I think its easy enough for anyone to know in the first meeting wether they can work togeather. Both parties seem to have greivences in this. Well guy get on with your lives. The low budget industry is full of false promises and half promises. Take Chances advice, cover your backs, even in a first meeting. Tha Kathy, good luck with your project, to the other, put your talent where your mouth is. To both get over it and get on with whatever your doing.