A lot of times the opposite sex wants you to be a friend first and a lover second. Most of us guys are so sexually geared that we want just the opposite. Its hard to know what advice to give, as we are all very different creatures, so no known formula is 100%.
What has worked in my 29 years of marriage?
1. Knowing that we were both in it for the long haul...no talk of "Well, if it doesn't work out, we'll just get a divorce."
2. Knowing when to keep your mouth shut (that went for both of us).
3. Knowing what is important to fight about. Don't sweat the small stuff.
4. Women love to talk with their significant other, so if you think something's bothering her and she needs to get it out in the open, ASK HER!
5. Share in one another's dreams.
6. Have an active church life, but most importantly BECAUSE you believe! Our faith plays a huge part in our marriage.
As I said, probably won't work for everyone, but it has for us so far.
My advice to my son? "The best thing you can do in life for your children is to love their mom."
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