Here's a pic...

It's a large file, but what the hell.. [img]smile.gif[/img]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v4...nsMom/Rhi3.jpg


shiteating grin if I ever saw one... [img]wink.gif[/img] get's it from her mom

go sexy moma

aawwwww.....
miral, that's so cute.

the spawners are spawning. [img]smile.gif[/img]

The Spawners spawning is really a scary thought... really. Can you imagine a mnimiral running around?

LOL minime.
well...yes. now i can.
but the question is: can you imagine a little bjorn-to-be-wild running around. a mini fozzie is a real scary thought.

As happy as you are with the whole baby thing Miral, I'm glad it didn't happen in my backyard. I still hate babies and children so I'm doing the world a favor and avoiding all possibilities of a minimanga.

Cute munchkin [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

Aw, but Manga, a minimanga would be so cute!! [img]smile.gif[/img] But I understand because a year ago I had a different idea on being pregnant. Actually, on being a mom.

That's what everybody says.. "Just you wait till those hormones kick in" (actually the hormones that do kick in that create the 'child-wish' only kick in after you've given birth once already and have recently been analysed to be as addictive as heroine.. so much unconditional love). I'd like to think it's the 21st century and I can ignore my hormones. Plus the first time I decided I wouldn't put a kid on this planet was when I was between 6 and 9, so it's been a long time not-a-comin'.

I never liked kids, I've only touched a baby once in my life and that was when I was ten. Furthermore I am very doom and gloom about humanity and don't feel comfortable putting a kid on a hellhole like this. I just don't think its for everybody. My bf does want kids cause he's the last in line (his birthparents and stepmom died), so that's going to be an issue in the future. Especially since he doesn't want any till he's like 35 which I think is way too old for spawning. I told him to just become a donor. [img]wink.gif[/img]

i think 30 to 35 is the best time for someone to have kids.
they are more stable and mature (compared to someone in their 20s), and they're still "able".

That's true... I sure wasn't prepared and I am still way too immature, but what they hey it's too late now [img]smile.gif[/img] You know this kid is going to get the coolest toys though.

Actually most people here wait till then and I think its way too old. Because you're so stable generally you don't tend to adjust to a kid anymore. Kids get into more accidents around the home here because older parents are unable to relate to hazards for small children nor adapt to their newborns as well as young people. When you're in your twenties you're not as set in your ways so you can adapt your life to your kid, which is sort of what you should do imho, rather then fit your kid into your life.

My parents were 22 and 24 when they had their first kid and it was never a problem. You adapt. After you've turned 30 adapting to anything because problematic. Let alone adjusting your entire life to a kid.

Hence all the confused parents who want to be responsible parents but also want to have a 'life of their own'. They feel guilty about not making a clear choice and spoil their kids rotten with everything, trying to be their kids friend and ruining them -into irresponsible adults- in the process.