PM's

**starbuck** · January 21st, 2006, 10:07 PM

I think anyone posting what they get on a personal message from someone should have a cooling off period. that is why they are called personal messages.

**JackTwist** · January 21st, 2006, 10:10 PM

Why do you think there needs to be a cooling off period? In the only example of this I have seen since I have been lurking about, my darlin Ennis just posted a pm he received from a another poster who he had never had previous conversations with. So if someone totally out of the blue PM's you and says this is wrong, or that is sick, then that is uncalled for and it should be pointed out. The best way to point it out, post it.

**1inStripes** · January 21st, 2006, 10:38 PM

No, the best way to point it out is to take it to a mod.

**waveplayer** · January 21st, 2006, 10:40 PM

i have to agree that is why they are called private messages, for them to be privaye duh.

**JackTwist** · January 21st, 2006, 11:04 PM

Yeah, but then you dont get a post with a 100 plus response. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

I understand what your saying though. Its just that a mod really isnt going to do anything you didnt do by posting that. What can a mod really do? Its not like its an bannable offense. So if its nothing to harsh why not post it, and have fun with it with everyone else. Yeah it may be a "private" message, though you dont know the person so really its just a rude statement. So you get to call them out for it, and they should learn their lesson.

Though lets put it like this, if one of the female posters on here got a PM for a male poster who made some sort of rude statement to her, then you guys would more than likely support her. Its just a double standard that we have come to expect. Which is fine, because I think its funny.

**imported_juggernaut28** · January 21st, 2006, 11:20 PM

I think you only posted what bigcats said to you to make fun and start a whole new post on it. No one cares if you and your darling is gay. Also your little darling has done said that he knows who bigcats is, so why not just send a pm back to him privately? I respect the gay lifestyle but this is becoming to sick watching you guys post about getting other guys off. The best you both can do is keep some things private and spare the rest of us you sick minds. Also the truth be told you are not gay because I know who one of you are. So you shouldn't get on here and bring up a lifestyle you know nothing about. Also what bigcats said is no more rude than some comments you've made about telling someone they need gay love.

**JackTwist** · January 21st, 2006, 11:24 PM

Ive not said anything of the such. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

Ennis has a smart mouth sometimes, hes pretty fiesty. So sorry for him. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

And by the way, you can go back and look at all of my posts. I have did nothing wrong but share my opinions. Sorry if that offends you, though that is what a forum is for right?

**1inStripes** · January 21st, 2006, 11:26 PM

Yeah, but who say's you two didn't just make it up to start something. Anything can be put in quotations to start something. Going to a mod is the most true way of getting something accomplished. I would think that if a female poster of ours had derrogatory stuff posted she would handle it properly, and said PMer would be reprimanded in a heart beat.