I haven't commented much just taken in what others have been saying & have felt too confused to really add anything that would make sense.

Now simply let me agree with Michelle's comment. Just as well I now rely on the sincerity? of the music to form an image of Darren Hayes, other sources completely tarnished forever. With the exception of mainly this board and the friends I've made here I wish I'd never discovered the online world of Darren Hayes.