younger/Older ???

[stingger]

leading on from the last thread, do you think
it is safe to say women fancy older men and
vice versa ???

Or is it a sex in the city type question
" When do men/women become sexually aware of
each other, older for women younger for older men ?"

[RichC]

I don't know why it happens, but my question is can those type of relationships work?

[Branflakes]

Some friends of mine have been in older/younger relationships. The bigger the age difference, the harder they are to maintain, it seems. I always think it's the different stages in life people are at that makes it difficult.

[RichC]

I ask because a co-worker of mine is trying to get me to ask out her friend, who is over 10 years younger than me and I don't know if I should do it or not.

[Jadian]

I honestly think it's a stability for sex arrangement. Who ever is older presumabley has more life experience and is a little more on track career wise (read: money). The younger is more open to risk and adventure (read: sex).
A younger person who wants to feel attractive is safer with an older person who can't compete. An older person who has their life plans worked out will prbably get less resistance from a youngster who hasn't decided on a course of action yet.

That's a blatent generalisation, but the experiences I've had hold it up.

[stingger]

Sadly I find older women I've been out with are..
err...nuts [img]graemlins/bat.gif[/img] . But younger women don't know what they want, yet older women should know better and know what they want ??

Maybe I just attract looney's [img]frown.gif[/img]

[Terygon]

Hey y'all,

Rich: Have you met her? If so, do you like her? If not, are you looking for someone, whether for keeps or just an occasional outing?

stingger: You said it, I didn't.

In general, I agree w/Bran with an addendum. It's all about the people involved.

[Branflakes]

*hugs to stingger* Eventually, the right looney will come along. [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

RichC: I agree with Terygon. I wouldn't worry about her age yet, unless you've met her and think she's way too immature for you. Of course, if you just want a fling, what does that matter?

Most of the people I've been attracted to have been within ten years of me, so I've never thought much about the differences in ages. I agree that it just depends on the two people involved.

[Ski]

my grandparents are 7 years apart and they have been married for like 50 years and shit.