To upset the 'nice' text book advice...

Ask yourself - 'Why are you with the guy you're with, especially knowing you've had feelings for someone else for a while now?' 'what does he offer you?' - if you've got children, 'whats your personal view on broken homes?' ... be totally honest with yourself - it's harder than it seems

Now the biggy --- knowing all you know 'can you/do you have the strength to walk away?' if you can't for whatever reason(familiarity, financial security etc etc) then don't even consider telling the other guy your feelings. It will just compound your situation and make it more unbearable. An old cliche but you will get over him in time.

If you can walk away - do it and live happily ever after.....


Star - the eternal romantic lol [img]tongue.gif[/img]