Well, here goes;
a few days ago, i was wondering about relationships, (and my obvious lack of one) and i was wondering why people will only get in a relationship if they're both in love, i mean, over 90% of all relationships started because of something trivial as love. There's no sense in falling in love, if you use it as a tool to get into a long-term relationship. I mean, you're both high on love and the relationship you have while in love may be quite good and romantic, but that love is gonna die one day, and you still have a long way to go with someone if you want to stay in that relationship. And on that point the relationship starts to become a lot more 'honest', in the sense that you're having a relationship with a person at that time, not the combination of a person and a revered image you hold.
So why does almost everyone let falling in love guide them in taking a relationship? In the past, you'd have... marriages of convenience, where both persons decided that they wanted a relationship (be it from the perspective of personal gain or the wish for a long-term relationship, let's not discuss that) which society seems to frown on nowadays, but why would those be less good than a relationship where you fall in love first?
Wouldn't it be a lot more honest to ourselves and the other to select a partner on the person her/himself, without something as irrational as love 'making' us take the decision?
And now i lost my lead once again, so please, flame away, and if i recall what i originally tried to put into words, i'll post it.