I've never been married but i dated a girl with a kid..and i went through some hell there..The baby wasnt mine but i loved her like she was. Id sit at the house with her while her mom was out at the club doing who knows what.. I was in that relationship for almost 2 years but it felt like 15, it was hell. We stayed together and she calmed down a little bit stopped going to the club but started workin at sykes and after a few months we broke up and she done had a new b/f from sykes