad, though.
i dont think its about her not liking his joystick, its just about trying something new
...well, it depends what you mean by "toy". I mean, handcuffs, nipple clamps, ball gags, razor blades, ice picks...cool, whatever. But a rubber wang? I don't get it. Have no use for watching a broad get off by herself...
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">LOL! But if she's not happy with his "wares" then why would she want a casting of it?Quote:
Originally posted by Tortricidae:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Andyman:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by Tortricidae:
and if you REALLY want to get into it..there are actually "make your own dildo" kits where you can make your toy by casting a mold of your man's penis and filling it with the rubber/latex/whatever the hell it is stuff. my sister actually did that. imagine my surprise when I went over one day and she'd forgotten to put away the two molds she'd made for it..I can't look her boyfriend in the eye now without wanting to laugh.
[img]graemlins/wonder.gif[/img] </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I have nooooo clue. she claims to be totally happy with him (my sister has the annoying habit of sharing every single tiny detail of her sex life with me), but wanted to immortalize his manbits in latex, I guess. might be for when he's out of town or something..I didn't ask. all I know is every time I see him now, I'm filled with the urge to say "hey bentdick smallcock, how's it hanging?"
that might be very bad, though.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I think I might be dating your sister... [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img] [img]wink.gif[/img]
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 11:00 AM: Message edited by: Peter Peeker ]</font>
[quote]Originally posted by Leegeta:
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">not mad per se, more like disappointed that i wasn't involved in the decision making process [img]eek.gif[/img]Quote:
Originally posted by virtualNYC:
2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---
Great....
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Alright, for those of you who are married/ Have a girlfriend/boyfriend, or just wanna pretend that you do (lol) this question regards to "private" stuff...
How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife bought a "toy" (if you get my drift when i mean "toy") and asked you if it was OK just to use it for fun, not for when she is alone, but for when you guys are together, to try out something new and make things just a little more interesting, and more fun.
Would you be mad at her? or would you be supportive? I really would like to hear all of your honest opinions, thank you!!
depends...
if it's a 12" dildo my wife wants to cram up my arse, she'll be looking for a new home right quick...
if she asked me to use said dildo on her, meh...why not. I can read a book at the same time. [img]wink.gif[/img]
I hope i don't get in trouble for this topic (please if you do not want this topic on board i will delete it right away!)
But Peeker, not so much a dildo, just a simple innocent vibrator that's 7"...would you be mad? [img]redface.gif[/img]
in me, or her?
that's the catch.
lol In me!! whoops, i mean, in the girl [img]wink.gif[/img]
not a problem in my eyes. I mean...well... I don't want a dildo in my eyes.
but I'd have no problem with my wife bringing one along. for herself.
I think it basically comes down to what type of relationship you have with your partner.
If it is fun, and they are part of it, then it all depends on their attitude toward such things. I think major problems would come in to play if it was used/meant for times when you are not together. That can bring up feelings of inadequacy and lead to other issues.....
I don't think a clear cut answer to this one can be given as there is a major human factor, but as for my wife and I - won't say anything definite, but I don't think that would be a problem.
I see np with it i get off seeing the woman getting off on what im doing to her.
I think toys can add spice to love making.
But not everytime though, just every now and then, or i might start to get jealous of that toy. [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
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*EDIT* what i meant to say, in answer to your questions---1.no problem with "toys"---2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---3.completely supportive [img]graemlins/pizza.gif[/img]
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 12:37 AM: Message edited by: virtualNYC ]</font>
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<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 12:45 AM: Message edited by: EndQuest ]</font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">LMAO!!Quote:
I love that pic!
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by virtualNYC:
2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---
Great....
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Just don't monkey around!
[quote]Originally posted by Leegeta:
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">not every guy will feel that way, though. so don't stress over it.Quote:
Originally posted by virtualNYC:
2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---
Great....
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from experience, it's cooler if you go shopping for it together, and I definitely think there's nothing wrong with it if it's for you, I mean, the girl, to be used "with" your partner. Toys are fun [img]smile.gif[/img] As long as they don't replace your partner...
I wouldn't see a problem. If she's somewhat adventurous (er, within reason), no wrong there at all.
We can't speak for the guy in question though, so I dunno what his reaction would be. Talking to him about it can't hurt of course. If he's somewhat insecure, there's the chance that he may wonder if the toy is a means of compensation for his skills, but again just talk to him.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">hahahaQuote:
Originally posted by Peter Peeker:
not a problem in my eyes. I mean...well... I don't want a dildo in my eyes.
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 12:58 AM: Message edited by: Cemetery Man ]</font>
Pfffft, that is nothing, I am into a lot freakier shit than that. As long as it doesn't involve golden showers, poo, or anything up my ass, I am pretty much game.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I had almost the same situation happen with my brother!Quote:
Originally posted by Tortricidae:
imagine my surprise when I went over one day and she'd forgotten to put away the two molds she'd made for it..I can't look her boyfriend in the eye now without wanting to laugh.
I dropped by his apartment unannounced, while we were walking past the bedroom I glanced in and spotted this HUGE fuckin' florecent purple mandingo sized dildo laying on the floor!
I about shit a brick, then became curious because he lives alone, then became disgusted at my own curiosity!
I've never mentioned the incident till now...... [img]confused.gif[/img]