Hello all, i've not been on this board before but having just read your problem I think I can help. Chances are you think you are happy in your current relationship, this could just be the wake-up call that you need to be with the one person you truly love.

To prove this you need to do one thing, first of all forget the new guy for one moment, then imagine yourself 1 year from now, do you see yourself with your current boyfriend? If not then the situation will become clearer and you will know what to do. If so then don't read on.

The second part of your problem is telling the new guy how you feel, if you don't know how he will react if you tell him then just spend some time with him, see the whole picture of what you may be letting yourself in for, you may even find out something that you both have in common that will naturally bring u closer.

Just take it step by step and you won't regret the decision at the end of it.