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Trust your gut instincts.
I have 2 sons (now 21 and 15). There needs are/were paramount. I was a single Dad for awhile (tough since I was also a Marine at the time).
When the EX was in a situation to be able to care for our sons, they stayed in MD. I then got stationed in NC.
Never disrepect their mother (she should do that to you either).
I just want the best for my kids, she needs to earn my trust after what happened.....
dude, gotta do whats best for yourself. hopefully it'll work out. all the best in your situation.
the bbq will at least be a stress reliever and maybe help clear your mind a bit. I'm hoping for that for myself right now.
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I need an stress reliever right now, but I fear she will take advantage if I go out now. I also have a duty trip on week 33 for three days to Florida and might have to fly also to London. I don't know......I have a headache right now.Quote:
Originally posted by chaserfan:
dude, gotta do whats best for yourself. hopefully it'll work out. all the best in your situation.
the bbq will at least be a stress reliever and maybe help clear your mind a bit. I'm hoping for that for myself right now.
if she does something stupid you can use the legal service to take care of it.
my lifes been so rotten lately and stressed out, and last night the daughter thats taking care of the house and the pets blew out her ankle, but if I dont get somewhere and have some fun soon, I'll have no point for going on. with only one go round at life, sometimes you have to do the impractical. not telling you what to do, just telling you from one super stressed out dude to another, sometimes you have to do something fun to save yourself.
i feel your pain i am always battling with my ex and not by my choice, these situations always suck but you gotta do what is right for you and your kids!!
psssssssssssst.......run the ex through a chipper into the ocean.
(guess I really shouldnt joke around in this thread, sorry)
At least you made me smile for a second.
Got to hit the pillow tonight and sort things out, I am really tempted to get out.
go to the bbq!!!!my ex is one of the reasons i really need to go, i have got to get away to gain some sanity haha
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I know Morti, I will think about it tonight.....Quote:
Originally posted by Mortitia:
go to the bbq!!!!my ex is one of the reasons i really need to go, i have got to get away to gain some sanity haha
Sorry to here this man, but hang in there!
Sorry to hear about your troubles, but if you need to be around for your kids right now, there's always next year's BBQ.
think long and hard about it [img]eek.gif[/img] might be just what you need [img]wink.gif[/img]
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Errr.......I don't really like how it sounds.Quote:
Originally posted by Mortitia:
think long and hard about it [img]eek.gif[/img] might be just what you need [img]wink.gif[/img]
Thanks, you also made me smile for another seconds.....
Ya could stop by my house for a bit, I'm sure I could take your mind off the situation for oh 2-3 hours of nothing but Pain!! Tattoo old school!
Seriously am sorry to hear about this mess. Remember take one step at a time.
Dude I used ta hang with found out his wife was cheatin on him, for the 3rd time that he knows of, theres been like 6+ times. Anyways, he took her back. Didn't think didn't take the time. Dun hang wit him no mo, seems I lose I.Q. points everytime I near him now.
sorry to hear it bud.
women are the devil. [img]wink.gif[/img]
seriously though, I hope you can set things right.
and you better get yer ass to that BBQ!!
My ex returned here. She wanted a second chance, but after all the issues and problems I decided not to accept her back. She is now at her mothers, and I agreed to let the kids stay there today and tomorrow. I don't want them to be with her in that house unless she gets an steady job and moves to an apartment. This of course is not what she wants now, but I have to maintain my position. This is already affecting my plans for the BBQ, now I am unsure if is wise to go. I don't wan't either to have a legal battle for the custody of my girls. At least the 13 years old decided she will stay with me no matter what.......
I know these kind of problem (not personnaly, but a friend of mine had the same kind of situation). Hope everything goes well for you.
Been there, man. Takes gonads to stand your ground. Trust your guts.
I decided will try to make the trip, really need to escape reality for the weekend. I just sent the request to my boss.......let's see what happens.
I'll send you some good vibrations buddy.
I'm sorry to hear about that.
And I'm with EQ about respect. When my parents divorced they pretty much never really tried to make each other look like a bad person and it helped me a lot. Even if she starts saying things about you to your kids, don't get into that. You'll be the wiser one in the situation and your children will recognize that and will always remember it as they grow up.
Thanks Porthos.....